(Granted approval by Belinda Soto to post obituary in its entirety.)
Born October 1, 1951 in Urapan Michoacan, Mexico, resident of Windsor, CA for over 50 years. Went to her mansion in heaven on January 18, 2014.
Daughter, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother and a dear friend to many. A women who touched many hearts and loved life so much. Survived by her parents Eladio and Concha Guzman. Her siblings; Javier (Lupe), Zeke (Elida), Blanca (Rigo), Eladio Jr. (Marisol), Rosie (Marcelo) Connie (Armando) and Sylvia (Barry). Her children; Belinda Soto (Son-in law- Danny), Jesse Vargas, Jr. (daughter in-law-Christina) Christina Cedano (Son-in law-Rudy). Grandchildren; Daniel, Bella, Rudy, Jr., Diego, Rebecca, Julian, Angel, Jasmine, Ricky and Eddie. Also survived by 25 nieces and nephews, 19 great nieces and nephews and two great grand children.
A Rosary and viewing will held on Thurs 1/23/14 from 4-8 p.m. at St. Johns Church in Healdsburg, CA. Celebration of life will be on Friday 1/24/14 at 11 a.m. St. Johns Church immediately following we will continue her celebration at Windsor Shiloh Cemetery.
She says to many,
"Do not stand at my grave and cry, for I am not there, I did not die."
She will be missed but not forgotten.
[Published Online in the Press Democrat from Jan. 22 to Jan. 24, 2014]
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Press Democrat's Online Guestbook...
The memories you left us with will forever remain in our hearts! You are the light of our lives you are a candle that will never die but shine forever! See you soon mama...[Daughters, Belinda & Christina, Windsor, California]
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Hi Mom, It's me your first born daughter Belinda. I thought I'd write a little something about the beautiful person you were before this is removed from the PD website and I'm not able to get it printed in the Memory Book I'm going to make in your memory. It's been thirty days since you passed and oh how I miss you. Wish I could hear your voice and hear your good morning messages. The memories and wisdom you left me will be with me forever and I hope to one day leave the same to my children. There are days when all I do is sit and think about you, hoping and praying you being gone from my life is just a dream. Since you've been gone, I've gone through my baby photos and sister even found a video with my first birthday and Christmas, thank you mom for the way you loved us, for giving us the world! You had three beautiful children and loved us no matter what. What will I do without you, how will the days and holidays be without you? It's going to be hard, but I promise to carry on your traditions. Thank you for teaching me as a child how to pray and love God with all my heart, for you know one day I'd need Him. At times when I feel I cant face another day without you, I hear your voice, saying "be strong, you can do it". I hope I can be half the mom you were. I'll miss our lunches together, I'll miss brushing and blow drying your hair and all the little gifts and cards you would bless me with. Although I feel like you've left me, I know you're in a better place, a place where there is no sorrow or pain. Every day for the rest of my life I will think of you, when I rise and when I lay my head down. I know you see me when I smile and when I cry, and it's in those times I feel your spirit lives and is around me. I know I'll see you again one day and I cant wait. Thank you for your sacrifice and love as a mother, you were our mother, father and friend and no on can top that! Till we meet again mom, have fun dancing in heaven,save me room on the dance floor and be sure my mansion is next door to yours! I am who I am today because of you and for that I'm forever grateful. I'll miss with all of my heart you but I know you hear me when talk to you and sing your favorite songs! My world will never be the same without you. "You light up my life". Love you momma - your daughter Belinda, [Belinda Soto]
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Hello Sister Bella, Its a little over 30 days that you left us and a couple of days away from the day we laid you to rest! I still find it unbelievable that you are no longer here. I know the Lord decided it was time for to go to a better life and that you had earned your way to Heaven!! But everyday I find it more difficult for me to understand why! I miss you more and more everyday! I wait for your phone call every other day telling me I'm running late, I miss brushing your hair and making your braids and pony tails, helping you change your clothes and arguing about matching your clothes, you telling me no, "I don't want you to wear your nice clothes around the house" and I would put it on you anyway! I miss taking you to the doctor, then going to eat! Either Jack in Box or going down Sebastopol Road looking for the taco stands! Going to Starbucks, or KC for breakfast or walking down Town Green! Wow the last six months that we spent together were unbelievable, we learned so much about each other. You were an amazing women, friend, sister, mother, aunt, grama, daughter and you were even a father to your children that you loved dearly!! The Love that you had for everyone can never be replaced by anyone!!! You cherished your children, grandchildren, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, friends and Our Parents were always your first priority!! You loved life, you never let nothing hold you back—you always took your chances no matter what! You always gave everyone of one us support no matter what the situation was, you never let us give up! I still remember the day before you went to ICU and you had your By Pap Mask on and you seen me and Baby Tina eating candy!! we were trying to sneak it from you and you caught us! You said, give me some I said no your sick and your mask is on and you said, give me some I don't care, you made us take the mask off and the alarm went off and you said, throw the candy in my mouth and I did, you were unbelievable!! so many things that we have lived with you!! You have left us with memories that are unforgettable! But sister I miss you soooooo much the pain is unbearable!! I know with time it will ease, but never go away because a part of me has been taken away!! But I also know that you have graduated to a better place and that you are no longer suffering and that you are dancing and enjoying your new LIFE!! Please know sister that our parents will be taken care of, I want you to RIP and not worry about anything!! I love you forever sister and please save a place for me next to you!! Always in my HEART!! [Rosie Chavez]
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Hi mama, It's your baby daughter! I just want to start by saying I love you and miss you so much! Words can never express the way I feel. It's only been one month since you've been gone & I wait by the phone still hoping you'll call and I find it hard to believe you are really gone. I go to sleep early just hoping to wake up and it would all be a dream and I'm realizing it's reality and you're really gone.:( We had our 'ups and downs', our 'tears & frowns', our 'laughs & smiles' with so many trials. And no matter what you'd always be there to lift me when I'd fall. I realize now the Lord called you home, I knew the time would come when you'd have to go and the Lord took your hand and called you home. I can't be selfish and ask God "why did you take my mama home?" I knew you were tired mama and couldn't hold on. I'll miss your voice and all your calls. Many moments I cried, you heard them all, the words you'd speak when I was weak, your words of encouragement I always sought. Your words I'll cherish so close to me and in my heart I'll always keep. You would say to me, "It's okay, don't worry, I'm here, don't fear, you can do it, be happy and smile, be thankful," and remember mija "no mater what I love you and you will always be my "baby girl!" I miss you so much mama that only God knows. Me and my sister spent your last days with you, feeding you and laughing with you so happy together like never before! You said your goodbyes, you hugged us and cried, you told us how much you loved us and to please not cry, you said to take care of your children, "I'm too tired now, I love you children, my job here is done, I did my best for you all, I love you guys and please stand strong!" And we will mama! we love you. Until we meet again please save us a place right next to yours, for we will all one day be together again, love you mama! From your baby girl Christina ~ [Christina Cedano, Windsor, California]
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Hello Aunt Bell, Since you left us there is not a day that passes that I don't think of you. I miss you terribly. I went to the beach last week for the first time since we last went together. It just wasn't the same. As I watched the waves crashing my heart was filled with bliss as I reminisced about new and old memories of you and how you brought so much joy to everyone's life and how you saw the best in people when we couldn't see it in ourselves. Thank you for giving me a place to call home when I felt like I had nowhere to turn to and being my best friend. You were a truly remarkable woman and I will forever carry with me the advice and memories that you blessed me with. I love you with all my heart and I cannot wait to see you! Love,
Tati~ [Tatiana Melgoza, Windsor, California]
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Hi grandma, It's me your grandson Ricky. It has already been a month now since you've left, but I know that you are with the lord now, and Champy, and I know that we will all be going to the same place. Grandma, save us a mansion right next to yours, and give the Lord a big kiss for us.... Love You so much! [Ricky Cedano, Windsor, California]
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I Miss and love you more than words could ever express grandma. But I know that you are with me because I have already seen you in my dreams. Whenever I go to work I still picture you sitting at the same table ordering all your favorites. Although I wish you were still here to run to for a good laugh, a shoulder to cry on, advice, or to tell all my secrets to, I will never forget the times you were there for all of that and more. I know you already have a spot saved for all of us in heaven and I can't wait to be there right with you holding your hand. I love you grandma. Your one and only granddaughter. Xoxo. [Bella Soto,
Windsor]
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So many things I could say to my grandmother. Words will never express. We could sit & talk all day about anything. The past couple of years we got closer, we shared so many memories. Thinking back on all the times, still puts a smile on my face. I love you grandma. Forever you will live in my heart. You were like a second mother I could always run to if needed. Every time I play an oldie, it will always be in memory of you. I pray for the day I see you again, see you again walking the streets of heaven.. Watch over me grandma. You are our guardian angel. [Daniel Soto,
Windsor, California]
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Hi suegra it's me you're son-in-law Rudy! I don't know where to start by saying how much we love you and how much you're missed here! This world is so much lonelier without you! I miss you're encouraging words of strong advice. You always treated me like a son. You were like a mother to me. You taught me, you gave me, you were always there in every time of need, my children miss you so much. You were a big part of their lives. You blessed them in many ways. You taught them so much they will never forget you. But the best thing you ever gave me was "my beautiful wife"! Thank you suegra. You called me almost everyday to encourage me to go to the doctor and to have the surgery and that it will all go well. You told me "do it mijo and I'll be there! "Rosie will take me!" Don't worry, I promise I will be there!" and I did suegra, and when I came out of recovery I looked around, waiting to see you come through the doors but I was waiting and looking and you couldn't be found. It was hard for me to except that you weren't around. But in my heart I felt you there. I was still looking around and when I turned my head I saw a nurse pushing a lady in a wheel chair when they turned the corner I swore she looked just like you. I smiled and said yup that was "my suegra" showing me "I'm hear mijo" "now you must pull through!" Thank you "ophelia" You left me your strength and now I need to get it together and really pull through. I got much more going on now if you only knew? You will be truly missed but we will meet again! Until that day suegra make room for us for we'll all be there too! [Rudy Cedano, Windsor, California]
