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Trudy Haven (#48146629)
 member for 4 years, 3 months, 19 days
Carol Hudson
Memorial 82873050 Verna Haven
Hi Trudy,

May I have your permission to use the photo you posted on Find a Grave of your grandmother, my 3rd cousin, in my family tree? Family photos are a special treat, when they are posted for others to see.

I am related to Verna through my grandfather, John Franklin Threet, born in Cypress Inn, TN. After he married my grandmother, he lived the rest of his life in Florence Alabama.

It is always nice to meet another cousin, which you and I are. If you have a family tree or have had your DNA tested, please look me up. Or, just look me up!!

Thank you so much,

Carol Barber Hudson
Carol Barber Family Tree, Contributor number 48963249

Added by Carol Hudson on Jul 28, 2017 1:32 PM

Hello Trudy....Haven't heard from you in awhile. Hope all is well. I was wondering if you know where James Lucius & Edna Julia Royal Guyer are buried? Thanks for your help. Lori Adams

Added by LALORI ADAMS on Jul 14, 2017 2:47 AM

Judee Archer
Memorial# 117415134
Hi Trudy,
This is probably a shot in the dark, but here goes. I believe that Elizabeth Wilkerson/Wilkinson is my husband's great great grandmother. Most of the info on the memorial is from the 1850 US census of Pontotoc County, Mississippi. However, the info that she is Cherokee Indian is most interesting. Do you have any more info on her. I know that David Ison created the memorial, but I can't contact him thru findagrave. Please let me know if you do have more info on her or not and if you have any info on how I could contact Mr Ison. Awaiting your reply. Thank you so much for how much you are doing for findagrave. I just uploaded my first picture 2 days ago! Thanks, Judee Archer

Added by Judee Archer on Oct 14, 2015 4:21 PM

Paige Michelle McKnight
Response to message
Thank you so much for your time with your message. Yes I would like to have your information you have. I talk to the owners, I believe they are and they said they have no record of both Pruitts I'm looking for. Death certificate says different and I have walked that yard as well. If I am correct the 10 year old Pruitt and the 20 year old Pruitt are related to my children's side. Not 100 on that but big possibility. No I was not told of the tornado. My email is

Added by Paige Michelle McKnight on Aug 30, 2015 3:34 AM

Mike Daley
RE: Becks At Houston Cemetery?
Trudy: I personally photographed every marker at the Houston Cemetery in McNairy County and your relatives are not there. If you have any other cemeteries in the Guys area of McNairy County that you believe they might be buried please advise & I will check them out when I am in the area.
thx, Mike

Added by Mike Daley on Oct 26, 2014 7:21 AM

margaret tutor
RE: Mary Lucille Payne
Hello Trudy, if you will send me a request to transfer Mary Lucille Payne over to you and then you will be able to add her information. You, I know, will take good care of her grave.

Thank you!
Margaret Tutor

Added by margaret tutor on Aug 20, 2014 3:18 PM

Bertha Avery-Hood
RE: Bethel Cemetery
Yes I did the whole cemetery.
But it has been a few years now so any new folks will not be listed.

Added by Bertha Avery-Hood on Aug 20, 2014 10:26 AM

RE: Medlin Family - Lebanon Cemetery
Sorry, I don't have any information on her. I did a brief search on but didn't find out anything. My researching pretty much stops during the summer months, so it'll be a few months before I'm able to get back to it. If I find out anything on her I will let you know.

Added by SheliaRN on Aug 19, 2014 1:06 AM

Talmadge Goodwin

I visited Memorial Gardens Cemetery in Colorado Springs searched for the grave of Talmadge Goodwin.
Could not find her buried in the stated location.
Checked with the office and found that Talmadge is
interred in the Abbey of Angel Mausoleum, 201-T-3.
I added a photo of her crypt marker to her memorial.


Added by ColoradoPatriot on Aug 14, 2014 10:48 AM

Dennis Ison
RE: Wilkerson/Wilkinsons
I transferred all except 24278723. I didn't create that memorial. :)

Added by Dennis Ison on Mar 19, 2014 4:23 PM

tina stiles
Samuel King
just wanted to thank you for taking the time to photograph Samuel King for me. Since I am disabled, it is difficult for me to get around and travel. So your work is greatly appreciated!


Added by tina stiles on Jul 28, 2013 7:47 PM

Bertha Avery-Hood
Bethel Cemetery
You posted a question on if I had done the whole cemetery. Could you give me a number or address of the Bethel Cemetery. I have done whole cemeteries and then some I just wandered. So I will need a lttle more to give you the answer you are looking for.
I have over 10 thousand photos of stone
Thanks Bertha

Added by Bertha Avery-Hood on Jun 19, 2013 9:08 PM

Delores Harris Cantrell
Flossie & Sheila have been transferred to your care. So happy to leave them in the care of their family. God Bless.

Delores Harris Cantrell

Added by Delores Harris Cantrell on Jun 13, 2013 7:57 AM

transfer requests
Trudy, an easy way to request a transfer it to hit the "edit" button at the top right of the memorial you want transferred. It will take you to a list of choices. Hit "suggested corrections" and type in "request transfer" and whatever else you want in the box provided. It will send your findagrave number as well as the memorial number to the person are asking the transfer. Lot easier for me and keeps me from having to look up your number. I transferred both Gradys and their son.

Added by Pattypop on Jun 12, 2013 8:54 PM

Kim Poyner Woodhouse
Joe Haven

I did an obituary search for Joe Haven buried in Resthaven. I posted an obituary for Joe Haven, but the death date does not match. However, I also posted an obituary for Faye Haven (also Resthaven). The memorial owner posted that Faye and Joe were married. In both obituaries the same children are listed. This leads me to believe the death date was typed as 1969, could be 1979/1980.

I also found (and added) Joe & Faye's son Joe Allen Haven. Also, found (and added) Joe Allen Haven Jr. His burial location is unknown. If you learn his location, I will update. Norma Jean Haven Nunn is also in Resthaven.

Also, found (and added) Henry Warren Haven (brother of Joe). He is buried in Sunnylane Cemetery. I linked Henry to his mother Josie, and requested that Lura Buie (sister) be linked also. I did not request Joe's linking because of the discrepancy with the dates.

Sorry for the crazy long message.

*no relation to this family*

Added by Kim Poyner Woodhouse on Jun 11, 2013 10:38 AM

Kim Poyner Woodhouse
Resthaven Cemetery Photo Request

You made a photo request on Find A Grave in Resthaven Cemetery in Oklahoma City. This cemetery is ENORMOUS, so to get a photo a plot location is needed. Please contact the funeral home:

The funeral home charges non-family members (office walk-ins - like me)to do plot location lookups, so please mention your relationship. When you have the plot number, add it in the PLOT box (if you own the memorial). If you don't own the memorial, send me an email with the information.

Good Luck,

Added by Kim Poyner Woodhouse on Jun 11, 2013 9:48 AM

Havens in Baker's Chapel
I transferred the 3 Haven memorials I managed in Baker's Chapel.

All others are probably under different management.

I also sent you your grandparents. Enjoy them.

Cecil Halford
Walls, Mississippi

Added by Mimosa on Jun 10, 2013 9:49 AM


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