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BettyF (#47054050)
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Bio Photo This site helps preserve our family histories and information that can fade with time from our cemeteries. I'm glad to be able to contribute and want to thank all of you who have contributed to this wonderful resource.
My husband deserves many thanks for driving me to cemeteries or stopping at ones we see along the road as we travel. He helps me watch where I step and for things that crawl. He has walked many of these cemeteries with me or patiently sat waiting for me.
My Great-Uncle Will walked the cemetery in Cherokee, Texas with me when I was in grade school and told me about some of the people buried there. I wish I had been old enough to realize how important that information was. He was from the time when the men in the community dug the grave for someone for free and it showed love, honor, and respect.
At that same time in my life my Grandmother told me not to step on the graves as a way to show respect. She was also an example of love and respect in her actions as I watched her clear the weeds from my Grandfather's grave by chopping them with a hoe.
If I've created a page for one of your family members or friends, I will respect your request and happily transfer the page to you. Please use the Edit tab on the page to request the transfer so all the information is available.
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memory keeper
Re: BettyF
I never shared any new information with you about Jasper - only his photograph.

Shame on you.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 3:24 AM
memory keeper
Re: BettyF
Greetings,

This is an automated email letting you know that your recent edit for the Jasper Randolph (1826 - 1883) Find A Grave memorial has been declined.
General reason: This edit will remove accurate data.

Link to memorial:
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=30396481

Thanks for your input,
Find A Grave
http://www.findagrave.com

This upsets me greatly. Jasper very much was the son of John and Frances Cooper Randolph, via a strong paper trail. My late grandmother, Vera Whitley McCarty and many others, have been working on this line, for decades. The father of John remains the 'question mark.' Some strides have been made - and new avenues opened - through 'Y' and autosomal-DNA testing.

This truly breaks my heart. You were here first, and hold the power. If you truly believe that Jasper Randolph would wish you to manage his profile, then forge ahead, as you have done.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 3:08 AM
memory keeper
Re: Betty F
"This site helps preserve our family histories and information that can fade with time from our cemeteries."

Your "site" does nothing of the sort. When family members, who have been unfortunate enough to lag beh ind your efforts, seek to establish memorial pages for their loved ones and ancestors, they are in dire straits. Strangers. such as yourself. manage these pages at FindAGave.com. They have been encouraged by FindAGrave.com to build up the site with no monetary loss or gain, to themselves. Quite simply, they have been encouraged to copy funereal records and obituaries, and to upload them, here.

That's all.

You know that Jasper Randolph is my third-great-grandfather, and that FindAGrave will allow you to keep his entry to yourself .... one of the many thousands of others that you already habor.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 2:35 AM
memory keeper
Re: Jasper Randolph
"If I've created a page for one of your family members or friends, I will respect your request and happily transfer the page to you. Please use the Edit tab on the page to request the transfer so all the information is available."

I have tried to do so. You have refused. Please share your direct line from Jasper and Nancy Crabb Randolph.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 1:47 AM
memory keeper
Your Possession of Our Ancestral Legacy
You manage some 8027 memorials, while pushing aside the descendants of those who have passed before them - their precious ones and descendants.

You pride yourself in not stepping on the grave of an ancestor. I was taught to do the same. Have lunch at Saint Martin's in-the-Fields, in London, sometime, and reconsider your passions and beliefs.

Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 1:27 AM
memory keeper
Jasper Randolph
You stated that you have a 'Randolph' study going.

Okay - I'm just asking you for Jasper. Are you directly related to him?
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 12:56 AM
memory keeper
Our Families
Please honor our loved ones, by linking them to their descendants.

It is shameful, what you have done.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 16, 2017 12:50 AM
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BettyF (#47054050)
Jasper Randolph's mother and niece were bludgeoned to death by a slave.

Best wishes, in your research.
Added by memory keeper on Aug 15, 2017 11:34 PM
memory keeper
Re: Jasper Randolph
Shame on you. Are you in his direct lineage? How many memorials do you need to be in charge of?
Added by memory keeper on Aug 15, 2017 10:58 PM
Dannette Alexander
edit/transfer request
Hi Betty, I sent you a request for transfer via the edit as per your profile. Could you kindly reply?

thanks!
Added by Dannette Alexander on Jul 04, 2017 4:37 PM
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