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Dave (#47976571)
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So many are asking about the bio picture I'm using, it's from a poem written by Monte Leon Manka titled The Shadow on the Wall.

I enjoy working with Find A Grave and I especially enjoy adding photos to memorials so that family members can visit their family member's grave at anytime.

Please REMEMBER I do this in my FREE time out of respect for the families. If mistakes are made, BE KIND and remember this isn't a paying JOB.

We are here to help each other, and it would give me honor to know I have helped one. Thank you for caring about the family I also care about so deeply.


FYI: For our Veterans Graves

While visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave.

These coins have distinct meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military, and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.

A coin left on a tombstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect.

Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited.

A nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together.

A dime means you served with him in some capacity.

By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the solider when he was killed.

According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans.

In the United States, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war.

Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a down payment to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited.

The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.

Symbols for the Folds of the Flag

The first fold of our flag is a symbol of life.

The second fold is a symbol of our belief in eternal life.

The third fold is made in honor and remembrance of the veteran departing our ranks, and who gave a portion of his or her life for the defense of our country to attain peace throughout the world.

The fourth fold represents our weaker nature; as American citizens trusting in God, it is to Him we turn in times of peace, as well as in times of war, for His divine guidance.

The fifth fold is a tribute to our country, for in the words of Stephen Decatur, Our country, in dealing with other countries, may she always be right, but it is still our country, right or wrong.

The sixth fold is for where our hearts lie. It is with our heart that we pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

The seventh fold is a tribute to our armed forces, for it is through the armed forces that we protect our country and our flag against all enemies, whether they be found within or without the boundaries of our republic.

The eighth fold is a tribute to the one who entered into the valley of the shadow of death, that we might see the light of day, and to honor our mother, for whom it flies on Mother's Day.

The ninth fold is a tribute to womanhood, for it has been through their faith, love, loyalty and devotion that the character of the men and women who have made this country great have been molded.

The 10th fold is a tribute to father, for he, too, has given his sons and daughters for the defense of our country since he or she was first born.

The 11th fold in the eyes of Hebrew citizens, represents the lower portion of the seal of King David and King Solomon and glorifies, in their eyes, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

The 12th fold in the eyes of a Christian citizen, represents an emblem of eternity and glorifies, in their eyes, God the Father, the Son and Holy Ghost.

When the flag is completely folded, the stars are uppermost, reminding us of our national motto, In God We Trust.
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Jingles McCormack
RE: Cecelia Thaman
awesome and thanks no hurry,,
hugs for now
Added by Jingles McCormack on Jul 11, 2014 3:17 PM
Jingles McCormack
RE: Cecelia Thaman
Thanks.. I request the rest of the family. Yes Robert was her husband.. thanks again for all your help Have a great day
Added by Jingles McCormack on Jul 11, 2014 3:14 PM
Jingles McCormack
Cecelia Thaman
I want to thank you for your time and your help on getting the pic I needed. Thanks for your kindness
Added by Jingles McCormack on Jul 11, 2014 2:54 PM
Willard T. Smith
Thank you so much for the photo of the headstone of Willard. Great job and in such a timely manor.

Thanks again,
Added by Linda on Jul 11, 2014 1:05 PM
Laura Merlini
Thank you!
Thanks so much for getting the photo of my grandparents' headstone, the Butlers. I didn't realize they shared one. I'm so happy to have it for my family tree.
All my best,
Laura M.
Decatur, GA
Added by Laura Merlini on Jul 10, 2014 12:40 PM
Kim Haukoos
Leonard Purkapile
Dave, thank you so much for honoring our brave veterans, and also for connecting Leonard to his family. I am a distant relative, and had first discovered his father Leroy, and when reading his obituary, attempted to find out what happened to Corporal Leonard Virgil Purkapile.
Again, thank you.
My best, Kim Lowrey Murphy Haukoos
Added by Kim Haukoos on Jul 10, 2014 12:13 PM
Kelly Drake
Nicholas Conti
Thank you SO much! :)
Added by Kelly Drake on Jul 10, 2014 11:56 AM
Lebert Johnston
Thank you for posting the stone. It is appreciated.

Added by DHistorian on Jul 09, 2014 10:01 AM
Genealogy Bug Kate
Calvary Cemetery
Thanks for attempting to locate Joseph Aman's marker and posting that it is unmarked. Appreciate it.
Added by Genealogy Bug Kate on Jul 08, 2014 6:22 PM
Larry Cornett
Crowden Cornett
I am Crowden Cornett's son and while researching I ran across his name on the Korean Memorial in Ohio. Just out of curiosity, how did my dad's name come to being placed on the memorial when he is from Kentucky? Additionally, I would appreciate any information you may have on Crowden. Your information would be greatly appreciated, as I am attending the Defense Prisoner of War / Missing Personnel in Washington this next month. Thank you in advance for your immediate response to my questions.

Larry Cornett
Added by Larry Cornett on Jul 07, 2014 7:36 PM
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