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Cheryl (#48327444)
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Bio Photo Hello, my name is Cheryl Loafer and I am the Mother of Yvonne Loafer, whose memorial that you have up. I am 31 years old, I am married to Richard Loafer, we are the proud parents of 2 boys and 6 girls, we recently lost our oldest daughter to suicide and miss her greatly. I am a stay at home mom, my husband is self-employed. All our children are Clay Lucas Yvonne Alexis Marie Mariah Makenzie Makaila, we are all very greatful for the find a grave site, and we check it everyday to see our sweet daughters memorial and see who left her flowers or messages.
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Mom of Timothy L. Turner
@};- My Prayers to U & your precious family during this very difficult time, in the loss of your beautiful daughter Yvonne. I know you're feeling numb & so terribly hurt with an aching heart.
Grieving seems endless but at the same time, is a process of healing. These are times where the family mends even closer together. The worse pain takes time to pass. Leaving U with words of comfort from the King James Version: PSALM 30:5..."Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning."

You'll experience joy again Cheryl. In the meantime, take good care of yourself. There's a lot of people that love U. GOD Bless U & your family. @};- ~ #8/1 Thursday, 11:05 PM EST.
Added by Mom of Timothy L. Turner on Feb 13, 2014 9:05 PM
Angel of Flowers
You have a beautiful daughter and I'm sorry about her loss. I too had a son who committed suicide so I know the grief and wondering WHY! Here you will find very kind and caring people. I'll put you on my friends list so I can visit Yvonne on a daily bases.

Have a great day!

Added by Angel of Flowers on Feb 10, 2014 12:27 PM
Jennifer and Jimmy Fry
Thank you ♥
Dear Cheryl,

Thank you for the lovely message with token You placed on William's page. We Love and miss him so very much.

Beth Bailey contacted us about Yvonne and asked that we contact other members as well. Beth rallied everyone together - she is such a warm and loving person.

What you will discover is that the Find A Grave members are very sensitive to what people are going through. We know the pain You feel and while there is little any of us can do to ease your pain - we can help you carry it through each day and night. When You think you're alone - You are not. You're not alone, Cheryl. We all care about Yvonne, You and your Family.


Added by Jennifer and Jimmy Fry on Feb 09, 2014 12:11 AM
Debra Blevins
So sorry...
Dear Cheryl, I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost a daughter in March of last year. Jennifer is right. This site is a wonderful way to connect during this time and these people are awesomingly comforting! May you find comfort and peace. You are in my prayers! Debbie, Kristols Momma!
Added by Debra Blevins on Feb 07, 2014 9:30 PM
Hi Cheryl:
My name is Beth & I'm the one who got the word out about you losing your beautiful &
precious daughter Yvonne.I sincerely hope that your not upset w/me for contacting my friends here on this site & asking them to go visit Yvonne.You will find there are so many kind & wonderful people on this site who like yourself,have lost a child.I lost my precious Dad & my brother & numerous other loved one's but because of the special people I have "met" makes it a little easier to deal with the loss.
BTW : I live in South Dakota to :-)

~ Beth ~
Added by Beth.Bailey on Feb 07, 2014 1:30 PM
Jennifer and Jimmy Fry
Yvonne's Memorial Page
Dear Cheryl,

You can ask Ellen Bishop if she would please transfer Yvonne's Memorial Page to you, if you would like to maintain it.

Added by Jennifer and Jimmy Fry on Feb 06, 2014 11:11 PM
Jennifer and Jimmy Fry
Yvonne ♥
Dear Cheryl and Family,

Please accept our condolences on the tragic loss of your beautiful Daughter, Yvonne. We will keep You and your family in our prayers and good thoughts. We are so very sorry.

We are bereaved parents, as well. We lost our Son, William, on August 23, 2012.

Please know that the Find A Grave Community is a wonderful support group of friends that You can count on to help you. These lovely people have been there for us and we are forever grateful to them all.

We're thinking of You and your Family, Cheryl ♥

Jennifer and Jimmy
Added by Jennifer and Jimmy Fry on Feb 06, 2014 10:35 AM
Ellen Bishop
RE: My daughters memorial
I will transfer to you if you put your findagrave number on edit of her memorial, I think they will stay up as long as Find A Grave exists, there is no time limit on that, that I know of.
Added by Ellen Bishop on Feb 03, 2014 12:43 PM

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