Memorializing a family member can be a rather complex experience & personal issue. My goal is to use Find a Grave as a genealogic record linking my family members to each other. To link and not to divide. Some family issues have done that already. If relations are related, why not link- I don't believe any 100+ year old issue to be worth the cost of exclusion from (a family, or) adding a link. Putting painful memories to rest as it were.
✔️ Note- that I use Mouseover or Hovertext- don't click, just hover mouse beginning to midline. This link has mouseover or 'Hover Text', and I don't burn up text in 'this' limited column profile space. The Internet is the most stupendous achievement in education that we have come up with, but one still has to use their mind to interpret what they find. HTML is the same- text that is changing as we type it.
Please Note that with the recent merger with Ancestry (dot com) researchers are flooding my as well as many others pages. Everyone, whether they are experts or not, is just asking for changes to to a memorial. If that is what You want, be very polite while asking, otherwise, a website is available to create your own memorial. _______________________________________________________