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Stacey (#47914361)
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Please don't hesitate to send corrections, info or to even ask for a transfer. My goal on this site is to help other people with their ancestry and unite the memorials I've created with their families regardless of relation link. My transfer policy is very liberal and I transfer outside of the 4 generation guideline.


The Surnames I'm connected to so far are Shaw, Spafford, Briggs, Pennington, Maser or Masear, Pritchard, Hardy, Shoemaker, Kerwin, Boice or Boyce, Simmons, Dishman and Baird.
Please don't hesitate to contact me if you may have info about my family tree. Even the smallest bit could help solve a mystery and close a door....which then, as we all know, usually opens up 3 more LOL.

My third great grandparents, James Shaw and Eleanor Hardy, were early settlers in Joliet, Illinois. They came from New York or Canada and resided in the Bremen, Cook County area (1850 census) before moving to Joliet. In March 1852, my Grandmother died. I found her death notice in the Joliet Signal and it indicates they had only been in town a few months. My Grandpa James had 14 children; 11 with my Grandmother. They were married about 18 years at the time of her death. Her final resting place and the names of her parents are unknown. Their Canadian marriage record says that there was a Nicolas Hardy who witnessed but I haven't yet been able to determine the specific relationship.

After my grandmother's death, my grandfather married Alice Williams (last name provided by someone else's tree on whose background is a complete mystery. Per the 1860 census, they had two children - Firman and Alice. In 1870, the two children still appear in the household with James but wife Alice does not. What happened to her and her final resting place are unknown. I lose track of daughter Alice after 1870 and Firman died in early December, 1872, about 6 weeks before James.

I'm also pretty sure that my grandfather was married once before he married my grandmother. From census records, James had a son, James Jr. born abt 1829, whose birth pre-dates his marriage by banns to my grandmother in 1834. Again, my assumption is that he was married to James mother, whose name is unknown, and that she probably died either in child birth or of sickness. By 1860, he no longer resides with his father and I lose track of him.

My 4th Great Grandfather's name was Joseph who was a Wagonmaster per the 1860 census, the lone document where I found his name. In addition, per the same census, he was residing alone in the household with James which means he was probably widowed by that time. My 4th Great Grandmother Shaw's name and their final resting places are unknown.

My grandfather was an intelligent man and expert Brickmaker who furnished the bricks that were used in the construction of the Forts of Quebec. Sometime in the mid 1850's, James started a successful brick company on the Eastside of Joliet. All of his sons had learned the trade, but only Silas and Josiah (or J.E. as he seemed to go by) continued the business and operated it long after his death in January, 1873. James rests at Oakwood Cemetery in Joliet, with two of his sons, Nicholas (Mother Eleanor) and Firman (Mother Alice). His son Silas and his family also rest nearby.

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RE: joseph woods, irene woods
sure my number is 47343039
Added by tarayoung98 on Mar 23, 2015 7:32 AM
joseph woods, irene woods
and jo ann woods young in elmhurst cemetery, joliet. these are my cousins. you are so precious! thank you for posting these.

Added by tarayoung98 on Mar 22, 2015 12:45 PM
RE: Kreith Family Members - Oakridge Cemetery, Hillside, IL
Thank you very much for sending me these. I have been looking for any other family members for a long time, and this is just amazing.
Added by Timmy on Mar 22, 2015 10:56 AM
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RE: Charles Heist - Oakridge Glen Oak Cemetery
Wow, you are incredibly refreshing!

Thank you again!!!!!! =D

Added by Ouida Stark Brumley Marti... on Mar 16, 2015 12:15 PM
Ouida Stark Brumley Martin
RE: Charles Heist - Oakridge Glen Oak Cemetery
Hi Stacey,

Thank you SO much for the photos. It gave me so much information. I just finished creating the pages and added the photo of the grave stone.

If you like I can delete them so you can add them.

I truly appreciate everything you do!

Warm regards,

Added by Ouida Stark Brumley Marti... on Mar 16, 2015 12:52 AM
Thank you for the contact number at Oakwood. I just received a phone call from them and the Hayward's are there! Love linking families together.

You're wonderful!
Best Wishes, Susan
Added by Susan on Mar 04, 2015 1:46 PM
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Stacey, Thank you so much for the great job you have done so far at Oakridge-Glen Oak. Really appreciate the memorials, the photos and that you listed the plot sec.number. Hope you will be able to continue doing and adding more. Thanks again. Judy
Added by Judy on Mar 01, 2015 2:58 PM
Your map is wonderful!

Do you have a contact number for the Oakwood Cemetery, Joliet, Illinois? I'm looking for Charles B. Hayward, his wife Mary Elizabeth, daughter Rachel Hayward, and another daughter Ruth M. Hayward, Wade and her husband Fred Sidney Wade.

Charles and Mary were the parents of six children.

Any information would be wonderful.
Thank you, Susan
Added by Susan on Feb 27, 2015 12:03 AM
Ellen Curtis
No, I am not related.

Added by Dıehard on Feb 01, 2015 11:04 AM
Find A Grave Memorial# 39908149 - Nicholas Shaw
Find A Grave Memorial# 23159203 - Henrietta Shaw Skinner

Your edit to link the mother for both these memorials has been declined due to the fact that it is a Burial Unknown which means that the final disposition of her remains are unknown. FindAGrave is not a site to build family trees - there are other websites that fulfill that purpose.

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Added by SLGMSD on Jan 29, 2015 4:03 PM
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