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Theodore "Ted" Barr
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Birth: Jun. 29, 1906
Oklahoma, USA
Death: Apr. 25, 1982
Oklahoma, USA

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Ted R Barr
United States Census, 1940
Name Ted R Barr
Event Type Census
Event Date 1940
Event Place Seiling Township, Dewey, Oklahoma, United States
Gender Male
Age 33
Marital Status Married
Race (Original) White
Race White
Relationship to Head of Household (Original) Head
Relationship to Head of Household Head
Birthplace Oklahoma
Birth Year (Estimated) 1907
Last Place of Residence Rural, Dewey, Oklahoma
Ted R Barr Head M 33 Oklahoma
Iva I Barr Wife F 30 Oklahoma
Geraldean L Barr Daughter F 8 Kansas
Charles W Barr Son M 5 Oklahoma
Betty L Barr Daughter F 3 Oklahoma
Ronald G Barr Son M 1 Oklahoma

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record of Theodore Barr and Iva Hickman
Name Theodore Barr
Titles and Terms Mr
Event Type Marriage
Event Date 09 Feb 1931
Event Place , Dewey, Oklahoma, United States
Gender Male
Age 24
Birth Year (Estimated) 1907
Spouse's Name Iva Hickman
Spouse's Titles and Terms Miss
Spouse's Gender Female
Spouse's Age 21
Spouse's Birth Year (Estimated) 1910
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Ted Barr
United States Census, 1920
Name Ted Barr
Event Type Census
Event Date 1920
Event Place Dawson, Dewey, Oklahoma, United States
Gender Male
Age 13
Marital Status Single
Race White
Race (Original) White
Can Read Yes
Can Write Yes
Relationship to Head of Household Son
Relationship to Head of Household (Original) Son
Birth Year (Estimated) 1907
Birthplace Oklahoma
Father's Birthplace Kansas
Mother's Birthplace Illinois
Sheet Letter B
Sheet Number 1
William W Barr Head M 46 Kansas
Mildred Barr Wife F 44 Illinois
Orah E Barr Daughter F 19 Kansas
Roy E Barr Son M 17 Kansas
Roy G Barr Son M 16 Kansas
Ted Barr Son M 13 Oklahoma
Bertha F Barr Daughter F 10 Oklahoma
Esta V Barr Daughter F 8 Oklahoma
Fred Barr Son M 6 Oklahoma
Doris C Barr Daughter F 4 Oklahoma
Margaret L Barr Daughter F 2 Oklahoma

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He is mentioned in his sons obit:

Charles Wesley Barr, son of Ted R. and Iva Irene (Hickman) Barr, was born on June 20, 1934 at Lenora, Oklahoma. He departed this life in Oklahoma City on July 23, 2007 following a massive stroke. He was 73 years, 1 month, and 3 days of age at the time of his passing.

Charles spent his earliest years of school in Seiling. His family moved from there to Vici in 1946 where Charles then attended school and became a favorite among students, staff, and faculty. He graduated with the Senior Class of 1953.

Charles and Anna (Ann) Outhier became acquainted in Oklahoma City and they were later married in the town of Moore on March 28, 1969. This happy union was completed with the addition of their children from previous marriage – Charles’ children, Beverly Kay, Wesley Gene, and Billy Lee – and Ann’s two sons, Milburn Douglas, and Mark Grady Outhier.

During the time that Charles and Ann were courting, Milburn and Mark were especially attracted to Charles because of his genuine warmth and concern for them as well as for their mother. “Caring” was a quality of Charles character that endeared him to practically everyone he knew. In Charles, Milburn, age 9, and Mark, age 7, discovered the true father figure of their lives. Charles was one who had to serve and share his life with those he loved – not live apart from them. Charles introduced both Milburn and Mark to the sport of rodeo. Milburn eventually went on to be a champion rodeo professional and his three children presently continue in that tradition today. Mark is a mechanical engineer serving his country with defense contracting to the Department of the Navy.

