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Jim Comoe (#46581177)
 member for 13 years, 9 months, 13 days
d lester
Lori Davis Tupa Memorial
Your Memorial for Lori Tupa is wonderful.
Very heartwarming and sad regarding her tragic
death. She would be honored I am sure. You were
very much a dear friend. I am glad her Mom found
you too. I didn't know Lori at all, but her Memorial is touching. Thank you.

Added by d lester on Mar 18, 2016 12:27 AM

Florida Boy 64
Lori Tupa
I Left a flower for Lori. I am so sorry you lost a friend from a car accident. I also lost a friend from a car accident her name Cynthia gillig stone 75864427 her stage name was (ECHO VALLEY) you can google, wikipedia, you tube her to find out more about her. To know her was to love her. I visited her grave last year and believe me it was very hard. I would appericate it that you leave a flower for her thank you.

Added by Florida Boy 64 on Jan 24, 2013 3:48 AM

Theresa Peralta
Just wanted to say this picture of you and Amy!! Where did you meet her? We need to get together soon....Take Care

Added by Theresa Peralta on Mar 23, 2010 9:30 AM

May I ...
May I ask how Joseph passed?

Added by Zen on Nov 21, 2009 4:14 AM

Theresa Peralta
How funny....
I think of you guys often..I heard "I will survive" the other day and I just laughed because I remember when you used to sing that to me!! We had so many good times, I will always remember them..I miss you guys so much...Take care and tell Sissy I said hello...Love "Crazy" lol

Added by Theresa Peralta on Oct 07, 2009 3:13 PM

RE: Blanche Emma Wormood Graham
Thanks for the catch that I had totally missed this entire time. Did make note about her DOB - it is incorrect in the obit. Have her death cert and her brother - my paternal grandfather's - genealogy notes and it's clearly the 9th for DOB.

Added by GerbLady on Oct 03, 2009 1:48 PM

Edda Meinikat
Your Mom
Dearest ((((Jim)))), thanks for reminding me of your mom's Angel Day, I gladly left her a remembrance. Just pop in every now and then, it is good to know that you are fine. Yours always friend xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Sep 10, 2009 2:56 AM

Edda Meinikat
Hi Edda
Dear ((((Jim)))), thank you so very much for sharing something of great importance with me, that means very much to me indeed. Please check your mailbox, tried to send you an e-mail but it came back with the notification of your mailbox being overfilled.

Here is what I wrote to you in that e-mail:

Good morning from my end of the world, ((((Jim)))),

I sure hope that this e-mail will arrive at your end and would be very thankful if you just confirmed receipt of my message. Simply have to write you, having read your message on my main page, I feel that there is something really important to talk about.

Of course, my dear friend, I feel both flattered and very honored that you shared that most special experience with me. While I have always believed in angels and also in the fact that there is a lot more to expect after our earthly death, I never had any 'evidence', so to speak, all I had was my unshakable faith.

However, to read this from you now, to understand how moved you were from that incredible experience, is indeed very special. And very soothing, to tell you the truth. I can now vision what happened when my first boyfriend, my granny, my mother, and many more loved ones passed away. They were not alone, but there were voices, and very probably even angels, to accompany them, so I am very positive that they did not leave this world in despair and fear, but with a light heart that must have rejoiced knowing that something absolutely stunning was awaiting them, to welcome them into their eternal life.

Yes, Jim, dear, of course that is something that you absolutely have to share with Theresa. I know that the words, that experience, will be very special for her and help her understand that our Joseph (here we go again, I almost feel that he was our Joseph) was not alone, but met by his wonderful angels.

I had no idea about the fact that angels have got especially beautiful white teeth, but then again, that would correspond to my idea of them having the most beautiful and soothing smile one could think of. Of course they are around, much more often than we are aware of, to monitor us and be there in case we need help.

Mind you, only once did I have an experience that convinced me of that fact. When I had to travel back to Germany after my 7 months in London during my linguistic studies, I made a very quick 'move out' of the flat that I shared with another student, Claire. Had to do that because it would have broken my heart to stay with her longer, so instead of heading for Victoria Station early in the morning to take the train back to Dover from where the ferries leave for Belgium (Oostende and Zeebrugge) or France (Calais), I arrived at Victoria Station around 11 pm.

