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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Paula Buckley? This awesomely kind lady has probably flowered your loved ones, and sadly it's now time for us to flower her.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for offline personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
Random research note for another day:
Village Record on March 26, 1823 — Marriage — Marriage On the 20th inst. by Walker Yarnall, Esq. Mr. JOSEPH HUNTER, to Miss MARY ANN STARKEY, both of Aston, Delaware county.
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|Harry Habbersett||Joseph Francis Starkey, Sr at Mt. Hope|
If you send me your email address, I'll send you images of Joseph's WW II draft registration card and the Penna. "compensation" he received for his service in the Army during the war. Besides the 5 months he served "stateside", he was in "Foreign Service" for 16 months (but I don't know where).
|Michael Harshbarger||RE: Erminie Smith|
|Marilyn Crawford||Mabel Fleck|
Mabel was a good friend and cousin of my grandmother. I have a feeling that she married late in life. She and her husband, Jack visited my grandparents often and I believe that they took a vacation with them. I remember meeting them when I was a child. If you would like to communication with me please feel free.
|tina definis||RE: Henry Huebner|
yes my Henry/Harry/Heinrich Gotlieb Huebner, my 2nd great uncle was born 1 Nov 1889 or 1 Nov 1890. His parents were Albert Huebner and Elizabeth Goebert. The census info you posted for 1900 and 1910 is indeed for my Harry and family not the other Henry. I can see why its confusing, the same names and similar birthdates. My Henry married Mildred clark 14 Nov 1911. She passed away 27 Aug 1957, and on all the census and her obit, she was still married to Uncle Harry. He died 31 Jan 1958 and is buried at Forrest Hills Cemetery. Thanks for making the corrections:) Take care, Tina
|John Helfrich||Salinda Helfrich|
I found Salinda's grave she's with her daughter. Only a few yards from Charles. I added 2 pictures to her memorial.
I just read your tribute to Herr Wagner and enjoyed learning about him very much. I wanted to share with you the memorial for his wife. As surnames often change over time, especially when migrating to a new country it is conceivable that the spelling of her maiden name has been confused with her actual birth name. Throughout her life, she and her family kept the spelling os ISAMOYER.
Her memorial number is below when you will also find links to her parents, siblings, and one child. A work in progress for your Herr Wagner. :-)
Luella F Isamoyer 96239420
|theGreatGreyMan||Robert P. King #68901464|
Hello! I some more photos of Mr. King's headstone and obelisk in Mount Moriah Cemetery but there's no more room for them! If you'd like i can email them to you directly or if you remove some i can add them. Thanks!
|Tim Ruth||Lillie Garner Dampman #89504950|
I noticed the following in the biography that you wrote for Hester Synder Garner #95358586:
"Another daughter, Lily, married locomotive fireman Henry Dampman on November 19th, 1895 at Lansdale, also by George W Babcock, Minister of the Gospel."
I would like to point out that Henry Dampman's first name was Harry, never Henry. I have not been able to find a birth or baptism record yet, but every other record has him as Harry.
Also, do you know if Lillie had a middle name? I believe the "G" on her tombstone is for "Garner" and the memorial created by Bud Gross #47017267 needs to be updated. However, I don't know if I should have Bud edit the memorial to show both her middle name and maiden name as Garner.
Thank you, Tim #48488384
Added by Tim Ruth on May 08, 2017 2:45 PM
|roger shell||# 47127900|
I've been researching whether this family might be related to my line of Schells/Shells. I found an 1850 West Buffalo/Union/PA record for 'Jonathin Shell', age 10, in the h/h of William(65) and Maltidla(56) Young. Is this your man?
|JCarruth||Rachel (Thomas) Jenkins|
Thank you so much for posting the information on Rachel Thomas Jenkins. She was my great-grandfather's sister. His name was John Issac Thomas. I believe he is the only one who left Pennsylvania to move to California. He told my mother that he read about oranges in a magazine and decided right then he was leaving the coal mine. He was a soldier in the Spanish-American War (but it looks like he did not see any action), and he was a radio singer in San Francisco as well as the librarian at Fort Mason, also in San Francisco. My mom was very close to him, but sadly, I never met him as he passed away long before I was born. I hope this information helps you fill in a missing link in your heritage!
Added by JCarruth on Mar 18, 2017 7:10 PM
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