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Richard K Thompson (#46900770)
 member for 10 years, 6 months, 21 days
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Bio Photo Note: due to the new edit system, not all edit requests are vetted for accuracy. I try to weed out obvious edit errors, but some do slip through.

Some edits provide information above and beyond the local family group sheets and other sources I have available to me - I'm having to trust others with their edit sources but if there are questions please be aware that in accepting new edits I can't always source them.

I try to indicate on the memorials the date of any edit request changes, but with over 2500 edits received so far (a good thing) I can't always determine who sent the edit if something is found to be in error - the system allows for edit accepted to be viewed in batches of 25, so the time it takes to search for that information has become untenable. I'd like to consult with those who sent edit requests that turn out to be in error, but not always possible.


Transfer requests:

As of May 26, 2013, I am reserving the right not to make transfers of memorials to contributors who shield their identity by being "Anonymous" in their screen names, especially if their profile pages disable messages and email contact.

My belief is that contributors and managers of memorials should be held to a high degree of responsibility to honor the deceased, and the use of "Anonymous" for a screen name, and disabling of email and message contacts concerns me greatly as to how memorials would be or are managed.
Note: Beginning October 6, 2015, I started receiving transfers of memorials from contributor Lyle Fulton for management. I'm not necessarily related to these memorials (nor is Lyle, for that matter), but Lyle wants them to be managed by a fellow contributor for any edits rather than just turning them over to F/A/G for management.

As a result, my statistics for memorials added are now overtaken by memorials managed.

If anyone finds one of Lyle's original contributions now under my management, please feel free to contact me for edits, etc.

In the past I've tried to keep my memorials managed ratio less than memorials added in the spirit of filling transfer requests or for circumstances when others could/would manage certain memorials better than I could.

Just wanted to let others know why this ratio is changing - I'm not one to stick to the four-generation only transfer guideline and don't want anyone to think that I've requested management of memorials far beyond what is mathematically possible using that guideline.

I'm humbled that Lyle has entrusted care of his memorials to my care and management.

I have also documented with memorials and, if possible, headstone photos, several entire small, rural cemeteries to keep them preserved for future generations.

As needed, I use the genealogy resources of the Jefferson County Genealogy Society at the Fairfield Public Library (Fairfield, Iowa) for much of my local "documentation" and sourcing; I also take advantage of the courthouse vital records and probate materials to examine first hand some of the materials that help me put on genealogy information and determine relationship links for my memorials, and to suggest corrections or updates to memorials made by other contributors where possible. Of course, there are online genealogy websites that I often use as well to confirm or not confirm some family information and relationships.

Note: I (and others) also have contributed headstone photos to Iowa Gravestones Photo Project website for linking purposes from the county genealogy website. My screenname on IGPP was formerly "thompsonrb". That has now been changed for all of my submissions to "iowagenealogy.jeffersoncounty" because of my email address change.

The new edit system now allows for suggested links to parents and spouses - for the most part I'll accept them "as is", but reserve the right to verify if possible. Be aware that spouses can be linked either way, from either memorial to the other, so as long as they are indeed already linked, it is not needed to send a spouse edit on the memorial that is already linked to - doing so creates a duplicate link.

Thought you might enjoy this sense of humor! (I am not a bagpiper myself, just found this story about one):

""As a bagpiper, I play many gigs. Recently I was asked by a funeral director to play at a graveside service for a homeless man. He had no family or friends, so the service was to be at a pauper's cemetery in the Saskatchewan back country.

As I was not familiar with the backwoods, I got lost and, being a typical man, I didn't stop for directions.

I finally arrived an hour late and saw the funeral guy had evidently gone and the hearse was nowhere in sight. There were only the diggers and crew left and they were eating lunch.

I felt badly and apologized to the men for being late. I went to the side of the grave and looked down and the vault lid was already in place. I didn't know what else to do, so I started to play.

The workers put down their lunches and began to gather around. I played out my heart and soul for this man with no family and friends. I played like I've never played before for this homeless man.

And as I played 'Amazing Grace,' the workers began to weep. They wept, I wept, we all wept together.

