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Dr Sarah Frances “Sally” <I>Lord</I> Bodi

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Dr Sarah Frances “Sally” Lord Bodi

Birth
Plano, Kendall County, Illinois, USA
Death
5 Apr 2020 (aged 92)
Huntington, Suffolk County, New York, USA
Burial
Locust Valley, Nassau County, New York, USA Add to Map
Plot
Addition 5, Ketcham Section, Phase 3C, Grave 90
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Dr. Sara Frances (nee Lord) Bodi, known as Sally, 92, passed away on Sunday, April 5, 2020. She survived Hurricane Sandy, only to be felled by another natural disaster, Covid-19. In 2012, strong winds knocked out the electricity in the Bodi home in Glen Cove, Long Island. Her late husband, Lewis Joseph Bodi, accidentally dropped a kerosene lantern he was lighting, and their house went up in flames. Sally tried to save her husband, but fire and smoke forced her out of the house. She survived, but Lew, a former provost at York College (CUNY), did not. ​Sally spent her remaining years in an assisted living facility in Dix Hills, where she contracted Covid-19. She was sent to Huntington Hospital, where her son, Kip Bodi, is a doctor. Suited up in mask and protective covering, he visited her daily, whereas her daughters' and her friends' only contact was by phone. Even toward the end, she told her daughters, "I'm not ready to give up the ship." ​That was typical of Sally's attitude toward life. She was descended from Pilgrims and pioneers. Raised in the small-town of Plano, Illinois as one of four daughters, Sally Lord was a cheerleader, sang in the choir, and was voted most popular in her high school class of 19 students. She met Lew Bodi, who hailed from Racine, Wisconsin, at Depauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. Lew and Sally were married on Sunday, April 9, 1950 and so would be celebrating their 70th wedding anniversary. They were a study in opposites – Lew, the outgoing son of Hungarian immigrants, a liberal Democrat; Sally, the soft-spoken daughter of a doctor as well as a Mayflower descendant, a conservative Republican. He would say, "We dutifully vote every year, cancelling each other out at the polls." Sally attained her PhD in clinical psychology from Saint John's University while raising four children and became chief school psychologist for the Glen Cove school system. In retirement, in addition to nurturing her grandchildren and great-granddaughters with her calm midwestern demeanor and a closet full of toys, she traced her genealogy. Sally created twelve binders full of letters, photographs, articles, and family trees, including a letter from a Civil War soldier and a newspaper article about an ancestor who homesteaded in Illinois, living with his family in a cave until he finished building a house. Perhaps her most unique find occurred while researching her son-in-law, Eric Montgomery's roots. She discovered that he was descended from a man named Ivan the Slobberer. Sally didn't hold it against him. She was known for her generosity. Their door in Glen Cove was always open to friends and a large extended family. Over the years, several nieces and nephews lived with the Bodi's while studying or working to advance their careers. To all who visited, Sally would sit down at the kitchen table and listen to their problems, offering thoughtful advice while Lew cooked and served, all the while keeping them laughing. As Emma Hurley, one of Sally's grand-daughters said, "If I can emulate even one ounce of the generosity that Sara Lord Bodi showed in her life, I will be proud. She was brilliant, funny, charming, elegant, composed, loyal, hard-working, and inspirational. I know she wasn't perfect, but to me she was close enough." Sally is survived by her 96-year-old sister Emily Lord Leyshon of Prescott, AZ; a son Kip Bodi and his wife Chris Bodi of Cold Spring Harbor; and her daughters Sari Bodi and her husband Eric Montgomery of Westport, CT, Betsy (nee Bodi) Thomas and her husband Philip Thomas of Dallas, TX, and Nancy Bodi-Hurley and her husband Michael Hurley of Northport, NY. She is also survived by 11 grandchildren, and their spouses and children; Kip Bodi with his wife Sara and children Lucy, Beatrice, and Kira Bodi; Stephanie Bodi and Matt Bernier and their daughter Mae Bernier; Caroline Bodi and Matt Winn expecting their first child in June 2020; Jenny and Brett Bodi; Ming and Luke Montgomery; Bennett and his wife Caitlin Thomas and their son Weston Thomas; Morgan and Tim Essig with their daughter Zoe, and Emma Hurley. Sally is also the step-grandmother to Sara and Scott Silverman and step-grandmother to Scott's daughter Sophia. All services were privately entrusted by the M.A. Connell Funeral Home, 934 New York Avenue, Huntington Station, NY 11746. For more information or online condolences, please visit Sara's tribute page at maconnellfuneralhome.com