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My dear Grandmother Bella, Oh the times we had since day 1. From when I was born, you have always been there to love me and show me the way when I didn't know better. So many memories that I have with you can fill up this entire book but even better, they fill me up in the spirit to know you gave it all you had for my family and I and even those around you. Whether through hardship or moments of happiness, there has always been a moment of love and life! That is always how I saw you. A very strong, lively, loving woman! Never will you be forgotten. For a big part of me is because of you and who you were! I'm sure you are resting with him now Our Lord! And Nothing but contentment lays in my heart for you now Grandma Bella. Thank you for everything! Sincerely, yours truly, Lil Rudy. A.k.a Gordo ~ [Rudy Cedano, Windsor town, California]
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Ophelia, this is me Johnny. I'm going to miss you with all my heart. My life feels so lonely since you've been gone. You lived your life to the fullest & enjoyed every day as if it was your last. I hope one day I will have the strength you had. You were an amazing woman who touched a lot of lives. You taught them, you loved them, you gave to them & always thought of others first before yourself. You out lived your life just for your children & grandchildren & especially your parents! I know they will all miss your beautiful loving ways. You left us all such beautiful memories! Your body may be gone from this world but your spirit lives forever in our hearts! You are in a better place. You no longer have to suffer, no more pain, hospitals, & no longer in a wheelchair! I'm happy for you that you can finally rest in peace. I'll missing you so much. Please save me a place up in heaven. I hope my mansion will be next to yours. Send a kiss & hug to champy. Love you & see you soon one day again. Your friend, [Johnny Gaitan, Windosr, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. May God keep on giving you the strength you need on this great loss. Bella touched my mom's life (Reyna Martinez)in so many ways. My mother and us are so heartbroken. My mother could never stopped talking about Bella and how her kindness and love for ever changed her life. My mother loved spending time with Bella, she would always come home and talk to me about Bella's love for life and her family. She keeps me going and makes me love life and see everything in a positive way, she would tell me. Bella's health issues did not stop her from fully living her life with happiness and showing love to everyone around her. Bella, my mom greatly misses you but she knows that you are in a better place and that gives us all comfort. Dear Bella, your beautiful and sincere smile will never be forgotten, your kindness touched my family in ways you never imagined. you will be greatly missed. [Claudia Menjivar, Santa Rosa, CA]
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My goodness Tia Bella words cannot explain how much I miss you dearly. Your laughter and sense of humor happen to make everyone's day wonderful. My memories with you will always be so dear to me. Almost every morning I am still waiting for your morning call with Tia Rosie. I know you are in a better place now & I hope you are enjoying heaven with the Lord. I love you Tia Bella. [Christina Fiel, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Well my good friend for a long time. Sad to hear you passed, but you always said "you would be on your road to the lord, for he will be awaiting for you to help him there. May God Bless you in every way." REST IN PEACE BELLA" My condolences to Belinda, Gumby, and Tina. [Irma Moreno-Tapia, Redwood Valley, CA]
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My loving sister… Who possessed a super natural strength. Who was known for her bravery and courage. My sister Bella, the conqueror of many Goliaths. Blessed with determination, a divine will to live and a love to communicate with God. Life brought you physical ailments and I never heard you complain. You faced difficulties and you always claimed victory and won. God touched many lives and healed many hearts through you. You were an angel before you even arrived in heaven, the place you called home. Sister I know God answered all your prayers and you answered His call. You surrendered your will completely to God. Missing you forever, knowing one day we will be together. I love you sister, with all my heart. [Connie Guzman-Rojas]
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Ophelia, Miguel and I Will miss you so very much. Tina Gumby, I'm so sadden to hear of your beautiful Mom's passing may she rest in peace Prays and blessing are with all of you. Love [Joey and Miguel Ramirez]
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Linda foto! Asi la recuerdo, sonriente y alegre. No puedo estar alli, pero estare pensando en la familia Guzman. Que descanse en paz..Con respeto y amor, [Maria Juarez, Woodland, CA]
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Belinda Tina Gumby, and the family Guzman my deepest condolence. Ophelia was a beautiful women a dear neighbor and friend. may she rest in peace prays are with you all God bless you. [Hopie Ramirez Olvera, Windsor, CA]
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Tia Bella, I miss you more than words can ever express, but I know I need to not be selfish and let you go. You are in a better place where you can live without having anymore pain. I know you are not gone, even though many are saying goodbye. You are in all of our hearts, in our dreams and thoughts. You will forever be with us. I know that one day we will reunite. Until that day comes I will take on all my future travels and adventures. I also remember the promise I made you before you left us, and don't you worry I will keep it. Thank you for being an amazing auntie I love you. [Mariana Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest condolences to the Guzman family of Ophelia. She was a very kind and caring lady. May she rest in Jesus and as we know she is just sleeping till Jesus comes to take us to our heavenly kingdom. [Martha Ramirez, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Oh my Beautiful Angel in Heaven, our sister Bella, how I miss you everyday. I wake up every morning waiting for your call telling me I'm running late, or like our sister Blanca said, those famous messages telling us to pick up the phone and never forgetting to tell us that you loved us!! I never thought it would hurt so much, I feel like a piece of my heart has been taken. Why did you leave us? It's hard to understand, but I also know that you are in a better place celebrating a new life! These last 6 months that we spent so much time together I realize, you were preparing me for this special day! I refuse to say goodbye, because to me it is your Birthday celebrating a new life enjoying your new Mansion that you have graduated to!! I feel the your presence and strength that you are giving me and the family! I thank you for all the things you taught me and for being by my side at difficult times. You left us with great memories that can never be forgotten! We will laugh and cry but it's only because we miss you! So sister please enjoy your new life and we will see you soon in Paradise. [Author unknown]
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My deepest sympathy to Belinda, Jesse (Gumby), Tina & the entire Guzman family. I will never ever forget Ophelia, she was a part of most of my childhood & teenage memories I had living next door in Windsor. She always treated us good & always including my brother & sister & I to the outings she would take her kids on. I remember she would pack us all up in the station wagon and we were off. I had some of the best childhood memories with Ophelia & her kids and she will never be forgotten. May you RIP Ophelia "Bella." Sending lots of love & prayers to you all Belinda, Jesse, Tina & the Guzman Family. [Author unknown]
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Dear Belinda, Jesse, Tina, Tia Concha, Tio Eladio, and Family. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. My Tia Bella was an amazing MUJER, always so thoughtful and loving. My family and I have so much to thank her. We will cherish all those wonderful memories we have of her, especially when we lived with her. Tia Concha y Tio Eladio de todo corazon lo siento mucho por la partida de mi Tia Bella, pero ella ya esta en un maravilloso lugar donde ay paz y tranquilidad, junto a nuestro dios todo poderoso. Mis padres desafortunadamente no estaran aqui para acompañar los, pero su corazon y su alma estara con toda la familia. [Familia Cordova Villanueva, Chuche, Carmela, Soyla, Laura, Chuy, Cloverdale, CA]
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My most sincere condolences to this beautiful young woman's family and friends. God needed another angel. May He bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. [Glenda Moreno, Salinas, CA]
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We are with the family in this time of sorrow. We had the honor of knowing Bella for many years. We have great memories of her. We know she is at peace in heaven. We pray for her children and Don Eladio and Dona Concha. Nuestro mas sentido pesame Don Eladio y Dona Concha por la perdida de Bella. Que Dios les de el consuelo y la resignacion. Los estimamos mucho. [Familia Ceja Magana Lidubina, Godofredo, Jr, Araceli & Marisol, CA]
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My Tia Bella, The words I spoke were true and between me & you..I will cherish the memories we created...I will always be grateful. [Angie Guzman, Windsor, CA]
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Christina, Belinda, and family, I am honored to have met your mom for the short time I did. She was a great friend always in good spirits and making me laugh. I will never forget her. God bless. [Lisa Marin, Windsor, CA]
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Dear Sister, I find it so hard to believe that you have gone. The pain is unbearable. I find myself calling your phone but you don't answer. Sister I miss your voice, your infectious laughter, your famous voice mails that you would leave me "Sister, this is your Sister Bella, if you are there pick up if not call me back" You would always end your calls with "I Love You sister." Oh how I long to hear those I LOVE YOU SISTER, I miss your forgiving and understand heart, all the little ways you show how much you cared and Loved every single one of our family members. How blessed we are that gave blessed with amazing parents. Oh and your love for fashion! Sister God has given you the most valuable and precious accessories a pair of Angel Wings! Everyone tells me" She is no longer suffering, free of pain and in much better place with her Savior that she loved & long to be with our Heavenly Father.. I ask myself then why am I so heartbroken and selfishly cry?? I am a woman of faith and I know that you are in God's loving and warm embrace, but sister it hurts so bad. I feel your presence around us, engulfing us with your love, giving us strength and keeping the entire family close& we all know that we have an angel watching us from above. I promise sister not to forget all the loving memories you gave me, your caring words, determination, strength to overcome anything, to protect the precious gifts God gave me my three beautiful daughters & your tremendous faith, trust and love for God. My only solace dear Bella is that one day we will all be together again in God's Heavenly Mansion! I miss you so very much my dear sister. RIP Love you forever your sister [Blanca Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. Bella was always so happy, smiling and greeting all she met. I will always remember her that way. [Silvia Llamas Hogan, Windsor, CA]
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Sweet Ophelia sweet angel. Praying for all of the Guzman family. Your beautiful smile shines on. [Author unknown]
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We love you Bella you will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Thanks you for being part of our life. You will greatly be missed. [Mendoza Family, Healdsburg, CA]
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In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. [Martha Mendoza, Healdsburg, CA]
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Although memories are few, I will always remember you as a very loving person. Now it is time for you to be with our Holy Father. Love [Delia Riojas, Windsor, CA]
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I love you sister forever and ever. I will pray for you everyday until I see you in heaven. Thank you for all the great memories and the most beautiful thing you have given us is to have faith. I love you sister. [Sylvia Evans, San Gabriel, CA]
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Born October 1, 1951 in Urapan Michoacan, Mexico, resident of Windsor, CA for over 50 years. Went to her mansion in heaven on January 18, 2014.
