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Peter George Doyle
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Birth: Jun. 3, 1843
County Limerick, Ireland
Death: Apr. 19, 1907
Philadelphia County
Pennsylvania, USA

Devoted friend, companion and lover of the poet Walt Whitman.
Son of Peter Doyle and Catherine Nash Doyle. Although he sometimes claimed to be born in 1847, biographers and researchers found records that he was born on June 3rd, 1843.
At age 8 Pete and his family left Ireland for America, and settled first in Alexandria, Virginia, and then in Richmond. At the beginning of the Civil War Pete joined the Confederate Army and was wounded at the Battle of Sharpsburg (Antietam). In 1863 he was captured by Union Forces and taken prisoner. Relatives in Washington managed to get him released from prison because he was technically a citizen of Great Britain (which Ireland was part of) and although he refused to swear allegiance to the Union, be promised not to take up arms against it.
Peter found employment as a "Horse-Car Conductor" in Washington. On one cold winter night in 1865 he met the poet Walt Whitman. In Peter's words: "We were familiar at once - I put my hand on his knee - we understood."
There was a romantic relationship between the bearded poet and the ex-Rebel soldier. Early biographers tended to understate this relationship because until recently homosexuality was considered absolutely shameful and criminal. In the volumes of letters between the two men, there are no explicit or graphic descriptions of a sexual nature; this was taboo in Victorian times. They called eachother "Darling" and "Dearest Comrade."
Years later Peter was described by his niece Mary Catherine to her daughter Mary, as "a homosexual."
In 1873 Walt suffered a stroke and soon after his mother died. It was necessary for Walt to move in with his brother George, who lived in Camden, New Jersey. Pete visited Walt sporadically in the years that followed, but Walt's primary friendship with Harry Stafford and others blossomed. Walt Whitman died in 1892, and Peter was almost accidentally turned away at the funeral.
Peter lived his last years in Philadelphia, became a member of the United Confederate Veterans and the Elks. He died of a kidney ailment on April 19, 1907. A biography of Peter Doyle appeared by Martin G. Murray in the Walt Whitman Quarterly Review #12 (Summer 1994). (Note: the age carved on his monument is not correct, it is now known that Peter represented himself as being a few years younger than his real age).
Family links: 
  Catherine Nash Doyle (1810 - 1885)
  Francis Michael Doyle (1833 - 1871)*
  Peter George Doyle (1843 - 1907)
  Edward Doyle (1852 - 1900)*
*Calculated relationship
Congressional Cemetery
District of Columbia
District Of Columbia, USA
GPS (lat/lon): 38.88177, -76.98042
Created by: Buddy from Budd Lake
Record added: Dec 27, 2006
Find A Grave Memorial# 17171807
Peter George Doyle
Added by: Jen Walston Harris Hill
Peter George Doyle
Added by: Jen Walston Harris Hill
Peter George Doyle
Added by: Buddy from Budd Lake
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Belated birthday and Pride Month blessings.
- Kate Duvall
 Added: Jun. 27, 2017
Happy birthday and pride, Pete! We love you and we will always remember you!
- Kate
 Added: Jun. 3, 2017

- Diana McDevitt Eyler
 Added: Feb. 18, 2017
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