Don's Obituary...
Rev. Donald W. Arel, OMI, passed away on June 23, 2023. Born in Providence, RI in 1938, he was the son of Philippe and Priscilla Arel. He is survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Dorothy Arel.
Don (as he preferred to be called) was educated by the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate in Bucksport and Bar Harbor, ME, as well as in Natick, MA, where he completed his bachelor's and Master of Divinity degrees. He professed first vows as a Missionary Oblate in 1958, and he was ordained to the priesthood in January 1964.The words of Isaiah, the prophet, captures the heart of Don's ministerial vision: Make the tent you live in larger. Stretch the tent curtains wide; do not hold back. Strengthen its ropes and drive the tent pegs deeper. Extend your boundaries on all sides. (54:2)
All of Don's ministry assignments opened new experiences and provided new encounters with many individuals.His ministerial assignments included: editor of the mission magazines for the Northern Province (formerly St. Jean Baptist Province); retreat ministry in Hudson, NH; secondary education in Bucksport, ME; and pre-novitiate formation in the Boston area. In 1980, Don was appointed pastor of Ste. Jeanne d'Arc parish, Lowell, MA. At the same time, he served two terms on the provincial council. Don was elected Provincial of the Northern Province of Missionary Oblates in 1986.Between 1965 and 1980, he was involved in two ministries that were dear to his heart. He traveled on pilgrimages around the world with individuals living with serious disabilities. He also participated with couples in the Marriage Encounter movement. He found both groups to be deeply formational for his own journey.Don loved poetry and theater.
The words of a favorite poet inspired the next part of Don's journey: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" (Mary Oliver, The Summer Day selection). Don would offer these words to numerous men and women over the next 31 years of spiritual direction, meditation, and retreats.In 1992, after serving two terms as provincial, Don moved to Berkeley, CA, to enter a sabbatical time in the Institute for Spirituality and Worship at Jesuit School of Theology. A year later, the Jesuit School hired him as co-director of the sabbatical program, a position he held until 1998.At the same time, seeking to minister to unhoused people and individuals with AIDS, Don trained and received certification as a massage practioner. He ministered in San Francisco with Care Through Touch and in Oakland with Providence House, a low-income residence founded by the Sisters of Providence.
Don moved in 2009 to the former provincial residence of the Western Province in Oakland, CA. Finding an under-used residence, Don had the vision to transform Lenox House into a spiritual urban oasis, offering individuals from various faiths and religious traditions a space to continue their spiritual journey. With others, Don began a meditation ministry that continues today and provides a place of healing and support. At Lenox House, Don continued his spiritual direction and retreat ministry, touching the lives of men and women from across the world. For 10 years, until 2016, he served as the local superior of the Missionary Oblates in Oakland.In 2021, Don retired as director of Lenox House, but remained in residence and continued his ministry as a spiritual companion.
With his death, Don entered a new part of his journey, just shy of his 85th year; a celebration he wanted to share with many friends. At that celebration, Don would have used the words of another poet: "I live my life in widening circles that reach out across the world. I may not complete the last one, but I give myself to it" (Rainer Maria Rilke).
Rev. Donald W. Arel, OMI, passed away on June 23, 2023. Born in Providence, RI in 1938, he was the son of Philippe and Priscilla Arel. He is survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Dorothy Arel.
Don (as he preferred to be called) was educated by the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate in Bucksport and Bar Harbor, ME, as well as in Natick, MA, where he completed his bachelor's and Master of Divinity degrees. He professed first vows as a Missionary Oblate in 1958, and he was ordained to the priesthood in January 1964.The words of Isaiah, the prophet, captures the heart of Don's ministerial vision: Make the tent you live in larger. Stretch the tent curtains wide; do not hold back. Strengthen its ropes and drive the tent pegs deeper. Extend your boundaries on all sides. (54:2)
All of Don's ministry assignments opened new experiences and provided new encounters with many individuals.His ministerial assignments included: editor of the mission magazines for the Northern Province (formerly St. Jean Baptist Province); retreat ministry in Hudson, NH; secondary education in Bucksport, ME; and pre-novitiate formation in the Boston area. In 1980, Don was appointed pastor of Ste. Jeanne d'Arc parish, Lowell, MA. At the same time, he served two terms on the provincial council. Don was elected Provincial of the Northern Province of Missionary Oblates in 1986.Between 1965 and 1980, he was involved in two ministries that were dear to his heart. He traveled on pilgrimages around the world with individuals living with serious disabilities. He also participated with couples in the Marriage Encounter movement. He found both groups to be deeply formational for his own journey.Don loved poetry and theater.