Daughter, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother and a dear friend to many. A women who touched many hearts and loved life so much. Survived by her parents Eladio and Concha Guzman. Her siblings; Javier (Lupe), Zeke (Elida), Blanca (Rigo), Eladio Jr. (Marisol), Rosie (Marcelo) Connie (Armando) and Sylvia (Barry). Her children; Belinda Soto (Son-in law- Danny), Jesse Vargas, Jr. (daughter in-law-Christina) Christina Cedano (Son-in law-Rudy). Grandchildren; Daniel, Bella, Rudy, Jr., Diego, Rebecca, Julian, Angel, Jasmine, Ricky and Eddie. Also survived by 25 nieces and nephews, 19 great nieces and nephews and two great grand children.
A Rosary and viewing will held on Thurs 1/23/14 from 4-8 p.m. at St. Johns Church in Healdsburg, CA. Celebration of life will be on Friday 1/24/14 at 11 a.m. St. Johns Church immediately following we will continue her celebration at Windsor Shiloh Cemetery.
She says to many,
"Do not stand at my grave and cry, for I am not there, I did not die."
She will be missed but not forgotten.
[Published Online in the Press Democrat from Jan. 22 to Jan. 24, 2014]
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The memories you left us with will forever remain in our hearts! You are the light of our lives you are a candle that will never die but shine forever! See you soon mama...[Daughters, Belinda & Christina, Windsor, California]
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Hi Mom, It's me your first born daughter Belinda. I thought I'd write a little something about the beautiful person you were before this is removed from the PD website and I'm not able to get it printed in the Memory Book I'm going to make in your memory. It's been thirty days since you passed and oh how I miss you. Wish I could hear your voice and hear your good morning messages. The memories and wisdom you left me will be with me forever and I hope to one day leave the same to my children. There are days when all I do is sit and think about you, hoping and praying you being gone from my life is just a dream. Since you've been gone, I've gone through my baby photos and sister even found a video with my first birthday and Christmas, thank you mom for the way you loved us, for giving us the world! You had three beautiful children and loved us no matter what. What will I do without you, how will the days and holidays be without you? It's going to be hard, but I promise to carry on your traditions. Thank you for teaching me as a child how to pray and love God with all my heart, for you know one day I'd need Him. At times when I feel I cant face another day without you, I hear your voice, saying "be strong, you can do it". I hope I can be half the mom you were. I'll miss our lunches together, I'll miss brushing and blow drying your hair and all the little gifts and cards you would bless me with. Although I feel like you've left me, I know you're in a better place, a place where there is no sorrow or pain. Every day for the rest of my life I will think of you, when I rise and when I lay my head down. I know you see me when I smile and when I cry, and it's in those times I feel your spirit lives and is around me. I know I'll see you again one day and I cant wait. Thank you for your sacrifice and love as a mother, you were our mother, father and friend and no on can top that! Till we meet again mom, have fun dancing in heaven,save me room on the dance floor and be sure my mansion is next door to yours! I am who I am today because of you and for that I'm forever grateful. I'll miss with all of my heart you but I know you hear me when talk to you and sing your favorite songs! My world will never be the same without you. "You light up my life". Love you momma - your daughter Belinda, [Belinda Soto]
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Hello Sister Bella, Its a little over 30 days that you left us and a couple of days away from the day we laid you to rest! I still find it unbelievable that you are no longer here. I know the Lord decided it was time for to go to a better life and that you had earned your way to Heaven!! But everyday I find it more difficult for me to understand why! I miss you more and more everyday! I wait for your phone call every other day telling me I'm running late, I miss brushing your hair and making your braids and pony tails, helping you change your clothes and arguing about matching your clothes, you telling me no, "I don't want you to wear your nice clothes around the house" and I would put it on you anyway! I miss taking you to the doctor, then going to eat! Either Jack in Box or going down Sebastopol Road looking for the taco stands! Going to Starbucks, or KC for breakfast or walking down Town Green! Wow the last six months that we spent together were unbelievable, we learned so much about each other. You were an amazing women, friend, sister, mother, aunt, grama, daughter and you were even a father to your children that you loved dearly!! The Love that you had for everyone can never be replaced by anyone!!! You cherished your children, grandchildren, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, friends and Our Parents were always your first priority!! You loved life, you never let nothing hold you back—you always took your chances no matter what! You always gave everyone of one us support no matter what the situation was, you never let us give up! I still remember the day before you went to ICU and you had your By Pap Mask on and you seen me and Baby Tina eating candy!! we were trying to sneak it from you and you caught us! You said, give me some I said no your sick and your mask is on and you said, give me some I don't care, you made us take the mask off and the alarm went off and you said, throw the candy in my mouth and I did, you were unbelievable!! so many things that we have lived with you!! You have left us with memories that are unforgettable! But sister I miss you soooooo much the pain is unbearable!! I know with time it will ease, but never go away because a part of me has been taken away!! But I also know that you have graduated to a better place and that you are no longer suffering and that you are dancing and enjoying your new LIFE!! Please know sister that our parents will be taken care of, I want you to RIP and not worry about anything!! I love you forever sister and please save a place for me next to you!! Always in my HEART!! [Rosie Chavez]
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Hi mama, It's your baby daughter! I just want to start by saying I love you and miss you so much! Words can never express the way I feel. It's only been one month since you've been gone & I wait by the phone still hoping you'll call and I find it hard to believe you are really gone. I go to sleep early just hoping to wake up and it would all be a dream and I'm realizing it's reality and you're really gone.:( We had our 'ups and downs', our 'tears & frowns', our 'laughs & smiles' with so many trials. And no matter what you'd always be there to lift me when I'd fall. I realize now the Lord called you home, I knew the time would come when you'd have to go and the Lord took your hand and called you home. I can't be selfish and ask God "why did you take my mama home?" I knew you were tired mama and couldn't hold on. I'll miss your voice and all your calls. Many moments I cried, you heard them all, the words you'd speak when I was weak, your words of encouragement I always sought. Your words I'll cherish so close to me and in my heart I'll always keep. You would say to me, "It's okay, don't worry, I'm here, don't fear, you can do it, be happy and smile, be thankful," and remember mija "no mater what I love you and you will always be my "baby girl!" I miss you so much mama that only God knows. Me and my sister spent your last days with you, feeding you and laughing with you so happy together like never before! You said your goodbyes, you hugged us and cried, you told us how much you loved us and to please not cry, you said to take care of your children, "I'm too tired now, I love you children, my job here is done, I did my best for you all, I love you guys and please stand strong!" And we will mama! we love you. Until we meet again please save us a place right next to yours, for we will all one day be together again, love you mama! From your baby girl Christina ~ [Christina Cedano, Windsor, California]
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Hello Aunt Bell, Since you left us there is not a day that passes that I don't think of you. I miss you terribly. I went to the beach last week for the first time since we last went together. It just wasn't the same. As I watched the waves crashing my heart was filled with bliss as I reminisced about new and old memories of you and how you brought so much joy to everyone's life and how you saw the best in people when we couldn't see it in ourselves. Thank you for giving me a place to call home when I felt like I had nowhere to turn to and being my best friend. You were a truly remarkable woman and I will forever carry with me the advice and memories that you blessed me with. I love you with all my heart and I cannot wait to see you! Love,
Tati~ [Tatiana Melgoza, Windsor, California]
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Hi grandma, It's me your grandson Ricky. It has already been a month now since you've left, but I know that you are with the lord now, and Champy, and I know that we will all be going to the same place. Grandma, save us a mansion right next to yours, and give the Lord a big kiss for us.... Love You so much! [Ricky Cedano, Windsor, California]
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I Miss and love you more than words could ever express grandma. But I know that you are with me because I have already seen you in my dreams. Whenever I go to work I still picture you sitting at the same table ordering all your favorites. Although I wish you were still here to run to for a good laugh, a shoulder to cry on, advice, or to tell all my secrets to, I will never forget the times you were there for all of that and more. I know you already have a spot saved for all of us in heaven and I can't wait to be there right with you holding your hand. I love you grandma. Your one and only granddaughter. Xoxo. [Bella Soto,
Windsor]
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So many things I could say to my grandmother. Words will never express. We could sit & talk all day about anything. The past couple of years we got closer, we shared so many memories. Thinking back on all the times, still puts a smile on my face. I love you grandma. Forever you will live in my heart. You were like a second mother I could always run to if needed. Every time I play an oldie, it will always be in memory of you. I pray for the day I see you again, see you again walking the streets of heaven.. Watch over me grandma. You are our guardian angel. [Daniel Soto,
Windsor, California]
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Hi suegra it's me you're son-in-law Rudy! I don't know where to start by saying how much we love you and how much you're missed here! This world is so much lonelier without you! I miss you're encouraging words of strong advice. You always treated me like a son. You were like a mother to me. You taught me, you gave me, you were always there in every time of need, my children miss you so much. You were a big part of their lives. You blessed them in many ways. You taught them so much they will never forget you. But the best thing you ever gave me was "my beautiful wife"! Thank you suegra. You called me almost everyday to encourage me to go to the doctor and to have the surgery and that it will all go well. You told me "do it mijo and I'll be there! "Rosie will take me!" Don't worry, I promise I will be there!" and I did suegra, and when I came out of recovery I looked around, waiting to see you come through the doors but I was waiting and looking and you couldn't be found. It was hard for me to except that you weren't around. But in my heart I felt you there. I was still looking around and when I turned my head I saw a nurse pushing a lady in a wheel chair when they turned the corner I swore she looked just like you. I smiled and said yup that was "my suegra" showing me "I'm hear mijo" "now you must pull through!" Thank you "ophelia" You left me your strength and now I need to get it together and really pull through. I got much more going on now if you only knew? You will be truly missed but we will meet again! Until that day suegra make room for us for we'll all be there too! [Rudy Cedano, Windsor, California]
