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B.J. Waters (#47094611)
 member for 6 years, 5 months, 27 days
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Bio Photo This is a fun and interesting hobby for me, as well as a great way to perform a meaningful community service to others. Someday I hope to have more free time to devote to it. Yes, I'm in it for the numbers! The more memorials that are on this site, the better chance of people finding relatives. That's what this is all about.

In fairness to those who may have closer ties to a memorial, please read the Transfer Guidelines prior to requesting a transfer. I will make exceptions if I am personally doing work for you. You do not need to "manage" every memorial that is part of your family tree. Remember that this site is for locating burials, not building a tree. There are other websites that are more suitable for that purpose. I will be happy to make any links and corrections. PLEASE use the SAC feature ("Edit" tab). Please do not ask me to do links to any "Burial Unknown". Do your homework, first. FIND A GRAVE ADMINISTRATORS SUPPORT THIS POLICY. Please feel free to add photos where appropriate, as you do not need to manage the memorial to add photos.

I will not cut and paste raw data from census records, death indices, etc. A nicely written bio is preferable.

Since March 2013 I have taken over management of memorials in Inglewood Park Cemetery from Chris Mills. Please continue to send suggestions for corrections using the "Edit" tab and I will get to them as soon as I can.

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G. Darleen Huffman Linschoten
RE: Mildred Tocco photo request.
Well BJ I DO stand corrected - I clicked on YOUR photo, which I really liked, and YEP there you were - indeed 'a girl' - we MUST stand together with an exception: My girlhood left me about 70 years ago - but it comes to all should they be blessed NOT to be planted yet. For some blasted reason I MISS-took you -- the initals I guess and yet they weren't even close!!! It's the brain-dead thingie. My apologies. You have REALLY done and are doing a wonderful service for people who've lost loved ones - that may be lost but you found them, posted them and someone JUST on the chance came into Find A Grave and WOW here they were because of people like YOU. The pix of you AT Inglewood - shows me it is one beautiful cemetery. My husband thinks I'm kinda nuts but I have always loved walking thru especially OLD cemeteries. And I am SO glad of the digital-cameras of today. Wish we'd had them when I was younger. Whatever - thank YOU for the clarification. I STAND WAY-CORRECTED. Darleen
Added by G. Darleen Huffman Linsch... on Jul 28, 2015 7:40 PM
Charles Smith headstone
Thank you again for answering my photo request. The headstone photo for Charles & his wife, Olivia are greatly appreciated. Barbara
Added by BESmithPowell on Jul 28, 2015 4:16 PM
G. Darleen Huffman Linschoten
Correction - I thought you were one and the same - the other was CJ Bryan - he took great photo's too. I've been SO blessed by having people such as yourself to do this work. MUCHO appreciated.
Added by G. Darleen Huffman Linsch... on Jul 28, 2015 3:03 PM
G. Darleen Huffman Linschoten
RE: Mildred Tocco photo request.
AWESOME!!!! You know BJ - they were married many years - TRUE TRUE to each other - she married into an OLE Italian family - and really got converted to their ways - a lot of the ole Italian cooking etc., Loved her and him very much. Very HONORABLE people. Her sister (another favorite of mine) Lorraine married a Berardini and that too - what fun we had at Italian weddings and whatever else was being celebrated. Wonderful memories. I think it was you that did one more for me of Jackie at Forest Lawn (what awesome pictures)- she was a troubled soul - SO beautiful but so many problems in her life; took me like forever to find out what LAST name she was using when she died; she had a few. The THREE of them were quite beautiful - O O my mother was in there too. Again - you are AWESOME my fine young man. Thanks so much.
Added by G. Darleen Huffman Linsch... on Jul 28, 2015 3:01 PM
Camille Phelps
Ruth Nanny
All done... Thanks for bringing this to my attention...
Added by Camille Phelps on Jul 28, 2015 1:02 PM
Karen Huerta
RE: Curtis and Rachel Stannard
I am sorry for the sideways photos! I took them on my new tablet and uploaded them that way and lo and behold they come up sideways. I will make sure they are corrected right away. I will try to get back out there this week and fulfill some more requests so if you have any additional requests please continue to be patient and I will try to get them all done as soon as possible.
Added by Karen Huerta on Jul 28, 2015 10:39 AM
RE: Adrian and Pontbriand
Hi, thank you so much I appreciate it, I tried calling the mmemorial but have yet to hear back from the lady. I was able to make out parts of it from manipulating the photo graphs. Her middel name all I could make out was Ca and just ond from her last name. Too bad it is not a tombstone, orherwise a crayon and piece of paper would work :)
Added by Pontbriand on Jul 28, 2015 10:27 AM
G. Darleen Huffman Linschoten
RE: Mildred Tocco photo request.
HI THERE BJ - GOSH, ONLY IF YOU ARE IN THAT AREA. I was wondering about that as I did see HIS, Uncle Ralph's plaque - and after speaking to the people in the office yesterday reporting to me that Aunt Mildred was indeed there (not at Forest Lawn like I had been told long time ago -- her sisters are there)... I thought: I wonder why they did NOT put her name there too. Just for clarity sake for people far from me that might be trying ONE day to locate her. AGAIN, "IF" you are there - I would love to see the area('s) where they are located - it seems like a nice 'restful' area. Thanks BJ. Darleen
Added by G. Darleen Huffman Linsch... on Jul 28, 2015 9:06 AM
Dave Lehman
Arthur Clark Stilson, Rev. (#107217554); Adaline Russell "Addie" Seaton (#149841555) & Helen [Stilso
Thank you for all of your time and effort in obtaining the grave photos for Arthur, Addie & Helen. Words cannot fully express the gratitude felt your your efforts. Thank you for all you do!

Addie is the wife of Rev. Arthur Clark Stilson; Helen [Stilson] Baker is the daughter of Rev., Arthur Clark Stilson & Adaline Russell "Addie" Seaton
Added by Dave Lehman on Jul 28, 2015 8:54 AM
Shirley Thacker Hartman
Thank you very much for adding the photo to Bernice's memorial.
Added by Shirley Thacker Hartman on Jul 28, 2015 8:00 AM
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