Charles was self-employed for most of his working life. His skills in both carpentry and cabinetry may be found in many homes throughout northwest Oklahoma. He was also a skilled mechanic. Most of his recreation time was spent in carpentry, hunting, fishing, and camping. Both Charles and Ann loved traveling in their 5th wheel camper and visiting the beauty of this country. They worked several seasons as host and hostess of the camping grounds at Ft. Supply Lake and made many lifelong friends among those visiting the park.

Chief among Charles’ passions was his church. He had been baptized at the age of 35 and was a faithful member of the Vici First Baptist Church. He served the congregation as a church steward and usher and both he and Ann taught youth Sunday school classes for many years. They frequently hosted the youth in their home and at the local Baptist Assembly Grounds. Charles became his church’s official bus driver and would wake many of the youth from their sleep on Sunday morning and inform them of the time he would be by to pick them up. He frequently would fill the bus to overflowing and make a second trip for more kids.

Such a beautiful presence – such a kind and loving person – will certainly be missed from this community and his home.

Those preceding Charles in death are his parents, Ted and Iva Barr; son, Billy Lee Barr; sister, Betty Vinyard; brother, Ronald Barr and great-grandchildren, Sydney Barr and Garrett Barr. Suvivors include his beloved wife Anna of the home in Vici; his daughter and son-in-law, Beverly and Gilbert Butschek of Houston, TX; son and daughter-in-law, Wesley and Barbara Barr of Midwest City, OK; son and daughter-in-law, Milburn and Deena Outhier of Weatherford, OK; son, Mark Outhier of Shepherdstown, WV; sister, Gerald (Jerry) Young of Vici, OK; brother and sister-in-law, Donald (Butch) and Cheryl Barr of Vici, OK; grandchildren, Ray Barr, Amanda Barr, Mike Outhier and wife Kristy, and Lynnsi and Amy Outhier; great-granddaughter, Madison Outhier; sister-in-law, Pearl Milburn; brothers-in-law and their wives, Troy and Jean Milburn, and Paul and Ann Milburn – and by a number of loving nieces, nephews, other family members, and many friends.

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His great - great grandchildren were murdered:

Arkansas Supreme Court Tosses Death Sentence For James Miller;wap2
Miller faces the death penalty in the slayings of Bridgette Barr, 28, Sydney Barr , 5, and Garrett Barr , 2, .... The children were visiting their mother from Oklahoma.

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His granddaughter:

Name Susan K Vinyard Becker
Event Type Obituary
Event Date 11 Jul 1999
Event Place Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Gender Female
Age 40
Relationship to Deceased Deceased
Birth Date 08 Feb 1959
Birthplace Urich, , Germany
Death Date 03 Jul 1999
Death Place Moore, , Oklahoma
Newspaper Daily Oklahoman, The
Spouse and Children
Laura Dark Daughter Female
Kurtis Becker Son Male
Derrick Coy Son Male
Parents and Siblings
Bob Vinyard Parent Male
Betty Vinyard Parent Female
Edeltraud Bottcher Sister Female
Rosvetta Sandusky Sister Female
Kathey Yount Sister Female
Doug Vinyard Brother Male
Bobby Brother Male
Extended Family
Krystin Renae Dark Granddaughter Female
Earl Vinyard Grandparent Male
Helen Vinyard Grandparent Female
Ted Barr Grandparent Male
Iva Barr Grandparent Female

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Family links: 
  William Wesley Barr (1873 - 1961)
  Mildred Adam Barr (1875 - 1944)
  Iva Irene Hickman Barr (1910 - 1993)
  Charles Wesley Barr (1934 - 2007)*
  Betty Louise Barr Vinyard O'Brien (1936 - 1997)*
  Ronald G Barr (1938 - 1999)*
  Orah Elizabeth Barr Springer (1901 - 1982)*
  Ray E. Barr (1902 - 1989)*
  Roy G Barr (1903 - 1975)*
  Theodore Barr (1906 - 1982)
  Esta L Mohr (1911 - 1979)*
  William Fred Barr (1913 - 2004)*
  Doris C. Barr Borneman (1915 - 1982)*
  Margaret Lucy Barr Holland (1917 - 2003)*
*Calculated relationship
Vassar Cemetery
Dewey County
Oklahoma, USA
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Record added: Aug 09, 2011
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Theodore Ted Barr
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