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Mary (#47037674)
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Bio Photo Read more: The Courier News Russellville Ark - Search Barefield, he was given $850 000 bond in murder case

Please visit my great-nephew FAG #170268882 Aaron and his friend Beau FAG #170630145 who was recently murdered by being shot in the back and then put in a vehicle in a salvage yard and then the car was crushed by the murderer who had the only key to the crusher to hide his crime. You can search the Courier News Russellville Arkansas for details or on The River Valley Leader Facebook Page.
Albert Einstein~
Our death is not an end if we can live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us, our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life.

“To everything there is a season, a time for every matter under heaven, a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to pluck what has been planted; a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance; a time to keep and a time to cast away.”

My intentions are not to disrespect anyone living or deceased. Myself, like most people on FAG add information for personal reasons, genealogy purposes, and to preserve our past for future generations. I document your loved ones with respect, but if you want one removed or would like me to transfer memorial ownership to you, in order to add more information, please let me know, I will be happy to honor your request. My hope is to connect family with family and provide new information.

Sometimes there are mistakes in the cemetery records that we document, sometimes we make a typo mistake. It happens! I will correct my mistakes if you will let me know. FAG is like a big puzzle that we all work on together. If you do your part, the puzzle starts fitting together


I started on Find A Grave on a mission to find out information on my Grandmother(Dollie Coffer Apple)and her family, I am at the same place now that I started, but hopefully that will change one day. Along the way I hope to help create a historical recording of those who have passed, especially for those with nothing but their name written on a piece of paper somewhere noting their final resting place. Hopefully my effort will help with not letting them be lost forever.

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THANK YOU to all of you for your many kind visits and messages. I so very much appreciate our wonderful family here at Find-a-Grave and every visit and token left at my family FAG sites! I would like to say very special "Thank You" to Patty Valentino. Patty makes many many visits to my family members and leaves some of the sweetest notes. It really makes my day to see she has made visits to family members.

Remember me as you pass by,
As you are so was I.
As I am you soon will be.
Prepare in Life for Eternity.


Time may hide our sadness like a smile can hide a tear, but memories last forever no matter how many years
When the tears start falling and you dont know what to do, Think of all the tender moments your Angel spent with you
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Erika Tamayo
RE: Obediah Havner
I do not mind if you transfer it to me. I have never created anything for this website, but I'm sure I can figure it out.
Added by Erika Tamayo on Apr 26, 2017 5:34 PM
Erika Tamayo
RE: Obediah Havner
Hello Mary, I noticed several problems with your page on Obediah Havner born in 1850. My biological father was adopted at birth, and his adoptive mother was Selma Grace Havner. Her father was Obediah "Obe" Havner III s/o Obediah Havner Jr and Sarah Jane Tate. Obediah Havner III was born September 10, 1890 in Dutch Creek, Yell County, Arkansas and died on February 08, 1982 in Danville, Yell County, Arkansas. Obediah Havner III was married to Nell "Nellie" Melchor. Obediah Havner III had two siblings. One was through his father's first wife Sarah Ann Young. The sibling born between Obediah Havner Jr and Sarah Ann Young was born in 1917 and died in 1918. Obediah Havner III's sibling that was also born from Sarah Jane Tate was Lester Bryan Havner. Obediah Havner Jr was the s/o Obediah Havner Sr and Ruth Stone. Obediah Havner Jr was born on January 3, 1850 in Marion County, Tennessee and died on April 23, 1900 in Yell County, Arkansas. Obediah Havner Jr had a brother named Martin Berry Havner. Martin Berry Havner was a pastor and I have found his name preceded with the title Rev. Obediah Havner Sr was born in 1812 in Tennessee. I have the dates and locations for the wives of Obediah Havner Sr, Obediah Havner Jr, and Obediah Havner III.
Added by Erika Tamayo on Apr 25, 2017 10:49 PM
Michelle Morris
Memorial 60163769
Hello Mary,
In looking for the grave of Thomas Alvin Wright, I found him on He shows there as Thomas Amos "Tom" Wright, but I have found the WWI and WWII Draft Registrations for him where his middle name is shown as Alvin, not Amos. Can you shed any light on this? I appreciate your help.

John Stanley,
Added by Michelle Morris on Apr 23, 2017 4:58 PM
Esther Kinder
Lucile Tolman Smith
Thank you for the sweet note for my Mom for her angel day. It made me smile.
Added by Esther Kinder on Apr 23, 2017 12:30 PM
Jerry W. Ferguson
RE: Brearley
Thanks, I might take you up on that. Do you use I know you usually have additional info on your memorials.

Added by Jerry W. Ferguson on Apr 22, 2017 8:53 PM
Jerry W. Ferguson
RE: Photos of Braerley
Thanks....almost 900 to go!
Added by Jerry W. Ferguson on Apr 20, 2017 10:25 AM
BJ Adams
Jim Brown Graves Cemetery
Do you know the location of the Jim Brown headstone in Graves cemetery? Thanks.
Added by BJ Adams on Apr 18, 2017 3:15 PM
Jerry W. Ferguson
RE: Brearley
I don't know if I'll ever get through the whole cemetery. Thanks for all the edits!

Added by Jerry W. Ferguson on Apr 18, 2017 10:30 AM
Jerry W. Ferguson
RE: Brearley
I've got 72 % with photos and I want that to be as close to 100 as I can get it. There are almost 4000 buried there but there's a lot that have rocks or monuments that cannot be read. Thanks for all the edits. I love it when you get them done quickly.
Added by Jerry W. Ferguson on Apr 09, 2017 3:30 PM
Mary Ipe Highfill & Vernon Highfill
I noticed you have visited both Mary and Vernon on several occasions. Did you know them?
Added by Tracey on Mar 31, 2017 10:10 AM
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