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My dear Grandmother Bella, Oh the times we had since day 1. From when I was born, you have always been there to love me and show me the way when I didn't know better. So many memories that I have with you can fill up this entire book but even better, they fill me up in the spirit to know you gave it all you had for my family and I and even those around you. Whether through hardship or moments of happiness, there has always been a moment of love and life! That is always how I saw you. A very strong, lively, loving woman! Never will you be forgotten. For a big part of me is because of you and who you were! I'm sure you are resting with him now Our Lord! And Nothing but contentment lays in my heart for you now Grandma Bella. Thank you for everything! Sincerely, yours truly, Lil Rudy. A.k.a Gordo ~ [Rudy Cedano, Windsor town, California]
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Ophelia, this is me Johnny. I'm going to miss you with all my heart. My life feels so lonely since you've been gone. You lived your life to the fullest & enjoyed every day as if it was your last. I hope one day I will have the strength you had. You were an amazing woman who touched a lot of lives. You taught them, you loved them, you gave to them & always thought of others first before yourself. You out lived your life just for your children & grandchildren & especially your parents! I know they will all miss your beautiful loving ways. You left us all such beautiful memories! Your body may be gone from this world but your spirit lives forever in our hearts! You are in a better place. You no longer have to suffer, no more pain, hospitals, & no longer in a wheelchair! I'm happy for you that you can finally rest in peace. I'll missing you so much. Please save me a place up in heaven. I hope my mansion will be next to yours. Send a kiss & hug to champy. Love you & see you soon one day again. Your friend, [Johnny Gaitan, Windosr, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. May God keep on giving you the strength you need on this great loss. Bella touched my mom's life (Reyna Martinez)in so many ways. My mother and us are so heartbroken. My mother could never stopped talking about Bella and how her kindness and love for ever changed her life. My mother loved spending time with Bella, she would always come home and talk to me about Bella's love for life and her family. She keeps me going and makes me love life and see everything in a positive way, she would tell me. Bella's health issues did not stop her from fully living her life with happiness and showing love to everyone around her. Bella, my mom greatly misses you but she knows that you are in a better place and that gives us all comfort. Dear Bella, your beautiful and sincere smile will never be forgotten, your kindness touched my family in ways you never imagined. you will be greatly missed. [Claudia Menjivar, Santa Rosa, CA]
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My goodness Tia Bella words cannot explain how much I miss you dearly. Your laughter and sense of humor happen to make everyone's day wonderful. My memories with you will always be so dear to me. Almost every morning I am still waiting for your morning call with Tia Rosie. I know you are in a better place now & I hope you are enjoying heaven with the Lord. I love you Tia Bella. [Christina Fiel, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Well my good friend for a long time. Sad to hear you passed, but you always said "you would be on your road to the lord, for he will be awaiting for you to help him there. May God Bless you in every way." REST IN PEACE BELLA" My condolences to Belinda, Gumby, and Tina. [Irma Moreno-Tapia, Redwood Valley, CA]
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My loving sister… Who possessed a super natural strength. Who was known for her bravery and courage. My sister Bella, the conqueror of many Goliaths. Blessed with determination, a divine will to live and a love to communicate with God. Life brought you physical ailments and I never heard you complain. You faced difficulties and you always claimed victory and won. God touched many lives and healed many hearts through you. You were an angel before you even arrived in heaven, the place you called home. Sister I know God answered all your prayers and you answered His call. You surrendered your will completely to God. Missing you forever, knowing one day we will be together. I love you sister, with all my heart. [Connie Guzman-Rojas]
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Ophelia, Miguel and I Will miss you so very much. Tina Gumby, I'm so sadden to hear of your beautiful Mom's passing may she rest in peace Prays and blessing are with all of you. Love [Joey and Miguel Ramirez]
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Linda foto! Asi la recuerdo, sonriente y alegre. No puedo estar alli, pero estare pensando en la familia Guzman. Que descanse en paz..Con respeto y amor, [Maria Juarez, Woodland, CA]
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Belinda Tina Gumby, and the family Guzman my deepest condolence. Ophelia was a beautiful women a dear neighbor and friend. may she rest in peace prays are with you all God bless you. [Hopie Ramirez Olvera, Windsor, CA]
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Tia Bella, I miss you more than words can ever express, but I know I need to not be selfish and let you go. You are in a better place where you can live without having anymore pain. I know you are not gone, even though many are saying goodbye. You are in all of our hearts, in our dreams and thoughts. You will forever be with us. I know that one day we will reunite. Until that day comes I will take on all my future travels and adventures. I also remember the promise I made you before you left us, and don't you worry I will keep it. Thank you for being an amazing auntie I love you. [Mariana Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest condolences to the Guzman family of Ophelia. She was a very kind and caring lady. May she rest in Jesus and as we know she is just sleeping till Jesus comes to take us to our heavenly kingdom. [Martha Ramirez, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Oh my Beautiful Angel in Heaven, our sister Bella, how I miss you everyday. I wake up every morning waiting for your call telling me I'm running late, or like our sister Blanca said, those famous messages telling us to pick up the phone and never forgetting to tell us that you loved us!! I never thought it would hurt so much, I feel like a piece of my heart has been taken. Why did you leave us? It's hard to understand, but I also know that you are in a better place celebrating a new life! These last 6 months that we spent so much time together I realize, you were preparing me for this special day! I refuse to say goodbye, because to me it is your Birthday celebrating a new life enjoying your new Mansion that you have graduated to!! I feel the your presence and strength that you are giving me and the family! I thank you for all the things you taught me and for being by my side at difficult times. You left us with great memories that can never be forgotten! We will laugh and cry but it's only because we miss you! So sister please enjoy your new life and we will see you soon in Paradise. [Author unknown]
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My deepest sympathy to Belinda, Jesse (Gumby), Tina & the entire Guzman family. I will never ever forget Ophelia, she was a part of most of my childhood & teenage memories I had living next door in Windsor. She always treated us good & always including my brother & sister & I to the outings she would take her kids on. I remember she would pack us all up in the station wagon and we were off. I had some of the best childhood memories with Ophelia & her kids and she will never be forgotten. May you RIP Ophelia "Bella." Sending lots of love & prayers to you all Belinda, Jesse, Tina & the Guzman Family. [Author unknown]
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Dear Belinda, Jesse, Tina, Tia Concha, Tio Eladio, and Family. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. My Tia Bella was an amazing MUJER, always so thoughtful and loving. My family and I have so much to thank her. We will cherish all those wonderful memories we have of her, especially when we lived with her. Tia Concha y Tio Eladio de todo corazon lo siento mucho por la partida de mi Tia Bella, pero ella ya esta en un maravilloso lugar donde ay paz y tranquilidad, junto a nuestro dios todo poderoso. Mis padres desafortunadamente no estaran aqui para acompañar los, pero su corazon y su alma estara con toda la familia. [Familia Cordova Villanueva, Chuche, Carmela, Soyla, Laura, Chuy, Cloverdale, CA]
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My most sincere condolences to this beautiful young woman's family and friends. God needed another angel. May He bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. [Glenda Moreno, Salinas, CA]
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We are with the family in this time of sorrow. We had the honor of knowing Bella for many years. We have great memories of her. We know she is at peace in heaven. We pray for her children and Don Eladio and Dona Concha. Nuestro mas sentido pesame Don Eladio y Dona Concha por la perdida de Bella. Que Dios les de el consuelo y la resignacion. Los estimamos mucho. [Familia Ceja Magana Lidubina, Godofredo, Jr, Araceli & Marisol, CA]
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My Tia Bella, The words I spoke were true and between me & you..I will cherish the memories we created...I will always be grateful. [Angie Guzman, Windsor, CA]
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Christina, Belinda, and family, I am honored to have met your mom for the short time I did. She was a great friend always in good spirits and making me laugh. I will never forget her. God bless. [Lisa Marin, Windsor, CA]
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Dear Sister, I find it so hard to believe that you have gone. The pain is unbearable. I find myself calling your phone but you don't answer. Sister I miss your voice, your infectious laughter, your famous voice mails that you would leave me "Sister, this is your Sister Bella, if you are there pick up if not call me back" You would always end your calls with "I Love You sister." Oh how I long to hear those I LOVE YOU SISTER, I miss your forgiving and understand heart, all the little ways you show how much you cared and Loved every single one of our family members. How blessed we are that gave blessed with amazing parents. Oh and your love for fashion! Sister God has given you the most valuable and precious accessories a pair of Angel Wings! Everyone tells me" She is no longer suffering, free of pain and in much better place with her Savior that she loved & long to be with our Heavenly Father.. I ask myself then why am I so heartbroken and selfishly cry?? I am a woman of faith and I know that you are in God's loving and warm embrace, but sister it hurts so bad. I feel your presence around us, engulfing us with your love, giving us strength and keeping the entire family close& we all know that we have an angel watching us from above. I promise sister not to forget all the loving memories you gave me, your caring words, determination, strength to overcome anything, to protect the precious gifts God gave me my three beautiful daughters & your tremendous faith, trust and love for God. My only solace dear Bella is that one day we will all be together again in God's Heavenly Mansion! I miss you so very much my dear sister. RIP Love you forever your sister [Blanca Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. Bella was always so happy, smiling and greeting all she met. I will always remember her that way. [Silvia Llamas Hogan, Windsor, CA]
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Sweet Ophelia sweet angel. Praying for all of the Guzman family. Your beautiful smile shines on. [Author unknown]
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We love you Bella you will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Thanks you for being part of our life. You will greatly be missed. [Mendoza Family, Healdsburg, CA]
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In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. [Martha Mendoza, Healdsburg, CA]
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Although memories are few, I will always remember you as a very loving person. Now it is time for you to be with our Holy Father. Love [Delia Riojas, Windsor, CA]
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I love you sister forever and ever. I will pray for you everyday until I see you in heaven. Thank you for all the great memories and the most beautiful thing you have given us is to have faith. I love you sister. [Sylvia Evans, San Gabriel, CA]
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(Granted approval by Belinda Soto to post obituary in its entirety.)
