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Betty Lou Armstrong Payne
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Birth: Mar. 4, 1923
Peoria County
Illinois, USA
Death: Jan. 4, 2001
Punta Gorda
Charlotte County
Florida, USA

Betty Lou Armstrong Payne was married to John Erxleben who died in WW2 overseas. Later married to William Russell Payne (deceased, and has two sons, Michael and Steve residing the Peoria, Illinois area. She was a sister to Alice Armstrong Solomon, John Gerald (Jerry) Armstrong, and William (Bill) Armstrong, who is her twin. Bobby Caho, a friend and companion and long time confidante of many years helped care for her during her illness. Ironically Betty and Bill, the twins, both died on January 4 of different years, the date of which was their sister Alice's birthday.

Thanks to MWarner for adding the Obituary and grave marker photos. Although corrections need to be made on the obituary column. Betty Payne was never married to Bobbie Caho. Her first husband was John Erxleben, who was killed in WW2, and her second husband was William(Bill) Russell Payne. Her oldest son's given name was William Michael Payne, but has always been known as Michael Payne. 
Family links: 
  Ernest B Armstrong (1890 - 1931)
  John E Erxleben (____ - 1944)*
  William R. Payne (1924 - 2001)*
  John Gerald Armstrong (1910 - 1995)*
  Alice W Armstrong Solomon (1915 - 1982)*
  William J. Armstrong (1923 - 1994)*
  Betty Lou Armstrong Payne (1923 - 2001)
*Calculated relationship
Royal Palm Memorial Gardens
Punta Gorda
Charlotte County
Florida, USA
Created by: David Solomon
Record added: Apr 07, 2006
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Betty Lou <i>Armstrong</i> Payne
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