When I finished I packed up my bagpipes and started for my car. Though my head hung low, my heart was full.

As I opened the door to my car, I heard one of the workers say, "I never seen nothin' like that before and I've been putting in septic tanks for twenty years.""

//Richard - /August 25, 2017 (profile updated)

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Mary Escher
FAG Nancy Killion
I don't believe I have left you a message before and if I did, I do apologize.
You created the Find A Grave memorials for Nancy and William Killion along with their children in evergreen Cemetery.

It does not say in Nancy's obit notice on Find A Grave, but can you give me a leads as to who I could contact to see if I can find out if Nancy's mother and father were listed any where when she passed away?

I believe her mother is my ggg grand mother.
I'd appreciate any help of suggestions you could give me.

Mary Escher

Added by Mary Escher on Oct 17, 2017 12:42 PM
Lyle Fulton
RE: Harvey Lee Speed memorial update
Hi Richard,

Thanks for the update on this memorial. I certainly appreciate the attention you have shown for these transferred memorials.

I have not made any cemetery visits in some time now. Would like to, but just don't have the ability to walk around searching for markers. The old legs just don't cooperate.

Hope you and Bonnie are doing well. I watch for your posts on Facebook.

Stay well!
Added by Lyle Fulton on Oct 15, 2017 10:40 PM
Find A Grave Memorial# 167356967

Thanks for your family suggestions -- I would not have found them without your efforts, and have so noted in thememorial text.

Is he family to you?
Added by Starfishin on Oct 15, 2017 10:02 PM
So were Jackson and Lycurgus also children of Margaret Louisa Mullinix.

Having trouble straightening out this family.

I have a note in my records which indicate that Phoebe married a Franklin Prewitt/Pruitt on Aug 10, 1876. The note goes on to say that Richard J. Pruit later changed his name to Richard J. Gudgell - and all of the children were known as Gudgell.

Do you have any other information on this family?

Can't find anything about a Franklin Prewitt/Pruitt and nothing on Richard J. Gudgell before the 1900 Census. It shows that Licurgus was born in Illinois

Added by Shirley on Oct 03, 2017 2:20 PM
Bill Macy
Richard - Would like your permission to use your bag pipe joke. That is a good one. Thanks. Bill.
Added by Bill Macy on Oct 01, 2017 12:22 PM
Nancy Ash
Martinsburg Cemetery
Question (specifically about Martinsburg, but would apply to others, also). How does one go about finding a "cemetery inventory" as they say in Utah; i.e. a listing of burials with names, lot numbers, etc.? Nancy
Added by Nancy Ash on Sep 29, 2017 12:25 PM
Belinda (Smith) Casaday
Hi Richard. The obit you have for Belinda Casaday has the spouse as William Casaday not James as you have it.
Debbie Holst
Added by Debbie on Sep 24, 2017 8:55 PM
Leon Stebleton
Nancy Jane Olinger Stebleton
Hi Richard: the parents of Nancy Jane Olinger were David Olinger (1796-1849), #54274749; and Pamelia Millie Hunt (1803-1844), #59074513.

Just thought you might want to connect them up.

Thank you for the fine job that you are doing, much appreciated.

Leon L. Stebleton
Added by Leon Stebleton on Sep 16, 2017 9:14 PM
Leon Stebleton
Nancy Jane Olinger Stebleton
Hi Richard: the parents of Nancy Jane Olinger were David Olinger (1796-1849), #54274749; and Pamelia "Millie" Hunt (1803-1844), #59074513.

Just thought you might want to connect them up.

Thank you for the fine job that you are doing, much appreciated.

Leon L. Stebleton
Added by Leon Stebleton on Sep 16, 2017 9:14 PM
Pat Ferguson
Victor Dalmas and Mary Hisel
In noting the Find a Grave information for them, you mention a possible third child. I show the 3rd child to be Charles Dalmas (age 3 in the 1880 census with them in Marshall Tnsp, Louise County, IA). I show that he was born 17 Aug 1876 (calculated from death) and died 11 Jul 1880 although the Louisa County Cemetery records show 1886 by mistake.
Added by Pat Ferguson on Sep 10, 2017 8:44 PM
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