Born October 1, 1951 in Urapan Michoacan, Mexico, resident of Windsor, CA for over 50 years. Went to her mansion in heaven on January 18, 2014.
Daughter, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother and a dear friend to many. A women who touched many hearts and loved life so much. Survived by her parents Eladio and Concha Guzman. Her siblings; Javier (Lupe), Zeke (Elida), Blanca (Rigo), Eladio Jr. (Marisol), Rosie (Marcelo) Connie (Armando) and Sylvia (Barry). Her children; Belinda Soto (Son-in law- Danny), Jesse Vargas, Jr. (daughter in-law-Christina) Christina Cedano (Son-in law-Rudy). Grandchildren; Daniel, Bella, Rudy, Jr., Diego, Rebecca, Julian, Angel, Jasmine, Ricky and Eddie. Also survived by 25 nieces and nephews, 19 great nieces and nephews and two great grand children.
A Rosary and viewing will held on Thurs 1/23/14 from 4-8 p.m. at St. Johns Church in Healdsburg, CA. Celebration of life will be on Friday 1/24/14 at 11 a.m. St. Johns Church immediately following we will continue her celebration at Windsor Shiloh Cemetery.
She says to many,
"Do not stand at my grave and cry, for I am not there, I did not die."
She will be missed but not forgotten.
[Published Online in the Press Democrat from Jan. 22 to Jan. 24, 2014]
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The memories you left us with will forever remain in our hearts! You are the light of our lives you are a candle that will never die but shine forever! See you soon mama...[Daughters, Belinda & Christina, Windsor, California]
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Hi Mom, It's me your first born daughter Belinda. I thought I'd write a little something about the beautiful person you were before this is removed from the PD website and I'm not able to get it printed in the Memory Book I'm going to make in your memory. It's been thirty days since you passed and oh how I miss you. Wish I could hear your voice and hear your good morning messages. The memories and wisdom you left me will be with me forever and I hope to one day leave the same to my children. There are days when all I do is sit and think about you, hoping and praying you being gone from my life is just a dream. Since you've been gone, I've gone through my baby photos and sister even found a video with my first birthday and Christmas, thank you mom for the way you loved us, for giving us the world! You had three beautiful children and loved us no matter what. What will I do without you, how will the days and holidays be without you? It's going to be hard, but I promise to carry on your traditions. Thank you for teaching me as a child how to pray and love God with all my heart, for you know one day I'd need Him. At times when I feel I cant face another day without you, I hear your voice, saying "be strong, you can do it". I hope I can be half the mom you were. I'll miss our lunches together, I'll miss brushing and blow drying your hair and all the little gifts and cards you would bless me with. Although I feel like you've left me, I know you're in a better place, a place where there is no sorrow or pain. Every day for the rest of my life I will think of you, when I rise and when I lay my head down. I know you see me when I smile and when I cry, and it's in those times I feel your spirit lives and is around me. I know I'll see you again one day and I cant wait. Thank you for your sacrifice and love as a mother, you were our mother, father and friend and no on can top that! Till we meet again mom, have fun dancing in heaven,save me room on the dance floor and be sure my mansion is next door to yours! I am who I am today because of you and for that I'm forever grateful. I'll miss with all of my heart you but I know you hear me when talk to you and sing your favorite songs! My world will never be the same without you. "You light up my life". Love you momma - your daughter Belinda, [Belinda Soto]
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Hello Sister Bella, Its a little over 30 days that you left us and a couple of days away from the day we laid you to rest! I still find it unbelievable that you are no longer here. I know the Lord decided it was time for to go to a better life and that you had earned your way to Heaven!! But everyday I find it more difficult for me to understand why! I miss you more and more everyday! I wait for your phone call every other day telling me I'm running late, I miss brushing your hair and making your braids and pony tails, helping you change your clothes and arguing about matching your clothes, you telling me no, "I don't want you to wear your nice clothes around the house" and I would put it on you anyway! I miss taking you to the doctor, then going to eat! Either Jack in Box or going down Sebastopol Road looking for the taco stands! Going to Starbucks, or KC for breakfast or walking down Town Green! Wow the last six months that we spent together were unbelievable, we learned so much about each other. You were an amazing women, friend, sister, mother, aunt, grama, daughter and you were even a father to your children that you loved dearly!! The Love that you had for everyone can never be replaced by anyone!!! You cherished your children, grandchildren, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, friends and Our Parents were always your first priority!! You loved life, you never let nothing hold you back—you always took your chances no matter what! You always gave everyone of one us support no matter what the situation was, you never let us give up! I still remember the day before you went to ICU and you had your By Pap Mask on and you seen me and Baby Tina eating candy!! we were trying to sneak it from you and you caught us! You said, give me some I said no your sick and your mask is on and you said, give me some I don't care, you made us take the mask off and the alarm went off and you said, throw the candy in my mouth and I did, you were unbelievable!! so many things that we have lived with you!! You have left us with memories that are unforgettable! But sister I miss you soooooo much the pain is unbearable!! I know with time it will ease, but never go away because a part of me has been taken away!! But I also know that you have graduated to a better place and that you are no longer suffering and that you are dancing and enjoying your new LIFE!! Please know sister that our parents will be taken care of, I want you to RIP and not worry about anything!! I love you forever sister and please save a place for me next to you!! Always in my HEART!! [Rosie Chavez]
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Hi mama, It's your baby daughter! I just want to start by saying I love you and miss you so much! Words can never express the way I feel. It's only been one month since you've been gone & I wait by the phone still hoping you'll call and I find it hard to believe you are really gone. I go to sleep early just hoping to wake up and it would all be a dream and I'm realizing it's reality and you're really gone.:( We had our 'ups and downs', our 'tears & frowns', our 'laughs & smiles' with so many trials. And no matter what you'd always be there to lift me when I'd fall. I realize now the Lord called you home, I knew the time would come when you'd have to go and the Lord took your hand and called you home. I can't be selfish and ask God "why did you take my mama home?" I knew you were tired mama and couldn't hold on. I'll miss your voice and all your calls. Many moments I cried, you heard them all, the words you'd speak when I was weak, your words of encouragement I always sought. Your words I'll cherish so close to me and in my heart I'll always keep. You would say to me, "It's okay, don't worry, I'm here, don't fear, you can do it, be happy and smile, be thankful," and remember mija "no mater what I love you and you will always be my "baby girl!" I miss you so much mama that only God knows. Me and my sister spent your last days with you, feeding you and laughing with you so happy together like never before! You said your goodbyes, you hugged us and cried, you told us how much you loved us and to please not cry, you said to take care of your children, "I'm too tired now, I love you children, my job here is done, I did my best for you all, I love you guys and please stand strong!" And we will mama! we love you. Until we meet again please save us a place right next to yours, for we will all one day be together again, love you mama! From your baby girl Christina ~ [Christina Cedano, Windsor, California]
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Hello Aunt Bell, Since you left us there is not a day that passes that I don't think of you. I miss you terribly. I went to the beach last week for the first time since we last went together. It just wasn't the same. As I watched the waves crashing my heart was filled with bliss as I reminisced about new and old memories of you and how you brought so much joy to everyone's life and how you saw the best in people when we couldn't see it in ourselves. Thank you for giving me a place to call home when I felt like I had nowhere to turn to and being my best friend. You were a truly remarkable woman and I will forever carry with me the advice and memories that you blessed me with. I love you with all my heart and I cannot wait to see you! Love,
Tati~ [Tatiana Melgoza, Windsor, California]
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Hi grandma, It's me your grandson Ricky. It has already been a month now since you've left, but I know that you are with the lord now, and Champy, and I know that we will all be going to the same place. Grandma, save us a mansion right next to yours, and give the Lord a big kiss for us.... Love You so much! [Ricky Cedano, Windsor, California]
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I Miss and love you more than words could ever express grandma. But I know that you are with me because I have already seen you in my dreams. Whenever I go to work I still picture you sitting at the same table ordering all your favorites. Although I wish you were still here to run to for a good laugh, a shoulder to cry on, advice, or to tell all my secrets to, I will never forget the times you were there for all of that and more. I know you already have a spot saved for all of us in heaven and I can't wait to be there right with you holding your hand. I love you grandma. Your one and only granddaughter. Xoxo. [Bella Soto,
Windsor]
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So many things I could say to my grandmother. Words will never express. We could sit & talk all day about anything. The past couple of years we got closer, we shared so many memories. Thinking back on all the times, still puts a smile on my face. I love you grandma. Forever you will live in my heart. You were like a second mother I could always run to if needed. Every time I play an oldie, it will always be in memory of you. I pray for the day I see you again, see you again walking the streets of heaven.. Watch over me grandma. You are our guardian angel. [Daniel Soto,
Windsor, California]
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Hi suegra it's me you're son-in-law Rudy! I don't know where to start by saying how much we love you and how much you're missed here! This world is so much lonelier without you! I miss you're encouraging words of strong advice. You always treated me like a son. You were like a mother to me. You taught me, you gave me, you were always there in every time of need, my children miss you so much. You were a big part of their lives. You blessed them in many ways. You taught them so much they will never forget you. But the best thing you ever gave me was "my beautiful wife"! Thank you suegra. You called me almost everyday to encourage me to go to the doctor and to have the surgery and that it will all go well. You told me "do it mijo and I'll be there! "Rosie will take me!" Don't worry, I promise I will be there!" and I did suegra, and when I came out of recovery I looked around, waiting to see you come through the doors but I was waiting and looking and you couldn't be found. It was hard for me to except that you weren't around. But in my heart I felt you there. I was still looking around and when I turned my head I saw a nurse pushing a lady in a wheel chair when they turned the corner I swore she looked just like you. I smiled and said yup that was "my suegra" showing me "I'm hear mijo" "now you must pull through!" Thank you "ophelia" You left me your strength and now I need to get it together and really pull through. I got much more going on now if you only knew? You will be truly missed but we will meet again! Until that day suegra make room for us for we'll all be there too! [Rudy Cedano, Windsor, California]
