I got interested in Find A Grave after retirement while trying to find my grandmother I had never seen, only heard stories about her as a child and was told not to ask questions and with the help of Find A Grave and some relatives also doing a search for her, relatives I also knew nothing about, I found her, in an unmarked grave and no history of anything until we finished our search and my detective work. It satisfied that craving "to know" what "ACTUALLY" happened to her. Although I can't personally "REPAIR" the damage done to her person at that time, nor be responsible for it, I can give her the "respect" she deserves in death. The "proper place of respect" she was not given in life.

A quote I wrote after my sister's death after seeing her hurt beyond repair by someone in the past and people do it all the time. They think nothing of it and that it is their right. IT ISN'T! I watched her jaw drop at a remark said to her. It still bothers me that someone could do that to her and still live with themselves. The quote is as wrote:

WHEN A PERSON DEFLATES ANOTHER PERSON, THEY DESTROY THE SELF WORTH OF ANOTHER.

There is NOT a day I don't miss you, talking to you, but I wish I had been more aware of what you were enduring which quietly took your life. 12 Minutes is what you had in order to save your life with the breathing issues, 12 MINUTES! That is a long time if it had been used properly you would still be here.

I got interested in Find A Grave after retirement while trying to find my grandmother I had never seen, only heard stories about her as a child and was told not to ask questions and with the help of Find A Grave and some relatives also doing a search for her, relatives I also knew nothing about, I found her, in an unmarked grave and no history of anything until we finished our search and my detective work. It satisfied that craving "to know" what "ACTUALLY" happened to her. Although I can't personally "REPAIR" the damage done to her person at that time, nor be responsible for it, I can give her the "respect" she deserves in death. The "proper place of respect" she was not given in life.

A quote I wrote after my sister's death after seeing her hurt beyond repair by someone in the past and people do it all the time. They think nothing of it and that it is their right. IT ISN'T! I watched her jaw drop at a remark said to her. It still bothers me that someone could do that to her and still live with themselves. The quote is as wrote:

WHEN A PERSON DEFLATES ANOTHER PERSON, THEY DESTROY THE SELF WORTH OF ANOTHER.

There is NOT a day I don't miss you, talking to you, but I wish I had been more aware of what you were enduring which quietly took your life. 12 Minutes is what you had in order to save your life with the breathing issues, 12 MINUTES! That is a long time if it had been used properly you would still be here.