Well, at that time, there was not much control in that station, it was fairly dark inside, and many homeless laying on the floor, I was very tense and not sure on what to do. Not afraid, but alarmed. Then, all of a sudden, this young man came to me. He quickly started to talk to me, introducing himself as Marty. Now if I think back, I can assure you that if I had met a man like that somewhere in the street, I would not have bothered to talk to him, merely because he really looked like a junkie. However, that was just the visual thing. Marty was indeed very lovely, and the moment he talked I felt completely protected. It was a matter of several seconds only to know that I could 100 % trust him.

Well, Marty could have taken a suburbian train at about 2 am, but instead, he decided to stay with me until the first train to Dover left - which was at 5 minutes to 8 am!!!

All the time, he would survey my luggage, when the first coffee bar opened he would walk there to get us some coffee and eventually saw me safely off to the train. Of course, I gave him my address and asked him to keep in touch, upon which he merely smiled. Thinking back, all that seemed so surrealistic that I can hardly believe it.

Of course, I have never ever heard from him again, but the more I thought about all this, the more convinced I was that he was indeed my guardian angel for that night, sent there to help me.

Anyway, that was my angel experience down here, however, what you told me about someone who makes the transition from earthly life right into heaven seems to be like a sequel, so to speak, like further bits of information to add to the big picture being completed, and that is utterly beautiful.

Of course, I treasure your words for a proof of your faith in me - and I promise you that I shall never disappoint that faith or let you down, no matter what happens.

Now why were you relieved that you were not asked to come on down. Lol, no chance, you are a very special person yourself, more than you are aware of yourself as it seems, and it looks as if you have fulfilled all your tasks perfectly so far. Just like you guessed, though, I am also convinced that you have to fulfill more tasks.

Actually, my dear friend, I wonder whether you feel different, peculiar or more unworthy because of your 'not being straight' as you put it on your main site. That was the first time that I ever read this about you. I had no clue, to be honest, but then again, my very best friend is 'not straight', either, and I love him to pieces. As a woman, I could not have a sweeter and more reliable friend like him, and it ached me for a long time when he tried to pretend that he was perfectly 'conform', knowing that he hurt himself. Only 9 years ago (he is one year my senior, i.e. 49 right now), he admitted that he has meanwhile found his place in life, and that is with a very nice partner. Geez, when Wolfgang told me about that, tears came to my eyes, and I gave him a long big hug, telling him how very proud I was of him.

And you, dear Jim, are no exception, I feel that you are very wonderful and I shall always feel this love and admiration for you. Yes, to put it thus, it is a shame that you may not be 'on the market', lol, or as I put it sometimes, that is a 'waste of material', but then again, that is just my slight irony to express that someone is very attractive and would make a gorgeous partner for just any woman. Lolol.

You, Jim, would certainly fall under that category, but above all, you make a most wonderful friend, someone I am also very proud of, thus feeling so very touched that you have shared your very significant experience with me.

Thinking of you right now, I know that you have got something to look forward to now, your future tasks to fulfill, and that you will do all that with pride and deep love and confidence. Oh, you will be doing great, mark my words.

Please make sure you get back to me when you can, and in the meantime, please feel hugged, I am sending you my love and a big kiss, thank you once again, (remember, you are truly blessed !)
your friend always,
xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Aug 02, 2009 12:53 AM

Vicki Holman
Your Mother was so beautiful
and such kind and loving
woman you were truly blessed
to shared your life with her.

Added by Vicki Holman on Jul 02, 2009 4:25 PM

Edda Meinikat
What a lovely choir for me, and it is even more touching since I know what this day means to all of you. I have been carrying you and, of course, Joseph, in the centre of my heart, and the closer this day got, the more intensive it became. Be sure that I won't celebrate my birthday today, but ours, for all time to come. (Have got a big lump in my throat right now). Love you, ((((Theresa)))) and ((((Jim)))), xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on May 06, 2009 4:44 AM

Edda Meinikat
RE: Hey Birthday Girl...
Good morning from my end of the world, ((((Jim)))), thanks a bunch for the wishes - and I must admit that you sing a lot better than I do.