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My dear Grandmother Bella, Oh the times we had since day 1. From when I was born, you have always been there to love me and show me the way when I didn't know better. So many memories that I have with you can fill up this entire book but even better, they fill me up in the spirit to know you gave it all you had for my family and I and even those around you. Whether through hardship or moments of happiness, there has always been a moment of love and life! That is always how I saw you. A very strong, lively, loving woman! Never will you be forgotten. For a big part of me is because of you and who you were! I'm sure you are resting with him now Our Lord! And Nothing but contentment lays in my heart for you now Grandma Bella. Thank you for everything! Sincerely, yours truly, Lil Rudy. A.k.a Gordo ~ [Rudy Cedano, Windsor town, California]
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Ophelia, this is me Johnny. I'm going to miss you with all my heart. My life feels so lonely since you've been gone. You lived your life to the fullest & enjoyed every day as if it was your last. I hope one day I will have the strength you had. You were an amazing woman who touched a lot of lives. You taught them, you loved them, you gave to them & always thought of others first before yourself. You out lived your life just for your children & grandchildren & especially your parents! I know they will all miss your beautiful loving ways. You left us all such beautiful memories! Your body may be gone from this world but your spirit lives forever in our hearts! You are in a better place. You no longer have to suffer, no more pain, hospitals, & no longer in a wheelchair! I'm happy for you that you can finally rest in peace. I'll missing you so much. Please save me a place up in heaven. I hope my mansion will be next to yours. Send a kiss & hug to champy. Love you & see you soon one day again. Your friend, [Johnny Gaitan, Windosr, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. May God keep on giving you the strength you need on this great loss. Bella touched my mom's life (Reyna Martinez)in so many ways. My mother and us are so heartbroken. My mother could never stopped talking about Bella and how her kindness and love for ever changed her life. My mother loved spending time with Bella, she would always come home and talk to me about Bella's love for life and her family. She keeps me going and makes me love life and see everything in a positive way, she would tell me. Bella's health issues did not stop her from fully living her life with happiness and showing love to everyone around her. Bella, my mom greatly misses you but she knows that you are in a better place and that gives us all comfort. Dear Bella, your beautiful and sincere smile will never be forgotten, your kindness touched my family in ways you never imagined. you will be greatly missed. [Claudia Menjivar, Santa Rosa, CA]
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My goodness Tia Bella words cannot explain how much I miss you dearly. Your laughter and sense of humor happen to make everyone's day wonderful. My memories with you will always be so dear to me. Almost every morning I am still waiting for your morning call with Tia Rosie. I know you are in a better place now & I hope you are enjoying heaven with the Lord. I love you Tia Bella. [Christina Fiel, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Well my good friend for a long time. Sad to hear you passed, but you always said "you would be on your road to the lord, for he will be awaiting for you to help him there. May God Bless you in every way." REST IN PEACE BELLA" My condolences to Belinda, Gumby, and Tina. [Irma Moreno-Tapia, Redwood Valley, CA]
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My loving sister… Who possessed a super natural strength. Who was known for her bravery and courage. My sister Bella, the conqueror of many Goliaths. Blessed with determination, a divine will to live and a love to communicate with God. Life brought you physical ailments and I never heard you complain. You faced difficulties and you always claimed victory and won. God touched many lives and healed many hearts through you. You were an angel before you even arrived in heaven, the place you called home. Sister I know God answered all your prayers and you answered His call. You surrendered your will completely to God. Missing you forever, knowing one day we will be together. I love you sister, with all my heart. [Connie Guzman-Rojas]
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Ophelia, Miguel and I Will miss you so very much. Tina Gumby, I'm so sadden to hear of your beautiful Mom's passing may she rest in peace Prays and blessing are with all of you. Love [Joey and Miguel Ramirez]
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Linda foto! Asi la recuerdo, sonriente y alegre. No puedo estar alli, pero estare pensando en la familia Guzman. Que descanse en paz..Con respeto y amor, [Maria Juarez, Woodland, CA]
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Belinda Tina Gumby, and the family Guzman my deepest condolence. Ophelia was a beautiful women a dear neighbor and friend. may she rest in peace prays are with you all God bless you. [Hopie Ramirez Olvera, Windsor, CA]
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Tia Bella, I miss you more than words can ever express, but I know I need to not be selfish and let you go. You are in a better place where you can live without having anymore pain. I know you are not gone, even though many are saying goodbye. You are in all of our hearts, in our dreams and thoughts. You will forever be with us. I know that one day we will reunite. Until that day comes I will take on all my future travels and adventures. I also remember the promise I made you before you left us, and don't you worry I will keep it. Thank you for being an amazing auntie I love you. [Mariana Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest condolences to the Guzman family of Ophelia. She was a very kind and caring lady. May she rest in Jesus and as we know she is just sleeping till Jesus comes to take us to our heavenly kingdom. [Martha Ramirez, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Oh my Beautiful Angel in Heaven, our sister Bella, how I miss you everyday. I wake up every morning waiting for your call telling me I'm running late, or like our sister Blanca said, those famous messages telling us to pick up the phone and never forgetting to tell us that you loved us!! I never thought it would hurt so much, I feel like a piece of my heart has been taken. Why did you leave us? It's hard to understand, but I also know that you are in a better place celebrating a new life! These last 6 months that we spent so much time together I realize, you were preparing me for this special day! I refuse to say goodbye, because to me it is your Birthday celebrating a new life enjoying your new Mansion that you have graduated to!! I feel the your presence and strength that you are giving me and the family! I thank you for all the things you taught me and for being by my side at difficult times. You left us with great memories that can never be forgotten! We will laugh and cry but it's only because we miss you! So sister please enjoy your new life and we will see you soon in Paradise. [Author unknown]
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My deepest sympathy to Belinda, Jesse (Gumby), Tina & the entire Guzman family. I will never ever forget Ophelia, she was a part of most of my childhood & teenage memories I had living next door in Windsor. She always treated us good & always including my brother & sister & I to the outings she would take her kids on. I remember she would pack us all up in the station wagon and we were off. I had some of the best childhood memories with Ophelia & her kids and she will never be forgotten. May you RIP Ophelia "Bella." Sending lots of love & prayers to you all Belinda, Jesse, Tina & the Guzman Family. [Author unknown]
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Dear Belinda, Jesse, Tina, Tia Concha, Tio Eladio, and Family. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. My Tia Bella was an amazing MUJER, always so thoughtful and loving. My family and I have so much to thank her. We will cherish all those wonderful memories we have of her, especially when we lived with her. Tia Concha y Tio Eladio de todo corazon lo siento mucho por la partida de mi Tia Bella, pero ella ya esta en un maravilloso lugar donde ay paz y tranquilidad, junto a nuestro dios todo poderoso. Mis padres desafortunadamente no estaran aqui para acompañar los, pero su corazon y su alma estara con toda la familia. [Familia Cordova Villanueva, Chuche, Carmela, Soyla, Laura, Chuy, Cloverdale, CA]
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My most sincere condolences to this beautiful young woman's family and friends. God needed another angel. May He bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. [Glenda Moreno, Salinas, CA]
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We are with the family in this time of sorrow. We had the honor of knowing Bella for many years. We have great memories of her. We know she is at peace in heaven. We pray for her children and Don Eladio and Dona Concha. Nuestro mas sentido pesame Don Eladio y Dona Concha por la perdida de Bella. Que Dios les de el consuelo y la resignacion. Los estimamos mucho. [Familia Ceja Magana Lidubina, Godofredo, Jr, Araceli & Marisol, CA]
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My Tia Bella, The words I spoke were true and between me & you..I will cherish the memories we created...I will always be grateful. [Angie Guzman, Windsor, CA]
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Christina, Belinda, and family, I am honored to have met your mom for the short time I did. She was a great friend always in good spirits and making me laugh. I will never forget her. God bless. [Lisa Marin, Windsor, CA]
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Dear Sister, I find it so hard to believe that you have gone. The pain is unbearable. I find myself calling your phone but you don't answer. Sister I miss your voice, your infectious laughter, your famous voice mails that you would leave me "Sister, this is your Sister Bella, if you are there pick up if not call me back" You would always end your calls with "I Love You sister." Oh how I long to hear those I LOVE YOU SISTER, I miss your forgiving and understand heart, all the little ways you show how much you cared and Loved every single one of our family members. How blessed we are that gave blessed with amazing parents. Oh and your love for fashion! Sister God has given you the most valuable and precious accessories a pair of Angel Wings! Everyone tells me" She is no longer suffering, free of pain and in much better place with her Savior that she loved & long to be with our Heavenly Father.. I ask myself then why am I so heartbroken and selfishly cry?? I am a woman of faith and I know that you are in God's loving and warm embrace, but sister it hurts so bad. I feel your presence around us, engulfing us with your love, giving us strength and keeping the entire family close& we all know that we have an angel watching us from above. I promise sister not to forget all the loving memories you gave me, your caring words, determination, strength to overcome anything, to protect the precious gifts God gave me my three beautiful daughters & your tremendous faith, trust and love for God. My only solace dear Bella is that one day we will all be together again in God's Heavenly Mansion! I miss you so very much my dear sister. RIP Love you forever your sister [Blanca Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. Bella was always so happy, smiling and greeting all she met. I will always remember her that way. [Silvia Llamas Hogan, Windsor, CA]
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Sweet Ophelia sweet angel. Praying for all of the Guzman family. Your beautiful smile shines on. [Author unknown]
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We love you Bella you will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Thanks you for being part of our life. You will greatly be missed. [Mendoza Family, Healdsburg, CA]
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In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. [Martha Mendoza, Healdsburg, CA]
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Although memories are few, I will always remember you as a very loving person. Now it is time for you to be with our Holy Father. Love [Delia Riojas, Windsor, CA]
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I love you sister forever and ever. I will pray for you everyday until I see you in heaven. Thank you for all the great memories and the most beautiful thing you have given us is to have faith. I love you sister. [Sylvia Evans, San Gabriel, CA]
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Born October 1, 1951 in Urapan Michoacan, Mexico, resident of Windsor, CA for over 50 years. Went to her mansion in heaven on January 18, 2014.
