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Vivian Vance
Original name: Vivian Roberta Jones
Birth: Jul. 26, 1909
Montgomery County
Kansas, USA
Death: Aug. 17, 1979
Marin County
California, USA

Veteran Broadway actress fondly remembered for playing Lucille Ball's landlady, ‘Ethel Mertz' in the hit 1950s television sitcom "I Love Lucy." She was born Vivian Roberta Jones on 26 July 1909 in Cherryvale, Kansas, the second of six children. After her family moved to Independence, Kansas, she was able to study drama under Anna Ingleman and William Inge. However, throughout her childhood, Vivian's desire to be an actress clashed with her mother's strict religious beliefs, and at the age of sixteen she ran away to Tulsa, Oklahoma to become an actress, taking the stage name ‘Vivian Vance,' after a high school classmate she admired. Unfortunately for Vance, her first attempt at a show business career was a failure. Later, when the family moved to Albuquerque, New Mexico, Vance joined the Albuquerque Little Theatre, and began the long path that would lead her to stardom. In 1932, she headed for the Broadway stage, where she struggled as a chorus girl. She got her first break in the musical "Music in the Air,' and after understudying for Ethel Merman in "Anything Goes," she starred with comic actor Ed Wynn in "Hooray for What!" as Kay Thompson's last minute replacement. Although she had become a top performer, the demands of the onstage life took their toll on Vance, and in 1945 she suffered a nervous collapse. After her recovery, she returned to the stage in "Voice of the Turtle" at the La Jolla Playhouse, where she was spotted by Desi Arnaz and offered the role that would make her a household name. Paired with William Frawley as ‘Fred and Ethel Mertz,' Vance and Frawley made a convincing couple despite their twenty-five year age difference. However, their offstage relationship was less than cordial, a situation exacerbated by Frawley's heavy drinking. Moreover, Vance didn't exactly relish playing the role of a frumpy "older" neighbor, since in reality she was only 2 years Lucille Ball's senior. In 1954, she became the first actress to be awarded an Emmy Award for Best Supporting Actress. After "I Love Lucy" ended in 1957, she divorced her husband, remarried, and moved to Stamford Connecticut. In 1962 she reprised her role as Lucy's sidekick on "The Lucy Show," but the grind of bicoastal commuting didn't suit her, so after three years she limited her performances to guest appearances, which also continued into "Here's Lucy," the third Lucille Ball sitcom. In 1974 she and her husband moved to Belvedere, California (just north of Francisco Bay) so she could be near her sister. In 1977 she was diagnosed with breast and bone cancer. (bio by: Edward Parsons) 
Family links: 
  Robert Andrew Jones (1880 - 1958)
  Euphemia Mae Ragan Jones (1884 - 1974)
  Philip Ober (1902 - 1982)*
  John Richard Dodds (1922 - 1986)*
  Vivian Vance (1909 - 1979)
  Dorothy Mae Jones O'Neal (1915 - 2009)*
*Calculated relationship

Cause of death: Cancer
Cremated, Ashes scattered.
Maintained by: Find A Grave
Record added: Jan 01, 2001
Find A Grave Memorial# 1487
Vivian Vance
Added by: Edward Parsons
Vivian Vance
Added by: Edward Parsons
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