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Delita (#47315206)
 member for 6 years, 11 months, 22 days
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Bio Photo Our Daughter Brenda and
Granddaughter Kelsey on
Mother's Day 2017.

My Granddaughter Kelsey lost her special friend Kayla in an automobile accident. They lived together for a period of time and called each other Sissy. So young! Just 21 yrs old and leaving a young daughter.
Kayla Jean Lewis

Debra Lynn Barwick

Debbie's son Our
Grandson TJ Parham
Birthday Mar 13, 1985- April 17, 2016 Suicide victim

June Special Days

Daddy Louis Wisenbaker Birthday June 18

Debra Lynn Barwick Birthday June 22

Grandma Zoia Carter Birthday June 26

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Daddy Louis Wisenbaker
Mama Cuba Wisenbaker
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Wesleyand Gail Wisenbaker
Richard Harold Wisenbaker
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Alton John Jerrold Parker
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What a great picture of Brenda and Kelsey! They are both beautiful. I'm sure they get that from you! Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on May 31, 2017 1:21 PM
rosie mcnaughton
Dear friend,
So very sorry for your granddaughter that she lost her best friend. So sad when someone that young dies needlessly. I saw on Rosetta's page that you have lost others close to you and are having other problems recently. Take care. Sure hope things get better for you and your family.
Added by rosie mcnaughton on May 24, 2017 3:57 PM
RE: Little Jacob
Dear Delita,

You´re very welcome. It was my honor to sponsor little Jacob´s memorial. He touches my heart.

Love and ((Hugs))

Added by Kerstin on May 01, 2017 9:54 AM
RE: Deb
Dear Delita:

Thank you for your very thoughtful note and prayers for my husband and I. They are deeply appreciated.

I hope you are doing better as this month has not been easy for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

With Blessings and Hugs,

Added by Deb on Apr 25, 2017 3:16 PM
Saralyn McAfee Smith
RE: Hi Saralyn
Thank you for your sweet message and prayers, Delita. I am doing well---a little stronger each day.

Love and hugs,
Added by Saralyn McAfee Smith on Apr 13, 2017 8:42 AM
Francesca Josephin
Grandpa Leon
Dear Madam,thank you very much for remembering my beloved Grandpa Leon with a beautiful birthday token for him on his birthday on March 25th.I'm very thankful and it means a lot for me that you helped us honour my Grandpa Leon on His 93rd birthday.Grandpa can see this from Heaven and he's very thankful too.May God bless you and Yours,Madam!
Added by Francesca Josephin on Mar 28, 2017 8:44 AM
RE: Prayers

Thank you SO MUCH for the kind note and tokens left for my niece, Erica.

I read TJ's memorial page the other night. You're right, although losing someone you love is ALWAYS extremely hard, no matter the circumstances, but when it happens like the way it did for TJ and Erica, it is excruciatingly painful. The people left behind are grappling to make sense out of a senseless act. They are left with tremendous guilt. My nephew did this back in 2011. You feel so helpless and it hurts to think they felt that was their only option.

It seems as though TJ had everything going for him, just as Erica did. I will never understand this. In Erica's case, mental illness ran deeper than we thought. So many "what if's..."

I added TJ to my list of angels I want to visit regularly. I will definitely be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Thank you again,

Love, Melinda
Added by Melinda on Mar 26, 2017 6:47 AM
* A Big Thank You *
My Brother Charles ANGEL DAY = March 11th

Delita, stopping by to say 'thanks' for taking the time to visit my Brother Charles today and leaving such a lovely ANGEL DAY tribute for him.

Your kind gesture is truly appreciated.
Added by purple-lady on Mar 11, 2017 12:00 AM
Rest in God
Always in thought and prayer
As your grandsons special days approach know your supported in love. You do not carry your overwhelming hurt and loss alone, I know your grief is deep and still so very fresh but hope that knowing so many of us especially here on Find A Grave care for you and hold you in our hearts as TJs first birthday in heaven approaches followed so quickly by his 1st Angel Day. Not what we want for our children/grandchildren.... to be left with only memories. ... there are no words. God Bless you and your family with strength, with each others support and even laughter at happier memories.

Thinking of you all.
Added by Rest in God on Mar 07, 2017 7:42 AM
vera 💚 swensen
Thank You
Thank You so much for Remembering Mark on his Birthday..Also Leaving such Beautiful Tokens everyday for him and for my other family members às well.. Love n (((hugs)))..Vera.
Added by vera 💚 swensen on Mar 04, 2017 1:46 AM
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