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Don & Mary Cavender (#47985243)
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Bio Photo We are both retired Air Force members. We were looking for something to keep us busy and Mary found this site while working on the Family Tree. We decided to become volunteers to help others be able to see the grave sites of family members in a far away place.

We are working on the family names:
Cavender & Stark - Kentucky, Tennessee, Missouri, Arkansas, and Illinois
Kasper & Bartz - Michigan and Illinois
Costa, McGurr, & Vose - Massachusetts and all points west
Nieforth, Slade, & Sinfield - Nova Scotia,Canada & New England

Please consider this as permission to copy or repost any headstone/marker photo we place on Find-A-Grave for your personal use only. Any personal photos of individuals please send me a request for the photo and how you are related.

Any memorial that we add, we will gladly transfer to anyone who wants to manage it if it is not a direct relative.
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Donna Taub
Vose - St Stephen's Cemetery Framingham
I'd be happy to try to find your request at St Stephen's cemetery in Framingham but the cemetery is pretty big and without a section, I'm unsure where to locate them. I've walked around a bit and haven't been able to spot them. Could you contact the cemetery and get a section name and I'd be more than happy to go back and find them.
Added by Donna Taub on Sep 17, 2017 7:13 PM
RE: Mary Helen Cavender # 143191744
Any of my headstone photos are up for grabs. I want family to have anything I have. If I took it, you are welcome to it
Added by Mary(Coggin)Russell on Jul 24, 2017 7:55 PM
J Vogel
The dates you sent to be edited are different from on the monument. Where did you get the information you sent for Jennie Coursey?

Will change if needed.
Added by J Vogel on Nov 28, 2016 8:10 PM
Mrs Fenton
RE: Raymond Edward Bennett # 116453417
Agreed...I was posting records I was finding so I could see it all at one time. Hopefully I will get them figured out. The relation would be distant to me. Both babies had names but the tombstone doesn't reflect that so I thought it should at least be in the bio anyway. I would be fine with leaving it as the tombstone indicates or how you have it now. If you want to transfer them, that's fine too, and I'll work on them again over the weekend.

Added by Mrs Fenton on Sep 27, 2016 6:29 PM
Clara Vose Tucker Phinney
The birth cert on the memorial page for Clara Phinney is likely incorrect. A volunteer tried to get a photo of the gravestone, but unfortunately there is no marker there.

I am pretty sure the Old Maine birth cert on the memorial page is incorrect, because every census report from 1860 on for her shows her as born about 1851--women don't usually lie to make themselves older, especially not starting at age 8! Ha ha.

The Old Maine birth certs are great, but they were copies of records, and errors occur.

Best wishes,
Added by JJoyce on Jul 22, 2016 7:38 AM
Henry Hampton Stark
I cannot find John H. Stark on the 1900 Census, would you please tell me where & when he was born.
Since Henry Hampton Stark was born in 1889, I cannot find him in the 1900 Census anywhere. In 1910 he was already married. Thanks
Added by fpw on Jul 21, 2016 2:00 PM
Mrs Fenton
RE: Edna McClain & husband #141927744
You're very welcome. I transferred Frank to you. You are also much appreciated for the time you put in on this website!
Added by Mrs Fenton on Jul 11, 2016 2:33 PM
RE: Leila Ada Vose #166363061
I created several memorials yesterday at Newton Cemetery in Newton, MA. from the cemetery burial list. I am not close enough to that cemetery to take the photos. Several Vose memorials are related to the ones you created so I planned to ask if you want any of them transferred to you. I have no relation to any of them and will transfer any you wish to maintain.
Added by LMR on Jul 03, 2016 10:50 AM
RE: Mary Frances Hughes Vose
You are very Welcome. Since daughter Florence is the only one listed, I can only assume the last one buried gets skipped. Yet Husband Calvin is missing marker in Lot 69. Is Mary in 70? or 69?
Added by BobBoston on Oct 08, 2015 9:46 AM
Stephen Barneby
RE: Mary Vose
She is my 3d great grand aunt, so we would have Isaac Raymond and Charity (Sawyer) Raymond in common as 4th great grandparets. Nice to meet a cousin.
Added by Stephen Barneby on Feb 01, 2014 2:02 AM
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