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Grave Finder (#21319783)
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Bio Photo If you have a family member that I have listed and you would like me to transfer their memorial to you. You need to send me the request with YOUR MEMBER NUMBER, I can't transfer without it and I'm not going to hunt it down for you. So please I need your member number for a transfer.

If you are looking for a family members grave and find a picture here, please contact me for permission to use it. Whether or not you were directed here by Ancestry or Billion Please ask me first. Thank you

AND PLEASE don't add nasty comments in the flower section of the memorials. If you have a question, please email me or add a note down below in the note section of my bio.

Unknown we are to each other...through time our paths have as we visit one to another...know as family you shall never be lost.

I consider Cemeteries to be outdoor museums.
I am proud to be referred to as "The Family Historian."


Wandering among the stones I see
The stones so weathered and worn
‘Tis difficult to find the date
On which the babe was born

I stare at the stone and am struck with awe
At the life that I knew was gone
This was someone's child, a babe so sweet
With loved ones to carry on

So I take a photo for all to see
For the family that remains
An everlasting memory of
A child of God's domain

I brush the weeds back from the stone
And say a silent prayer
For the babes that had no chance to live
And for mothers everywhere

The dove calls out it's mourning song
Among the stones so still
Echoes of the woes, through time
The choirs of despair

The stone will someday perish
The flowers will be gone
But a photo now remains of this
Their memory lives on!

And so my friend, don't hesitate
To film the weathered stone
Those who live within your hearts
Are never truly gone.

I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. 2 Timothy 4:7

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Lu Ann
Take Care
Sorry to hear that you were affected by the wildfires in California, but am happy that you are safe and that your cats were okay. Watching the fires on TV is scary enough, I cannot imagine being that close. Take care.

Lu Ann
Added by Lu Ann on Oct 17, 2017 7:39 AM
Susan Pamela Perrin
Ole Rummens
Hi there,
The manager of this memorial has now corrected the cemetery Location so you can go ahead and post the picture.
Susan Perrin
Added by Susan Pamela Perrin on Oct 03, 2017 9:46 AM
God bless you & your loved ones, Cindy
RE: Birthday
Unfortunately, my broken finger is in a splint making it difficult to type. I requested flowers and found the date in the email and online, both of which say September 26th. Not sure what you're referring to?
Thank you,
Added by God bless you & your love... on Sep 25, 2017 5:17 PM
Volunteer #46577499
Grave 'not found'? - for photo request
Thank you for the transfer of my grandmother's grave to me. Today, I received this from another contributor...

"I searched the entire cemetery and could not find the grave. 4 people have walked this cemetery, including myself and we never found a headstone. I hope someone else can find a headstone for her. Good luck."

Can you give me any insight into this? If her grave is NOT marked(but exists there)I would like to buy/install a marker for her. Thanx for your assistance!

Added by Volunteer #46577499 on Sep 23, 2017 10:51 AM
Robert Simpson
Dean Lillis 142243987
Received your note and attempted to reply but your comcast account doesn't work.

"Note: Field survey. Not here at Rockville Cemetery. Ashes probably with 2nd wife Hedwig Lillis."


I didn't list a cemetery and I am unclear what needs to be changed. Please get back to me and I will be happy to make changes.

Added by Robert Simpson on Sep 19, 2017 6:55 PM
Ken Buttry
McFarland family
You have Leven McFarland being born after his mother's death (1770 vs 1765). Do you have any documentation of either of these? You also have three brothers born in 1765, Charles being one. Again, can you document this. Census records indicate a Charles McFarland born between 1766 and 1784 (1810), 1776 and 1794 (1820), 1781 and 1790 (1830) and 1781 and 1790 (1840). Charles was my wife's 3rd gr-grandfather and died in 1847. You can find his will on my family tree on Any info will be greatly appreciated. Ken Buttry
Added by Ken Buttry on Sep 19, 2017 3:21 PM
RE: Zelda McFarland

Zella was my 1st cousin (2x removed). I've turned over the memorial to you as the closer relative. You may have noticed I also found the locations of other siblings of hers that you've been looking for and connected them to Elmore and Harriett. I'm still working to find Myrtle's grave.

Added by DCB on Sep 07, 2017 10:45 AM
RE: Mary Adams Brainard
Thanks. After I emailed you, I did find The Adams Family Association webpage which gives the same info you just sent. I think the Kansas and Indiana locations are very close to one another.
Added by Deborah on Sep 02, 2017 7:47 AM
Jeffrey Thomas-Ledesma
Ganell Burt
Could you please transfer Ganell Burt to me she was a cousin and I have more info to add to her bio.
Jeff 46842215)
Added by Jeffrey Thomas-Ledesma on Aug 27, 2017 3:25 PM
RE: Tennessee W Brennan Chinn
Thank you for your reply. I either "mis-typed" or spell check popped in. The last name of her father is Drennan with a 'D'.
Added by SGF on Aug 22, 2017 10:55 AM
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