Tanya White /Robert McGrail

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I'm Tanya Marie White, My parents are Sandra Marie White (Hughes) & Kevin Alan White. I was born 6/9/1976.
I lived with my grandparents then shortly after my dad finished my parents house across the field on Swamp Rd in Berkshire Village, then in 1985 Grandma Mary Jane White (Carrow) passed away and I permanently moved into Grampa's to help him with mowing the hay in the fields Ave alot of acres to mow & weedwhack. I made ALOT of very bad choices immediately after Grampa's Death, and after almost 20 years I woke up to reality, I got the help I so desperately needed and now me and my fiancée Robert Joseph McGrail have been together for 13 years, we are coming up on our 9 year anniversary of being clean & sober. I now am available to be a family member and a friend. I now own a 2 bedroom home that I purchased outright for Bobby and I. I almost died in 2019, God knows I still have important things to do on this earth and many people to help along my journey. I am a VERY proud Stepmother, and a very proud Grandmother to 5 beautiful Grandchildren from my Stepdaughters 1 of the 5 is on the way in October, and also 1 of the 5 Grandchildren sadly passed away at only 4 weeks old. Me & Bobby had our GRANDSON 1 n a half, and our Granddaughter 4 weeks old for 4 nights and their Dad came the 4th night and asked if we minded if they stay 1 more night... EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I truly believe God had his hand on every event that evening. She was sleeping on Bobby's chest and his shirt blocked her nose when she moved he was asleep, at that age no baby's brain is developed enough to tell them to struggle, cry, and they can't lift their heads so when that happens all their brain tells them ty do is rub their nose back n forth, lung sad story short, I woke up went into living room, went to grab our Grandbaby off his chest and put her back in her crib we had for her, and 8 saw blood(from rubbing her nose back n forth), I cleared the blood from her nose dialed 911 on speaker phone and I tried to breathe life back into our precious baby Ava, so did the Police, and the EMTS.... God needed her, and God knew that Bobby and I have lived VERY different lives than his daughter & her husband. They would not have survived it. I honestly think they would've taken their own lives or divorced and both of them probably would've just made very poor choices and w waste away. I have a 22 year old daughter, whom I thought I was giving her a better life, the life she DESERVED and I couldn't stop with drugs so I last saw her when she was 4 years old and I did a closed adoption. It wasn't a good home that she ended up in. Abusive, cruel people adopted her and my BIGGEST fear was confirmed.... They abused her even tried killing her, she found me on FACEBOOK when she was 12....in 2011. We've NEVER spoken to one another in the phone, and we've NEVER met in person. She hates me, she likes me when it suits her in some form. I also have birth to a Stillborn baby. My son Bryan James Grant Jr. My daughter is Cassie her father is Daniel Alan Saldo Sr. My father Kevin Alan White passed away from liver cancer May 26th, 2018

I'm Tanya Marie White, My parents are Sandra Marie White (Hughes) & Kevin Alan White. I was born 6/9/1976.
I lived with my grandparents then shortly after my dad finished my parents house across the field on Swamp Rd in Berkshire Village, then in 1985 Grandma Mary Jane White (Carrow) passed away and I permanently moved into Grampa's to help him with mowing the hay in the fields Ave alot of acres to mow & weedwhack. I made ALOT of very bad choices immediately after Grampa's Death, and after almost 20 years I woke up to reality, I got the help I so desperately needed and now me and my fiancée Robert Joseph McGrail have been together for 13 years, we are coming up on our 9 year anniversary of being clean & sober. I now am available to be a family member and a friend. I now own a 2 bedroom home that I purchased outright for Bobby and I. I almost died in 2019, God knows I still have important things to do on this earth and many people to help along my journey. I am a VERY proud Stepmother, and a very proud Grandmother to 5 beautiful Grandchildren from my Stepdaughters 1 of the 5 is on the way in October, and also 1 of the 5 Grandchildren sadly passed away at only 4 weeks old. Me & Bobby had our GRANDSON 1 n a half, and our Granddaughter 4 weeks old for 4 nights and their Dad came the 4th night and asked if we minded if they stay 1 more night... EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I truly believe God had his hand on every event that evening. She was sleeping on Bobby's chest and his shirt blocked her nose when she moved he was asleep, at that age no baby's brain is developed enough to tell them to struggle, cry, and they can't lift their heads so when that happens all their brain tells them ty do is rub their nose back n forth, lung sad story short, I woke up went into living room, went to grab our Grandbaby off his chest and put her back in her crib we had for her, and 8 saw blood(from rubbing her nose back n forth), I cleared the blood from her nose dialed 911 on speaker phone and I tried to breathe life back into our precious baby Ava, so did the Police, and the EMTS.... God needed her, and God knew that Bobby and I have lived VERY different lives than his daughter & her husband. They would not have survived it. I honestly think they would've taken their own lives or divorced and both of them probably would've just made very poor choices and w waste away. I have a 22 year old daughter, whom I thought I was giving her a better life, the life she DESERVED and I couldn't stop with drugs so I last saw her when she was 4 years old and I did a closed adoption. It wasn't a good home that she ended up in. Abusive, cruel people adopted her and my BIGGEST fear was confirmed.... They abused her even tried killing her, she found me on FACEBOOK when she was 12....in 2011. We've NEVER spoken to one another in the phone, and we've NEVER met in person. She hates me, she likes me when it suits her in some form. I also have birth to a Stillborn baby. My son Bryan James Grant Jr. My daughter is Cassie her father is Daniel Alan Saldo Sr. My father Kevin Alan White passed away from liver cancer May 26th, 2018

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