Tammy S.

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He who does not weep does not see.
-Victor Hugo (Collection)1802-1885

Every evening I turn my worries over to God.
He's going to be up all night anyway.
-Mary C. Crowley

Every heart longs to be whole again.
-Trinity Goodheart (From the movie Trinity Goodheart)

When the people we love is stolen from us, the only way to keep them is to never stop loving them. People die, buildings burn, but eternal love last for ever.
-Anonymous

God never places any more on our shoulders that he thinks we can handle at one time. We just need to learn to balance it out.
-T.S.

Sorrow passes quickly when we truly understand the flower that was once our own is now in God's hands.
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When life sends you a curve ball, step a-side and let God catch it. He'll put it back on the straight and narrow.
-T.S.

What heaven has gained is truly a loss to those left behind.
-Anonymous
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I was raised a good ole southern catholic country girl. Mind your manners. Always say yes ma'am or sir, thank you and please. Respect your elders for they have been where you are headed. Never talk back. If you set a goal, reach for the stars. And never question God. Never lay any blame at his feet. And if you find yourself straying from God, have no fear, he's still
there with and waiting for you to return to him.
And always honor your mother and father for that's one of God's rules.

Growing up I have to say was a trial in it's self.
My family has had to deal with some strong losses of family members. And one of those was the death of my mother at such a young age. There was a time when two of her teachings (never question God and never lay blame at his feet)went right out the window. I found myself questioning him as to why he let this happen. Why didn't he stop it. I blamed him for everything that was wrong. This lasted for about 5 long years until my daughter got sick.

I, to this day am still having trouble believing what happened one day in the hospital with my daughter. I walked in the room and there stood my mother. Just as beautiful as ever talking to her. Mother kept telling her over and over that it wasn't her time and everything will be ok just hand it over to God. I to this day still question myself as to if what I saw and heard was real or if I was needing my mother so bad at the time that my mind was playing tricks on me.

My daughter, who was very close to her grandmother swears to this day that yes her GiGi was there, and it wasn't the first time either. That day I knew right there that it was God's way of saying "yes you may have left me, but I haven't left you". Every bit of the anger and bitterness I felt towards him left me. It was as if the world had been lifted off my shoulders. And for the first times in years I felt as if I could breath again.

Am I crazy? maybe. Was it trick of the mind? maybe. But at the time, a 12yr old little girl couldn't be wrong. This much I do know, God never ever left my side when I left him. And my mother true to her word the day before she passed away, "I will always be there even after I'm gone. Just open your heart and there I'll be". I thank Find A Grave for their website because this is the only way I can visit my mother and other family members.

He who does not weep does not see.
-Victor Hugo (Collection)1802-1885

Every evening I turn my worries over to God.
He's going to be up all night anyway.
-Mary C. Crowley

Every heart longs to be whole again.
-Trinity Goodheart (From the movie Trinity Goodheart)

When the people we love is stolen from us, the only way to keep them is to never stop loving them. People die, buildings burn, but eternal love last for ever.
-Anonymous

God never places any more on our shoulders that he thinks we can handle at one time. We just need to learn to balance it out.
-T.S.

Sorrow passes quickly when we truly understand the flower that was once our own is now in God's hands.
-?
When life sends you a curve ball, step a-side and let God catch it. He'll put it back on the straight and narrow.
-T.S.

What heaven has gained is truly a loss to those left behind.
-Anonymous
--------------------------------------------------
I was raised a good ole southern catholic country girl. Mind your manners. Always say yes ma'am or sir, thank you and please. Respect your elders for they have been where you are headed. Never talk back. If you set a goal, reach for the stars. And never question God. Never lay any blame at his feet. And if you find yourself straying from God, have no fear, he's still
there with and waiting for you to return to him.
And always honor your mother and father for that's one of God's rules.

Growing up I have to say was a trial in it's self.
My family has had to deal with some strong losses of family members. And one of those was the death of my mother at such a young age. There was a time when two of her teachings (never question God and never lay blame at his feet)went right out the window. I found myself questioning him as to why he let this happen. Why didn't he stop it. I blamed him for everything that was wrong. This lasted for about 5 long years until my daughter got sick.

I, to this day am still having trouble believing what happened one day in the hospital with my daughter. I walked in the room and there stood my mother. Just as beautiful as ever talking to her. Mother kept telling her over and over that it wasn't her time and everything will be ok just hand it over to God. I to this day still question myself as to if what I saw and heard was real or if I was needing my mother so bad at the time that my mind was playing tricks on me.

My daughter, who was very close to her grandmother swears to this day that yes her GiGi was there, and it wasn't the first time either. That day I knew right there that it was God's way of saying "yes you may have left me, but I haven't left you". Every bit of the anger and bitterness I felt towards him left me. It was as if the world had been lifted off my shoulders. And for the first times in years I felt as if I could breath again.

Am I crazy? maybe. Was it trick of the mind? maybe. But at the time, a 12yr old little girl couldn't be wrong. This much I do know, God never ever left my side when I left him. And my mother true to her word the day before she passed away, "I will always be there even after I'm gone. Just open your heart and there I'll be". I thank Find A Grave for their website because this is the only way I can visit my mother and other family members.

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