Daughter, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother and a dear friend to many. A women who touched many hearts and loved life so much. Survived by her parents Eladio and Concha Guzman. Her siblings; Javier (Lupe), Zeke (Elida), Blanca (Rigo), Eladio Jr. (Marisol), Rosie (Marcelo) Connie (Armando) and Sylvia (Barry). Her children; Belinda Soto (Son-in law- Danny), Jesse Vargas, Jr. (daughter in-law-Christina) Christina Cedano (Son-in law-Rudy). Grandchildren; Daniel, Bella, Rudy, Jr., Diego, Rebecca, Julian, Angel, Jasmine, Ricky and Eddie. Also survived by 25 nieces and nephews, 19 great nieces and nephews and two great grand children.
A Rosary and viewing will held on Thurs 1/23/14 from 4-8 p.m. at St. Johns Church in Healdsburg, CA. Celebration of life will be on Friday 1/24/14 at 11 a.m. St. Johns Church immediately following we will continue her celebration at Windsor Shiloh Cemetery.
She says to many,
"Do not stand at my grave and cry, for I am not there, I did not die."
She will be missed but not forgotten.
[Published Online in the Press Democrat from Jan. 22 to Jan. 24, 2014]
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The memories you left us with will forever remain in our hearts! You are the light of our lives you are a candle that will never die but shine forever! See you soon mama...[Daughters, Belinda & Christina, Windsor, California]
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Hi Mom, It's me your first born daughter Belinda. I thought I'd write a little something about the beautiful person you were before this is removed from the PD website and I'm not able to get it printed in the Memory Book I'm going to make in your memory. It's been thirty days since you passed and oh how I miss you. Wish I could hear your voice and hear your good morning messages. The memories and wisdom you left me will be with me forever and I hope to one day leave the same to my children. There are days when all I do is sit and think about you, hoping and praying you being gone from my life is just a dream. Since you've been gone, I've gone through my baby photos and sister even found a video with my first birthday and Christmas, thank you mom for the way you loved us, for giving us the world! You had three beautiful children and loved us no matter what. What will I do without you, how will the days and holidays be without you? It's going to be hard, but I promise to carry on your traditions. Thank you for teaching me as a child how to pray and love God with all my heart, for you know one day I'd need Him. At times when I feel I cant face another day without you, I hear your voice, saying "be strong, you can do it". I hope I can be half the mom you were. I'll miss our lunches together, I'll miss brushing and blow drying your hair and all the little gifts and cards you would bless me with. Although I feel like you've left me, I know you're in a better place, a place where there is no sorrow or pain. Every day for the rest of my life I will think of you, when I rise and when I lay my head down. I know you see me when I smile and when I cry, and it's in those times I feel your spirit lives and is around me. I know I'll see you again one day and I cant wait. Thank you for your sacrifice and love as a mother, you were our mother, father and friend and no on can top that! Till we meet again mom, have fun dancing in heaven,save me room on the dance floor and be sure my mansion is next door to yours! I am who I am today because of you and for that I'm forever grateful. I'll miss with all of my heart you but I know you hear me when talk to you and sing your favorite songs! My world will never be the same without you. "You light up my life". Love you momma - your daughter Belinda, [Belinda Soto]
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Hello Sister Bella, Its a little over 30 days that you left us and a couple of days away from the day we laid you to rest! I still find it unbelievable that you are no longer here. I know the Lord decided it was time for to go to a better life and that you had earned your way to Heaven!! But everyday I find it more difficult for me to understand why! I miss you more and more everyday! I wait for your phone call every other day telling me I'm running late, I miss brushing your hair and making your braids and pony tails, helping you change your clothes and arguing about matching your clothes, you telling me no, "I don't want you to wear your nice clothes around the house" and I would put it on you anyway! I miss taking you to the doctor, then going to eat! Either Jack in Box or going down Sebastopol Road looking for the taco stands! Going to Starbucks, or KC for breakfast or walking down Town Green! Wow the last six months that we spent together were unbelievable, we learned so much about each other. You were an amazing women, friend, sister, mother, aunt, grama, daughter and you were even a father to your children that you loved dearly!! The Love that you had for everyone can never be replaced by anyone!!! You cherished your children, grandchildren, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, friends and Our Parents were always your first priority!! You loved life, you never let nothing hold you back—you always took your chances no matter what! You always gave everyone of one us support no matter what the situation was, you never let us give up! I still remember the day before you went to ICU and you had your By Pap Mask on and you seen me and Baby Tina eating candy!! we were trying to sneak it from you and you caught us! You said, give me some I said no your sick and your mask is on and you said, give me some I don't care, you made us take the mask off and the alarm went off and you said, throw the candy in my mouth and I did, you were unbelievable!! so many things that we have lived with you!! You have left us with memories that are unforgettable! But sister I miss you soooooo much the pain is unbearable!! I know with time it will ease, but never go away because a part of me has been taken away!! But I also know that you have graduated to a better place and that you are no longer suffering and that you are dancing and enjoying your new LIFE!! Please know sister that our parents will be taken care of, I want you to RIP and not worry about anything!! I love you forever sister and please save a place for me next to you!! Always in my HEART!! [Rosie Chavez]
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Hi mama, It's your baby daughter! I just want to start by saying I love you and miss you so much! Words can never express the way I feel. It's only been one month since you've been gone & I wait by the phone still hoping you'll call and I find it hard to believe you are really gone. I go to sleep early just hoping to wake up and it would all be a dream and I'm realizing it's reality and you're really gone.:( We had our 'ups and downs', our 'tears & frowns', our 'laughs & smiles' with so many trials. And no matter what you'd always be there to lift me when I'd fall. I realize now the Lord called you home, I knew the time would come when you'd have to go and the Lord took your hand and called you home. I can't be selfish and ask God "why did you take my mama home?" I knew you were tired mama and couldn't hold on. I'll miss your voice and all your calls. Many moments I cried, you heard them all, the words you'd speak when I was weak, your words of encouragement I always sought. Your words I'll cherish so close to me and in my heart I'll always keep. You would say to me, "It's okay, don't worry, I'm here, don't fear, you can do it, be happy and smile, be thankful," and remember mija "no mater what I love you and you will always be my "baby girl!" I miss you so much mama that only God knows. Me and my sister spent your last days with you, feeding you and laughing with you so happy together like never before! You said your goodbyes, you hugged us and cried, you told us how much you loved us and to please not cry, you said to take care of your children, "I'm too tired now, I love you children, my job here is done, I did my best for you all, I love you guys and please stand strong!" And we will mama! we love you. Until we meet again please save us a place right next to yours, for we will all one day be together again, love you mama! From your baby girl Christina ~ [Christina Cedano, Windsor, California]
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Hello Aunt Bell, Since you left us there is not a day that passes that I don't think of you. I miss you terribly. I went to the beach last week for the first time since we last went together. It just wasn't the same. As I watched the waves crashing my heart was filled with bliss as I reminisced about new and old memories of you and how you brought so much joy to everyone's life and how you saw the best in people when we couldn't see it in ourselves. Thank you for giving me a place to call home when I felt like I had nowhere to turn to and being my best friend. You were a truly remarkable woman and I will forever carry with me the advice and memories that you blessed me with. I love you with all my heart and I cannot wait to see you! Love,
Tati~ [Tatiana Melgoza, Windsor, California]
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Hi grandma, It's me your grandson Ricky. It has already been a month now since you've left, but I know that you are with the lord now, and Champy, and I know that we will all be going to the same place. Grandma, save us a mansion right next to yours, and give the Lord a big kiss for us.... Love You so much! [Ricky Cedano, Windsor, California]
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I Miss and love you more than words could ever express grandma. But I know that you are with me because I have already seen you in my dreams. Whenever I go to work I still picture you sitting at the same table ordering all your favorites. Although I wish you were still here to run to for a good laugh, a shoulder to cry on, advice, or to tell all my secrets to, I will never forget the times you were there for all of that and more. I know you already have a spot saved for all of us in heaven and I can't wait to be there right with you holding your hand. I love you grandma. Your one and only granddaughter. Xoxo. [Bella Soto,
Windsor]
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So many things I could say to my grandmother. Words will never express. We could sit & talk all day about anything. The past couple of years we got closer, we shared so many memories. Thinking back on all the times, still puts a smile on my face. I love you grandma. Forever you will live in my heart. You were like a second mother I could always run to if needed. Every time I play an oldie, it will always be in memory of you. I pray for the day I see you again, see you again walking the streets of heaven.. Watch over me grandma. You are our guardian angel. [Daniel Soto,
Windsor, California]
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Hi suegra it's me you're son-in-law Rudy! I don't know where to start by saying how much we love you and how much you're missed here! This world is so much lonelier without you! I miss you're encouraging words of strong advice. You always treated me like a son. You were like a mother to me. You taught me, you gave me, you were always there in every time of need, my children miss you so much. You were a big part of their lives. You blessed them in many ways. You taught them so much they will never forget you. But the best thing you ever gave me was "my beautiful wife"! Thank you suegra. You called me almost everyday to encourage me to go to the doctor and to have the surgery and that it will all go well. You told me "do it mijo and I'll be there! "Rosie will take me!" Don't worry, I promise I will be there!" and I did suegra, and when I came out of recovery I looked around, waiting to see you come through the doors but I was waiting and looking and you couldn't be found. It was hard for me to except that you weren't around. But in my heart I felt you there. I was still looking around and when I turned my head I saw a nurse pushing a lady in a wheel chair when they turned the corner I swore she looked just like you. I smiled and said yup that was "my suegra" showing me "I'm hear mijo" "now you must pull through!" Thank you "ophelia" You left me your strength and now I need to get it together and really pull through. I got much more going on now if you only knew? You will be truly missed but we will meet again! Until that day suegra make room for us for we'll all be there too! [Rudy Cedano, Windsor, California]