Your wishes, and above all the love and friendship shown to me, means a lot to me indeed.

xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on May 06, 2009 12:11 AM

Edda Meinikat
RE: Hi Edda
Hello, Jim, I guess I can figure out both who that sweet little bird was and also think of at least three people having their birthday on the very same day; if you include George Clooney and Roma Downey from Touched by an Angel, that number grows. Good to read from you, Jim, I wondered how you have been doing. If you see Theresa or talk to her, please make sure you give her a good hug, will you. At present I am saving every extra cent to be able to visit the USA next year, and it is my dream to meet her and visit Joseph's grave. Big hug to you, my friend, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Apr 21, 2009 6:01 AM

Hello Jim. It's very nice to hear from you. Hope all is well with you and your family and Happy Easter to you too. >:)

Added by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2009 4:40 PM

Amy the Spirit Seeker
Re: Annie Nase correction
Thanks for pointing that out! I don't know how I missed that. I think that maybe the January date came from the old family bible, but I don't remember now. Hmmm...

Added by Amy the Spirit Seeker on Apr 13, 2009 8:05 AM

Edda Meinikat
RE: Hi Edda...
Thanks, ((((Jim)))), wishing you a very Happy Easter, too, may you smile and be fine. Love and hugs, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Apr 12, 2009 7:38 AM

Judith Hall
Thank you Jim
Thank you for visiting our son Randy's memorial. You left a very touching message. Randy and his sister Eva were always very close. Wishing you and your loved ones a very Blessed and Happy Easter.
Hayden & Judy in memory of our son Randy

Added by Judith Hall on Apr 09, 2009 1:30 PM

greg tupa
Greg Tupa
Hi Jim,

Just found this website. Would love to hear from you. Please call 714-713-7286 Greg Tupa

Added by greg tupa on Jan 15, 2009 11:03 AM

Edda Meinikat
Hi Jim,
Wishing you a Happy New Year, hope everything is fine at your end of the world. Take care, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Dec 31, 2008 10:14 AM

Edda Meinikat
Hi, Jim,
What a pleasure to hear from you, especially as I figure out you must be very busy, so it is nice to know that you have not forgotten me. Hope you had a great Thanksgiving Day with all your loved ones. From all I have learned about that occasion, I know that this is the first important family get-together before Christmas. Talk soon, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Nov 28, 2008 3:52 AM

Edda Meinikat
Oh, Jim,
if I was an angel, I guess God would really have a word with me for being a rebellious servant. Mind you, I am only human, a woman who has a heart and a soul and who keeps asking God for the whys. But as you well know, it is not a matter of his having to report to us or explain, rather of our trusting him and having sufficient faith in the good outcome of all his decisions. So I am usually without the answers, but never without emotions. Give you a good hug, please give Theresa one, will you, she needs it so much, as now things are beginning to change, and she is even more in need of her precious friend than ever before. Make sure you see to her being ok. And no, I am not an angel, but sometimes I think I feel what they tell me. Hug for now, and thank you for being my friend, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Jul 26, 2008 12:04 PM

Dear Jim,
Thank you very much for the beautiful token you left for my brother Michael GŁnster. He was such a special person, a special son and, to me, a special brother. Edda told me that you love your sister deeply, so you can perhaps figure out how hard it is to have to say goodbye. I am deeply touched by all the respect paid, by the sympathy into our direction and the warmth that has entered my heart. Thank you so much again, God bless you.

