Cemetery records lists this as a cremation.

No headstone.

New York, State Census, 1915

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Name Nellie Whitehead
Birth Year abt 1912
Birth Place United States
Age 3
Gender Female
Residence Place Tuxedo, Orange
Relationship Daughter
Color or Race White
Number of years in US 3
Assembly District 02
Line Number 23
Page number 07
Household Members
Name Age
Joseph Whitehead 39
Frances Whitehead 27
Elizabeth Whitehead 10
Edith Whitehead 8
Minnie Whitehead 6
Nellie Whitehead 3
Sara Whitehead

1920 United States Federal Census Record
about Nellie May Whitehead
Name: Nellie May Whitehead
Age: 8 years
Estimated birth year: abt 1912
Birthplace: New Jersey
Race: White
Home in 1920: Warwick, Orange, New York
Sex: Female
Marital status: Single
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
Mother's Birth Place: New York
Father's Birth Place: New York
Image: 763
Enumerated in the household of Joseph and Frances Whitehead.

Married first: SPOUSE: Hobart Whetham

1930 United States Federal Census

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Name Ellene Whetam
Age in 1930 18
Birth Year abt 1912
Gender Female
Race White
Birthplace New Jersey
Marital Status Married
Relation to Head of House Wife
Homemaker? Yes
Home in 1930 Ringwood, Passaic, New Jersey
Street Address Greenwood Lake Turnpike Erskine
Dwelling Number 9
Family Number 9
Age at First Marriage 16
Attended School No
Able to Read and Write Yes
Father's Birthplace New Jersey
Mother's Birthplace New Jersey
Able to Speak English Yes
Household Members
Name Age
Herbert Whetam 22
Ellene Whetam 18
Elizabeth Whetam 1

1940 United States Federal Census

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Name Mrs Nellie Whetham
Respondent Yes
Age 28
Estimated Birth Year abt 1912
Gender Female
Race White
Birthplace New Jersey
Marital Status Married
Relation to Head of House Wife
Home in 1940 Ringwood, Passaic, New Jersey
Street Ringwood Avenue
Inferred Residence in 1935 Ringwood, Passaic, New Jersey
Residence in 1935 Same Place Passaic New Jersey
Sheet Number 11B
Attended School or College No
Highest Grade Completed Elementary school, 6th grade
Weeks Worked in 1939 0
Income 0
Income Other Sources No
Household Members
Name Age
Hobert Whetham 31
Mrs Nellie Whetham 28
Elizabeth Whetham 11
Francis Whetham 8
Harold Whetham 5
Ruth Whetham 4