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COL Dwight Eugene "Gene" Howard
Birth: Sep. 23, 1924
Des Moines
Polk County
Iowa, USA
Death: Dec. 2, 1973
San Diego
San Diego County
California, USA

Dwight Eugene "Gene" Howard was born in Des Moines, Iowa and was the second son of Dwight Vincent Howard and Beryl Daisy Mellor. An older brother, Kay, died as a baby of pneumonia.

My Uncle Gene attended school in Des Moines and used to earn money as a young boy delivering the newspaper. His parents divorced and he and his younger brother lived with their mother who ran a beauty salon at their home.

Upon graduation from North High School in 1943, Uncle Gene enlisted in the Marine Corps. After completing boot camp he served in the South Pacific until WWII ended. Once his enlistment was up he attended Iowa State University and graduated with an engineering degree.

Deciding he once again wanted to be a Marine, he applied for and was accepted into the Officer Candidate School in Quantico, Virginia. This led to a long and successful career as a Marine Officer.

While at the VA Hospital in Des Moines, Uncle Gene met an Army nurse, Cecile Mary Jane Audy, a native of Quebec. He converted to Catholicism and they were married at St. Ambrose Cathedral in Des Moines. They were definitely a study in contrasts - he was very fair (we sometimes referred to him as Uncle Pinky) and stood 6'3". Aunt Cel was only 4'11" and featured black hair with an olive complexion.

Working his way up through the ranks, there were moves to Hawaii, Okinawa, Camp Pendleton and to Wisconsin where he taught at Marquette University as part of their ROTC program.

His career culminated with his promotion and appointment as commander of the First Marine Division at Camp Pendleton, where he served until his life was cut short. He had taken my aunt to a doctor visit in early 1973 when the doctor expressed concern for his physical appearance. Tests were ordered and the results indicated he had leukemia.

Understandably, the entire family was stunned and my uncle's hopes to retire as a general were cruelly dashed. In spite of chemotherapy and all the treatment available at that time, his conditon worsened. He was retired as a full Colonel in November, 1973 and died a few weeks later.

After his death, Uncle Gene's body was flown to Virginia and he was buried with full military honors bedfitting his rank at Arlington National Cemetery.

Looking back, it is incredible that living the disciplined life of a dedicated Marine, in excellent physical condition (thanks to daily 4:00 a.m. calisthenics) and serving in three wars - WWII, Korea and Viet Nam - he succumbed to something far more insidious than an enemy bullet. 
Family links: 
  Dwight Vincent Howard (1900 - 1945)
  Beryl Daisy Mellor Haynes (1904 - 1981)
  Cecile Mary Jane Audy Howard (1918 - 1988)
  Michael Henri Howard (1954 - 2008)*
  Kay Douglas Howard (1922 - 1923)*
  Dwight Eugene Howard (1924 - 1973)
  Thornton Mellor Howard (1927 - 2004)*
*Calculated relationship
Arlington National Cemetery
Arlington County
Virginia, USA
Created by: Jane M. Howard
Record added: Mar 13, 2007
Find A Grave Memorial# 18373837
COL Dwight Eugene Gene Howard
Added by: tracy howard
COL Dwight Eugene Gene Howard
Added by: tracy howard
COL Dwight Eugene Gene Howard
Added by: tracy howard
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