Added by Jutta on Jun 29, 2008 12:41 PM

Edda Meinikat
Thank you so much, my friend
for leaving that beautiful token for my good friend and best friend's brother, Michael GŁnster. Occasionally, I merely give her a hand in thanking people who have left the very special words and messages, Jutta's English is not the best, but apart from that, she is just smashing, while I have always been the romantic person, head in the clouds and in tons of lingusitic books and dictionaries, reading poems, she is more realistic, and unlike me, can manage a household to perfection; whenever I have mislaid something and cannot possibly find it, she comes over to my house to save me. So I think this all matches nicely, if we united our abilities, we would be THE IMAGE of female perfection, lol.
Just to tell you, I shall translate what you said to Michael, or at least most of it. I am not sure about that bit with my being an angel. Believe me, I am just a human with a heart and a soul ... but then again, a very very rich human when it comes to having so wonderful friends like Jutta and yourself. And as soon as she will be here, we shall write a message which I shall translate for her. In the meantime, I hope my thank you is considered a small substitute for the one still to come. Have a wonderful weekend, my friend, talk to you soon, God bless you, your sister and all those you love, xx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Jun 21, 2008 6:59 AM

Edda Meinikat
My Turn to thank you now,
((((Jim)))), when I read what you left for my Mum, Ingrid, I felt that all the words have come out right from your heart. And the fact that you used here first name minimzed the 'distance', I know she would have liked you for who you are, for being someone who cares, someone to make everyone around feel at ease. Make sure you never change, will you. Thank you for the friendship and sympathy you have been giving so far, and for being a wonderful friend.
Cross my fingers for you, may you have strength with regard to the legal procedures concerning Joseph. Oh dear, I wish I could do anything, but then again, you will make it with the help of God.
Please give Theresa a big hug, the way you described her equals my feelings, and no doubt that she might be a bit reluctant about being called 'grandmother', although I am very sure she would make a wonderful granny.
Please take good care of yourself meanwhile and let me know how things go on. Big hug and all my friendship, xxx Edda

Added by Edda Meinikat on Jun 15, 2008 11:34 PM

Edda Meinikat
No need to thank me, Jim, I simply had to leave messages and honour two wonderful angels
Thanks for getting back to me. In some way, it does not astonish me at all that you are not only Joseph's godfather but also the person who wrote this lovely memorial for Lori. A long time ago already I was taught that there is no such thing as coincidence.

Influenced by my favourite TV series ever, Touched by an Angel, one of the most important lessons I learned from that was actually from the very last episode ever made of TBAA, when angel Monica is hoping for her evaluation, and two of her angel colleagues speak about people being funny in case good or bad things happen. The words are as follows: 'Good things happen, and bad things happen. But if you give good luck the credit, or bad luck the blame, then you're not giving God the chance to give it meaning.'

Beautiful, isn't it? And very true. Anyway, I am lucky to have got me (by now) the complete 1st, 2nd and 3rd seasons of TBAA on DVD, obviously from the US, and my very cheap DVD player is that excellent that it plays DVDs national code 1. Wow.

What I meant with this explanation was that ... I am not surprised, both memorials you left were extremely touching. Without knowing the two of them, I felt so close to each of them, as if I had known them and personally experienced a loss.

And I mean it, believe me. I was also overwhelmed when I had a reply from Joseph's mother. While I had a lump in my throat thinking of all the cases when parents have to bury their own children, which must be the worst pain anyone has to go through, I closed my eyes and, all of a sudden, I had this vision of Joseph standing somewhere with a faint smile.

Right, you might have noticed, especially because Joseph, another dear angel friend of mine, Yvonne and myself share our birthday, I have added both of them to my virtual cemeteries. Hoping that thus their lives will be honoured again and again and that they will have the chance to live on in so many hearts. Because I know they both deserve it, and so does Lori.

Anyway, once again a heart-felt thank you. Would you mind my adding you to my list of friends? To be honest, it would flatter me.

Before I finish this up for today, just one info - you were born in the UK. MY country as I daresay. For heaven knows why, and I guess it is only heaven who knows the answer, ever since I first visited the UK when I was 6 years old, I have been having this feeling of coming home. Again, something I accept without questioning. Luckily, the UK is not that far from, Germany, so I can easily get there.

For now I wish you a wonderful weekend, please take good care of yourself.
Dearest greetings,
Edda from Germany

Added by Edda Meinikat on Jun 07, 2008 7:36 AM

I appreciate that. Thank you.

Added by Anonymous on Mar 18, 2008 4:04 PM


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