The words of a favorite poet inspired the next part of Don's journey: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" (Mary Oliver, The Summer Day selection). Don would offer these words to numerous men and women over the next 31 years of spiritual direction, meditation, and retreats.In 1992, after serving two terms as provincial, Don moved to Berkeley, CA, to enter a sabbatical time in the Institute for Spirituality and Worship at Jesuit School of Theology. A year later, the Jesuit School hired him as co-director of the sabbatical program, a position he held until 1998.At the same time, seeking to minister to unhoused people and individuals with AIDS, Don trained and received certification as a massage practioner. He ministered in San Francisco with Care Through Touch and in Oakland with Providence House, a low-income residence founded by the Sisters of Providence.
Don moved in 2009 to the former provincial residence of the Western Province in Oakland, CA. Finding an under-used residence, Don had the vision to transform Lenox House into a spiritual urban oasis, offering individuals from various faiths and religious traditions a space to continue their spiritual journey. With others, Don began a meditation ministry that continues today and provides a place of healing and support. At Lenox House, Don continued his spiritual direction and retreat ministry, touching the lives of men and women from across the world. For 10 years, until 2016, he served as the local superior of the Missionary Oblates in Oakland.In 2021, Don retired as director of Lenox House, but remained in residence and continued his ministry as a spiritual companion.
With his death, Don entered a new part of his journey, just shy of his 85th year; a celebration he wanted to share with many friends. At that celebration, Don would have used the words of another poet: "I live my life in widening circles that reach out across the world. I may not complete the last one, but I give myself to it" (Rainer Maria Rilke).
Don's Obituary...
Rev. Donald W. Arel, OMI, passed away on June 23, 2023. Born in Providence, RI in 1938, he was the son of Philippe and Priscilla Arel. He is survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Dorothy Arel.
Don (as he preferred to be called) was educated by the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate in Bucksport and Bar Harbor, ME, as well as in Natick, MA, where he completed his bachelor's and Master of Divinity degrees. He professed first vows as a Missionary Oblate in 1958, and he was ordained to the priesthood in January 1964.The words of Isaiah, the prophet, captures the heart of Don's ministerial vision: Make the tent you live in larger. Stretch the tent curtains wide; do not hold back. Strengthen its ropes and drive the tent pegs deeper. Extend your boundaries on all sides. (54:2)
All of Don's ministry assignments opened new experiences and provided new encounters with many individuals.His ministerial assignments included: editor of the mission magazines for the Northern Province (formerly St. Jean Baptist Province); retreat ministry in Hudson, NH; secondary education in Bucksport, ME; and pre-novitiate formation in the Boston area. In 1980, Don was appointed pastor of Ste. Jeanne d'Arc parish, Lowell, MA. At the same time, he served two terms on the provincial council. Don was elected Provincial of the Northern Province of Missionary Oblates in 1986.Between 1965 and 1980, he was involved in two ministries that were dear to his heart. He traveled on pilgrimages around the world with individuals living with serious disabilities. He also participated with couples in the Marriage Encounter movement. He found both groups to be deeply formational for his own journey.Don loved poetry and theater.
The words of a favorite poet inspired the next part of Don's journey: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" (Mary Oliver, The Summer Day selection). Don would offer these words to numerous men and women over the next 31 years of spiritual direction, meditation, and retreats.In 1992, after serving two terms as provincial, Don moved to Berkeley, CA, to enter a sabbatical time in the Institute for Spirituality and Worship at Jesuit School of Theology. A year later, the Jesuit School hired him as co-director of the sabbatical program, a position he held until 1998.At the same time, seeking to minister to unhoused people and individuals with AIDS, Don trained and received certification as a massage practioner. He ministered in San Francisco with Care Through Touch and in Oakland with Providence House, a low-income residence founded by the Sisters of Providence.
