I was travelling through Manilla next month and thought I would do some looks ups. I found yours and searched Australian Cemetery Index which already has a lovely photo updated of your John Collender which I imagine you could use from that site.
Born 9 June 1876 dies 5 June 1935 originally from Country Waterford Ireland.
I am pastor of a parish to the southeast of where Father is buried, and enjoy creating Findagrave memorials for the tombstone in our Catholic cemeteries. Not being a Franciscan myself, the only other thing I can tell you about Father is that, according to his Pennsylvania death record, he was son of William & Honora (Kennedy) Fahey. Perhaps this makes him into a cousin of yours!