RE: Frank Arthur Oates Hi Christine, it's very nice to meet you and thank you for your message. I try to go to all the Oates memorials on Find A Grave and leave a flower or some kind of token for them. I have a soft spot for babies and veterans. I don't believe there is any connection between this gentleman and myself other than we share the same surname. Thank you for your willingness to share information. Have a good day.