Dr. Sara Frances (nee Lord) Bodi, known as Sally, 92, passed away on Sunday, April 5, 2020. She survived Hurricane Sandy, only to be felled by another natural disaster, Covid-19. In 2012, strong winds knocked out the electricity in the Bodi home in Glen Cove, Long Island. Her late husband, Lewis Joseph Bodi, accidentally dropped a kerosene lantern he was lighting, and their house went up in flames. Sally tried to save her husband, but fire and smoke forced her out of the house. She survived, but Lew, a former provost at York College (CUNY), did not. ​Sally spent her remaining years in an assisted living facility in Dix Hills, where she contracted Covid-19. She was sent to Huntington Hospital, where her son, Kip Bodi, is a doctor. Suited up in mask and protective covering, he visited her daily, whereas her daughters' and her friends' only contact was by phone. Even toward the end, she told her daughters, "I'm not ready to give up the ship." ​That was typical of Sally's attitude toward life. She was descended from Pilgrims and pioneers. Raised in the small-town of Plano, Illinois as one of four daughters, Sally Lord was a cheerleader, sang in the choir, and was voted most popular in her high school class of 19 students. She met Lew Bodi, who hailed from Racine, Wisconsin, at Depauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. Lew and Sally were married on Sunday, April 9, 1950 and so would be celebrating their 70th wedding anniversary. They were a study in opposites – Lew, the outgoing son of Hungarian immigrants, a liberal Democrat; Sally, the soft-spoken daughter of a doctor as well as a Mayflower descendant, a conservative Republican. He would say, "We dutifully vote every year, cancelling each other out at the polls." Sally attained her PhD in clinical psychology from Saint John's University while raising four children and became chief school psychologist for the Glen Cove school system. In retirement, in addition to nurturing her grandchildren and great-granddaughters with her calm midwestern demeanor and a closet full of toys, she traced her genealogy. Sally created twelve binders full of letters, photographs, articles, and family trees, including a letter from a Civil War soldier and a newspaper article about an ancestor who homesteaded in Illinois, living with his family in a cave until he finished building a house. Perhaps her most unique find occurred while researching her son-in-law, Eric Montgomery's roots. She discovered that he was descended from a man named Ivan the Slobberer. Sally didn't hold it against him. She was known for her generosity. Their door in Glen Cove was always open to friends and a large extended family. Over the years, several nieces and nephews lived with the Bodi's while studying or working to advance their careers. To all who visited, Sally would sit down at the kitchen table and listen to their problems, offering thoughtful advice while Lew cooked and served, all the while keeping them laughing. As Emma Hurley, one of Sally's grand-daughters said, "If I can emulate even one ounce of the generosity that Sara Lord Bodi showed in her life, I will be proud. She was brilliant, funny, charming, elegant, composed, loyal, hard-working, and inspirational. I know she wasn't perfect, but to me she was close enough." Sally is survived by her 96-year-old sister Emily Lord Leyshon of Prescott, AZ; a son Kip Bodi and his wife Chris Bodi of Cold Spring Harbor; and her daughters Sari Bodi and her husband Eric Montgomery of Westport, CT, Betsy (nee Bodi) Thomas and her husband Philip Thomas of Dallas, TX, and Nancy Bodi-Hurley and her husband Michael Hurley of Northport, NY. She is also survived by 11 grandchildren, and their spouses and children; Kip Bodi with his wife Sara and children Lucy, Beatrice, and Kira Bodi; Stephanie Bodi and Matt Bernier and their daughter Mae Bernier; Caroline Bodi and Matt Winn expecting their first child in June 2020; Jenny and Brett Bodi; Ming and Luke Montgomery; Bennett and his wife Caitlin Thomas and their son Weston Thomas; Morgan and Tim Essig with their daughter Zoe, and Emma Hurley. Sally is also the step-grandmother to Sara and Scott Silverman and step-grandmother to Scott's daughter Sophia. All services were privately entrusted by the M.A. Connell Funeral Home, 934 New York Avenue, Huntington Station, NY 11746. For more information or online condolences, please visit Sara's tribute page at maconnellfuneralhome.com


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Interment Date: April 9, 2020



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