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Wonderer (#46980530)
 member for 9 years, 7 months, 27 days
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Bio Photo Disclaimer, The content of information on individual records may or may not be correct. I have had edit request for connections and changes on memorials, one time each party claiming that two different sets of parents were the parents of an individual. Edit request are sent without a source for information.You must do your own research and apply it to your off line family history.

The only accuracy that I can be sure of is that the headstone photo's I have put on Find A Grave are in the right Cemetery. Other memorial I have posted came from obituary information which stated burial. Thank you to all members who post headstones to these memorials. Your hard work and dedication to this project is very much appreciated.

If you would like to request a transfer of a memorial that falls within the guidelines, please use the SAC (Suggest a Correction process)and include your relationship to the person you're requesting, and your F.A.G. number.

Quote: One of life's greatest mysteries is how the boy who wasn't good enough to marry your daughter can be the father of the smartest grandchild in the world.
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Messages left for Wonderer (11)[Leave Message]
Jeff Page
Thanks for the recent transfers. Much appreciated.
Added by Jeff Page on Oct 01, 2017 3:55 PM
Marilyn Andrews
Thank you for the memorial of my little girl.It means so much to me.Thanks.
Added by Karen on Sep 26, 2017 2:05 PM
Deborah J Nichols
Find A Grave Memorial# 68341349 Loren Mellott
I was wondering if you would't mind transferring the memorial me, as I am Loren Mellott's daughter.

Thank you in advance for your consideration.

Deborah Mellott Nichols
Added by Deborah J Nichols on Sep 20, 2017 11:55 PM
RE: Find A Grave double posting requirements
Since you are more than willing to transfer Herbert Spurrier's & Dora Hornbeek's memorials to me, that would be great. He is my father & she is my grandmother, so I am a direct relative. I'm not angry at all & I have followed the rules & requirements. As for your gravestone picture, if someone had to walk that cemetery to find that gravestone, using nothing but your photo, they probably wouldn't find it because they would be looking for a blue stone,& it's black. The mission of Findagrave is to find, record & present final disposition information. If the information we're presenting is inaccurate, or, as in the case of Herbert Spurrier, the information doesn't come up when doing a name search, then we're not helping anyone & that just makes Findagrave look bad. There is already an accurate photo on Tyrie's page & I feel the inaccurate one should be removed because it serves no purpose whatsoever.
Added by Sly on Nov 26, 2013 12:58 PM
Tyrie Hedrick
Please remove your blue photo of his black gravestone.
Added by Sly on Nov 26, 2013 12:35 AM
RE: Sponsorship
It's not an issue of wanting to add more pics than is allowed,I still have room. I just wanted to add a photo of the gravestone, that I took myself, to my baby's memorial page. But that's allright
Added by Sly on Apr 20, 2013 8:43 PM
Tyrie Hedrick

Could u please take the gravestone photo off of Tyrie Hedrick's memorial? I have one that I took that I would like to put on there. Thank you
Added by Sly on Apr 19, 2013 7:14 PM
Tyrie Hedrick
That you very much for transferring my son's memorial on his birthday. I appreciate it very much. Thanks again. Sly
Added by Sly on Apr 13, 2013 8:15 PM
Bessie Nichols
Could you please remove your link to my grandfathers memorial? Bessie Nichols is my aunt. That does not qualify under the "family first" rule established by find a grave. However, my aunt in Lincoln is her only surviving sister, and Bessie does have two children: one in Wichita, and one in Fall City. If you do not remove your link on my grandfathers memorial: I will have her children open up an account, and ask find a grave to give them management.
I realize you already had a memorial before me: however, why would anyone deny family members the right to maintain their relatives memorial? I wrote to you once before: but since I didn't meet their criteria: you ignored my message.
I don't feel I should have to send you pictures. Once I get finished with Roy and Sis's memorial: I plan on transferring it to their grandchildren in Texas (who are very busy raising their children).
I realize you want credit for taking the pictures and placing a memorial on this website. However, you are not related, and did not even know my aunt. That is just the chance you take when you go through cemeteries taking photos of graves of people you don't even know, or aren't related to.
Added by Greg on Mar 30, 2013 9:18 AM
Benjamin Lillard Hargis
thank you so much for adding the grave of my kinsman, Benjamin Lillard Hargis, who was buried in Forest Hill Cemetery in Kansas City; you also had added the graves of his parents in Belton, so i am especially grateful to you (please see below the memorial numbers, which could be used in relationship links)

i have some information about him that you might want to add to his bio

He was the son of Benjamin Finley Hargis and his first wife, Pet Lillard Hargis of Kentucky, but was raised primarily by his stepmother, Henrietta Lillard Hargis, who was also the sister of his mother. He was elected in 1921 to the position of president of the Kansas City Board Trade, a position his father had also held.

father's grave memorial on Findagrave:

Created by: wonderer
Record added: Sep 20, 2008
Find A Grave Memorial# 29948937

mother's grave memorial on Findagrave:

Created by: wonderer
Record added: Sep 20, 2008
Find A Grave Memorial# 29948963

many thanks to you and to the other volunteers who do this work

b (whose mother's grandmother, who also died young, was a sister of the 'two mothers' of Mr. Hargis) (Cupertino, CA)
Added by BetsPix on Oct 02, 2009 3:50 PM
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