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My dear Grandmother Bella, Oh the times we had since day 1. From when I was born, you have always been there to love me and show me the way when I didn't know better. So many memories that I have with you can fill up this entire book but even better, they fill me up in the spirit to know you gave it all you had for my family and I and even those around you. Whether through hardship or moments of happiness, there has always been a moment of love and life! That is always how I saw you. A very strong, lively, loving woman! Never will you be forgotten. For a big part of me is because of you and who you were! I'm sure you are resting with him now Our Lord! And Nothing but contentment lays in my heart for you now Grandma Bella. Thank you for everything! Sincerely, yours truly, Lil Rudy. A.k.a Gordo ~ [Rudy Cedano, Windsor town, California]
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Ophelia, this is me Johnny. I'm going to miss you with all my heart. My life feels so lonely since you've been gone. You lived your life to the fullest & enjoyed every day as if it was your last. I hope one day I will have the strength you had. You were an amazing woman who touched a lot of lives. You taught them, you loved them, you gave to them & always thought of others first before yourself. You out lived your life just for your children & grandchildren & especially your parents! I know they will all miss your beautiful loving ways. You left us all such beautiful memories! Your body may be gone from this world but your spirit lives forever in our hearts! You are in a better place. You no longer have to suffer, no more pain, hospitals, & no longer in a wheelchair! I'm happy for you that you can finally rest in peace. I'll missing you so much. Please save me a place up in heaven. I hope my mansion will be next to yours. Send a kiss & hug to champy. Love you & see you soon one day again. Your friend, [Johnny Gaitan, Windosr, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. May God keep on giving you the strength you need on this great loss. Bella touched my mom's life (Reyna Martinez)in so many ways. My mother and us are so heartbroken. My mother could never stopped talking about Bella and how her kindness and love for ever changed her life. My mother loved spending time with Bella, she would always come home and talk to me about Bella's love for life and her family. She keeps me going and makes me love life and see everything in a positive way, she would tell me. Bella's health issues did not stop her from fully living her life with happiness and showing love to everyone around her. Bella, my mom greatly misses you but she knows that you are in a better place and that gives us all comfort. Dear Bella, your beautiful and sincere smile will never be forgotten, your kindness touched my family in ways you never imagined. you will be greatly missed. [Claudia Menjivar, Santa Rosa, CA]
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My goodness Tia Bella words cannot explain how much I miss you dearly. Your laughter and sense of humor happen to make everyone's day wonderful. My memories with you will always be so dear to me. Almost every morning I am still waiting for your morning call with Tia Rosie. I know you are in a better place now & I hope you are enjoying heaven with the Lord. I love you Tia Bella. [Christina Fiel, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Well my good friend for a long time. Sad to hear you passed, but you always said "you would be on your road to the lord, for he will be awaiting for you to help him there. May God Bless you in every way." REST IN PEACE BELLA" My condolences to Belinda, Gumby, and Tina. [Irma Moreno-Tapia, Redwood Valley, CA]
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My loving sister… Who possessed a super natural strength. Who was known for her bravery and courage. My sister Bella, the conqueror of many Goliaths. Blessed with determination, a divine will to live and a love to communicate with God. Life brought you physical ailments and I never heard you complain. You faced difficulties and you always claimed victory and won. God touched many lives and healed many hearts through you. You were an angel before you even arrived in heaven, the place you called home. Sister I know God answered all your prayers and you answered His call. You surrendered your will completely to God. Missing you forever, knowing one day we will be together. I love you sister, with all my heart. [Connie Guzman-Rojas]
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Ophelia, Miguel and I Will miss you so very much. Tina Gumby, I'm so sadden to hear of your beautiful Mom's passing may she rest in peace Prays and blessing are with all of you. Love [Joey and Miguel Ramirez]
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Linda foto! Asi la recuerdo, sonriente y alegre. No puedo estar alli, pero estare pensando en la familia Guzman. Que descanse en paz..Con respeto y amor, [Maria Juarez, Woodland, CA]
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Belinda Tina Gumby, and the family Guzman my deepest condolence. Ophelia was a beautiful women a dear neighbor and friend. may she rest in peace prays are with you all God bless you. [Hopie Ramirez Olvera, Windsor, CA]
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Tia Bella, I miss you more than words can ever express, but I know I need to not be selfish and let you go. You are in a better place where you can live without having anymore pain. I know you are not gone, even though many are saying goodbye. You are in all of our hearts, in our dreams and thoughts. You will forever be with us. I know that one day we will reunite. Until that day comes I will take on all my future travels and adventures. I also remember the promise I made you before you left us, and don't you worry I will keep it. Thank you for being an amazing auntie I love you. [Mariana Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest condolences to the Guzman family of Ophelia. She was a very kind and caring lady. May she rest in Jesus and as we know she is just sleeping till Jesus comes to take us to our heavenly kingdom. [Martha Ramirez, Santa Rosa, CA]
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Oh my Beautiful Angel in Heaven, our sister Bella, how I miss you everyday. I wake up every morning waiting for your call telling me I'm running late, or like our sister Blanca said, those famous messages telling us to pick up the phone and never forgetting to tell us that you loved us!! I never thought it would hurt so much, I feel like a piece of my heart has been taken. Why did you leave us? It's hard to understand, but I also know that you are in a better place celebrating a new life! These last 6 months that we spent so much time together I realize, you were preparing me for this special day! I refuse to say goodbye, because to me it is your Birthday celebrating a new life enjoying your new Mansion that you have graduated to!! I feel the your presence and strength that you are giving me and the family! I thank you for all the things you taught me and for being by my side at difficult times. You left us with great memories that can never be forgotten! We will laugh and cry but it's only because we miss you! So sister please enjoy your new life and we will see you soon in Paradise. [Author unknown]
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My deepest sympathy to Belinda, Jesse (Gumby), Tina & the entire Guzman family. I will never ever forget Ophelia, she was a part of most of my childhood & teenage memories I had living next door in Windsor. She always treated us good & always including my brother & sister & I to the outings she would take her kids on. I remember she would pack us all up in the station wagon and we were off. I had some of the best childhood memories with Ophelia & her kids and she will never be forgotten. May you RIP Ophelia "Bella." Sending lots of love & prayers to you all Belinda, Jesse, Tina & the Guzman Family. [Author unknown]
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Dear Belinda, Jesse, Tina, Tia Concha, Tio Eladio, and Family. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. My Tia Bella was an amazing MUJER, always so thoughtful and loving. My family and I have so much to thank her. We will cherish all those wonderful memories we have of her, especially when we lived with her. Tia Concha y Tio Eladio de todo corazon lo siento mucho por la partida de mi Tia Bella, pero ella ya esta en un maravilloso lugar donde ay paz y tranquilidad, junto a nuestro dios todo poderoso. Mis padres desafortunadamente no estaran aqui para acompañar los, pero su corazon y su alma estara con toda la familia. [Familia Cordova Villanueva, Chuche, Carmela, Soyla, Laura, Chuy, Cloverdale, CA]
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My most sincere condolences to this beautiful young woman's family and friends. God needed another angel. May He bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. [Glenda Moreno, Salinas, CA]
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We are with the family in this time of sorrow. We had the honor of knowing Bella for many years. We have great memories of her. We know she is at peace in heaven. We pray for her children and Don Eladio and Dona Concha. Nuestro mas sentido pesame Don Eladio y Dona Concha por la perdida de Bella. Que Dios les de el consuelo y la resignacion. Los estimamos mucho. [Familia Ceja Magana Lidubina, Godofredo, Jr, Araceli & Marisol, CA]
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My Tia Bella, The words I spoke were true and between me & you..I will cherish the memories we created...I will always be grateful. [Angie Guzman, Windsor, CA]
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Christina, Belinda, and family, I am honored to have met your mom for the short time I did. She was a great friend always in good spirits and making me laugh. I will never forget her. God bless. [Lisa Marin, Windsor, CA]
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Dear Sister, I find it so hard to believe that you have gone. The pain is unbearable. I find myself calling your phone but you don't answer. Sister I miss your voice, your infectious laughter, your famous voice mails that you would leave me "Sister, this is your Sister Bella, if you are there pick up if not call me back" You would always end your calls with "I Love You sister." Oh how I long to hear those I LOVE YOU SISTER, I miss your forgiving and understand heart, all the little ways you show how much you cared and Loved every single one of our family members. How blessed we are that gave blessed with amazing parents. Oh and your love for fashion! Sister God has given you the most valuable and precious accessories a pair of Angel Wings! Everyone tells me" She is no longer suffering, free of pain and in much better place with her Savior that she loved & long to be with our Heavenly Father.. I ask myself then why am I so heartbroken and selfishly cry?? I am a woman of faith and I know that you are in God's loving and warm embrace, but sister it hurts so bad. I feel your presence around us, engulfing us with your love, giving us strength and keeping the entire family close& we all know that we have an angel watching us from above. I promise sister not to forget all the loving memories you gave me, your caring words, determination, strength to overcome anything, to protect the precious gifts God gave me my three beautiful daughters & your tremendous faith, trust and love for God. My only solace dear Bella is that one day we will all be together again in God's Heavenly Mansion! I miss you so very much my dear sister. RIP Love you forever your sister [Blanca Barba, Davis, CA]
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My deepest sympathy to the family. Bella was always so happy, smiling and greeting all she met. I will always remember her that way. [Silvia Llamas Hogan, Windsor, CA]
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Sweet Ophelia sweet angel. Praying for all of the Guzman family. Your beautiful smile shines on. [Author unknown]
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We love you Bella you will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Thanks you for being part of our life. You will greatly be missed. [Mendoza Family, Healdsburg, CA]
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In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. [Martha Mendoza, Healdsburg, CA]
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Although memories are few, I will always remember you as a very loving person. Now it is time for you to be with our Holy Father. Love [Delia Riojas, Windsor, CA]
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I love you sister forever and ever. I will pray for you everyday until I see you in heaven. Thank you for all the great memories and the most beautiful thing you have given us is to have faith. I love you sister. [Sylvia Evans, San Gabriel, CA]
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