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Barbara Mai Bender
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Birth: Jan. 7, 1832
Darmstädter Stadtkreis
Hessen, Germany
Death: Dec. 18, 1922
Hudson County
New Jersey, USA

Barbara was born in Germany, immigrated & married Georg Bender. While living in New Jersey, they had 5 children between 1857 & 1863. Although unproven, a family story has stated that Georg died in a house fire. Unfortunately, she lived in a time where there was no help available for those experiencing mental health difficulties. Barbara spent the last 50+ years of her life in the Hudson County Hospital for the Insane. She died & was buried on 21 Dec 1922. 
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  Mathilde Bender Pflaumer (1857 - 1947)*
*Calculated relationship
Hudson County Burial Ground (Defunct)
Hudson County
New Jersey, USA
Plot: Lot 5141, Top.
Created by: andringa
Record added: Feb 02, 2013
Find A Grave Memorial# 104545453
Barbara <i>Mai</i> Bender
Added by: andringa
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Rest in Peace
- andringa
 Added: Feb. 2, 2013

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