Don moved in 2009 to the former provincial residence of the Western Province in Oakland, CA. Finding an under-used residence, Don had the vision to transform Lenox House into a spiritual urban oasis, offering individuals from various faiths and religious traditions a space to continue their spiritual journey. With others, Don began a meditation ministry that continues today and provides a place of healing and support. At Lenox House, Don continued his spiritual direction and retreat ministry, touching the lives of men and women from across the world. For 10 years, until 2016, he served as the local superior of the Missionary Oblates in Oakland.In 2021, Don retired as director of Lenox House, but remained in residence and continued his ministry as a spiritual companion.
With his death, Don entered a new part of his journey, just shy of his 85th year; a celebration he wanted to share with many friends. At that celebration, Don would have used the words of another poet: "I live my life in widening circles that reach out across the world. I may not complete the last one, but I give myself to it" (Rainer Maria Rilke).
Rev. Donald W. Arel, OMI, passed away on June 23, 2023. Born in Providence, RI in 1938, he was the son of Philippe and Priscilla Arel. He is survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Dorothy Arel.
Don (as he preferred to be called) was educated by the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate in Bucksport and Bar Harbor, ME, as well as in Natick, MA, where he completed his bachelor's and Master of Divinity degrees. He professed first vows as a Missionary Oblate in 1958, and he was ordained to the priesthood in January 1964.The words of Isaiah, the prophet, captures the heart of Don's ministerial vision: Make the tent you live in larger. Stretch the tent curtains wide; do not hold back. Strengthen its ropes and drive the tent pegs deeper. Extend your boundaries on all sides. (54:2)
All of Don's ministry assignments opened new experiences and provided new encounters with many individuals.His ministerial assignments included: editor of the mission magazines for the Northern Province (formerly St. Jean Baptist Province); retreat ministry in Hudson, NH; secondary education in Bucksport, ME; and pre-novitiate formation in the Boston area. In 1980, Don was appointed pastor of Ste. Jeanne d'Arc parish, Lowell, MA. At the same time, he served two terms on the provincial council. Don was elected Provincial of the Northern Province of Missionary Oblates in 1986.Between 1965 and 1980, he was involved in two ministries that were dear to his heart. He traveled on pilgrimages around the world with individuals living with serious disabilities. He also participated with couples in the Marriage Encounter movement. He found both groups to be deeply formational for his own journey.Don loved poetry and theater.
The words of a favorite poet inspired the next part of Don's journey: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" (Mary Oliver, The Summer Day selection). Don would offer these words to numerous men and women over the next 31 years of spiritual direction, meditation, and retreats.In 1992, after serving two terms as provincial, Don moved to Berkeley, CA, to enter a sabbatical time in the Institute for Spirituality and Worship at Jesuit School of Theology. A year later, the Jesuit School hired him as co-director of the sabbatical program, a position he held until 1998.At the same time, seeking to minister to unhoused people and individuals with AIDS, Don trained and received certification as a massage practioner. He ministered in San Francisco with Care Through Touch and in Oakland with Providence House, a low-income residence founded by the Sisters of Providence.
Don moved in 2009 to the former provincial residence of the Western Province in Oakland, CA. Finding an under-used residence, Don had the vision to transform Lenox House into a spiritual urban oasis, offering individuals from various faiths and religious traditions a space to continue their spiritual journey. With others, Don began a meditation ministry that continues today and provides a place of healing and support. At Lenox House, Don continued his spiritual direction and retreat ministry, touching the lives of men and women from across the world. For 10 years, until 2016, he served as the local superior of the Missionary Oblates in Oakland.In 2021, Don retired as director of Lenox House, but remained in residence and continued his ministry as a spiritual companion.
With his death, Don entered a new part of his journey, just shy of his 85th year; a celebration he wanted to share with many friends. At that celebration, Don would have used the words of another poet: "I live my life in widening circles that reach out across the world. I may not complete the last one, but I give myself to it" (Rainer Maria Rilke).
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