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Delita (#47315206)
 member for 5 years, 10 months, 24 days
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Bio Photo Amelia, Debbie's granddaughter

Debra Lynn Barwick Birthday June 22

Our 31 yr old grandson TJ (Debbie's son) was found dead April 17 from suicide by hanging. Have no idea why he chose this. I was in shock when I posted this and still can't think or function properly. Our daughter Brenda had disc surgery on May 5 and we are caring for her. She has neck brace for two months. I appreciate all your thoughts, visits and prayers.

Grandson TJ Parham

Niece Allison Wisenbaker Angel Day May 15

Daddy Louis Wisenbaker Birthday June 18

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Richard Harold Wisenbaker
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Alton John Jerrold Parker
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Thank you
Thank you so much for remembering my Father, Cosimo Riccio's birthday. You thoughtfulness touched my heart. I am so sorry to hear about your
Grandson. I am sending extra prayers to you at this difficult time. Blessings to you & your family...Hugs...Your friend..Anna

Added by ANNA on May 23, 2016 12:39 PM
I am so sorry about your grandson. Please know I have been thinking about you.I pray God will be with you and your family during this difficult time.we dont understand why things like this happen's. Please take care knowing our God will be with you all the way.....Love Allie
Added by Broken~♥~Heart on May 21, 2016 7:27 PM
Loretta Sampson
RE: Dear Loretta
So so sorry to hear about your grandson. My heart goes out to you . We never know what life has in store for us all, but I can't think of why such a young man would think life is not worth living.
I just hope by now your daughter is on the road to recovery. I will say a prayer for her.
For me, I am not doing that good,I just take one day at a time. I still think so much about your daughter Debbie, she is always in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of yourself, my friend. Love,
Added by Loretta Sampson on May 18, 2016 6:57 PM
kathy barnett
In Our Prayers
Delita~We are sorry for your loss.
Added by kathy barnett on May 16, 2016 1:05 AM
Rhonda C. Poynter/Gannon/Friends
Dear Delita,
I realize that I am always ages behind in messages and news on here, but that doesn't mean my friends are any less out of my heart and thoughts, and I am just so sorry to hear of T.J.'s loss. One of my friends helping to monitor my pages while Gannon and I have medical issues yet again sent me an e/m asking me whether I was aware of the news, and I literally had to sit down and put my hand on my chest, so great was the pain for you and yours. Delita, you ask in your posts what you might have done...I have had many suicides in my own family and circle of friends, unfortunately, and I began asking that question with the very first suicide to affect my life, that of my brother, Ron...thirty five years later, I still ask the question, and still have no answers. My father's suicidal tendencies - many who do not follow my writing do not know that his eventual end in a nursing home, brain dead for many years, was due to a failed suicide attempt - continue to tangle through my "What could I have seen sooner, and done differently for this family?" arguments, year after year after year. I have written many pieces on the subject, and when I was a bit better physically and could do so, I spoke at many events for families of suicide victims, etc. I will tell you what I am sure you have been told many times in the last few weeks: You are not responsible for somebody's choice...but you will never believe this. =( It is a very sad and strange catch-22; those of us in this sad club will forever go round and round and round, day to day, knowing that you cannot change somebody else's mind, but two minutes later, we will be certain that had we said something else, made another call, whatever, the end result could have been different. ...I am sure that you have already been told all of this by others and so I will hush up, but again, Gannon and I are just so sorry to hear of this latest test to you and yours, Delita...please know that, even though it seems as though I am on here literally once a month, I keep all of my site friends close to my heart and in my prayers, and am a better person for meeting many of the people on here and learning about their loved ones. And that includes T.J. - we send you love and hugs, as we do T.J., now safe at Home and at rest in Light.
RCP and Gannon Blue
Added by Rhonda C. Poynter/Gannon/... on May 15, 2016 10:41 AM
Praying for you.....
Dear sweet Delita,
You and your family are in my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers. I pray that you all feel our Dear Lord very near, and that you feel His strong and loving arms surrounding you.
I send you all much love,
Psalm 34:18 "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted..."
Added by Evangelineღ on May 11, 2016 11:19 AM
RE: Dear Rosie
Dear Delita,

Thank you for your sweet message.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please don't worry about visiting my memorials. Take good care of yourself! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

-Love, Rosie-
Added by Rosie on May 11, 2016 1:46 AM
RE: dear Sweet Lady
So many prayers and healing thoughts going out to you and your family, Delita. I just don't know how much more can possibly be dealt to y'all. Please don't worry about visiting my memorials. I certainly understand. Take care of you and your loved ones. With much love and many huggles, Suse
Added by sniksnak on May 10, 2016 8:38 PM
Golden Girl
RE: Dear sweet Lady
Dearest Delita, my heart aches for you. Please know that we all love you, and are praying for you and your Family. BIG hugs; with tears- Donna
Added by Golden Girl on May 10, 2016 7:45 PM
Kay Love
Dear Delita,
Please worry about yourself and your family at this difficult time, not about F-A-G family possibly feeling neglected. I'm pretty sure that we all understand. I'm glad that your daughter & T.J.'s stepmom are getting better. Please take care of Delita for me. Thanks. Your friend, Kay
Added by Kay Love on May 10, 2016 10:49 AM
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