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history4sure (#46997739)
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Bio Photo I am willing to transfer any memorials which are not my ancestors or relatives and will try to help anyone with information or research. I think it is important to identify persons, when possible, so we can know who they are and who their families are, for historical and personal reasons.
2014 Update:
Sixty five years ago I started looking for lost graves as Grandma sent me, at age 8, to find "the indention by the pine tree, near great great grandpa's headstone" so she could place flowers where a baby was buried in 1869 with no "marker". From her, I learned to look for that tiny "frosted" spot when the night before had been chilly (the ground is still warmer at a burial site which has no vault, even after 100's of years!)
I first knew grief when Grandma died, 58 years ago. To honor her, I began genealogy research from her precious family records. Fifty four years ago the death of my young first husband, at the hands of robbers, nearly caused the loss of my first unborn child. Years later, a miscarriage took another son and now, for the past 29 years, we have also grieved for our youngest son, lost to a freak accident. Brad
Writing personal histories has been a passion for nearly 40 years, since I found my relationship to Mormon Battalion soldiers and an early U.S. President.
Being an unpaid cemetery sexton for the past 23 years has required mapping and recording (handwritten) of over 3,000 birth & death locations and overseeing burials and settings of gravestones for some 750 persons. During this time, the birth and death records from 1854 at one cemetery and from 1869 to date, at another, were located and recorded; exact grave locations had never been written down for 155 years! I'm still hand drawing family lot maps for the latter cemetery for all owners.
For about 30 years, I have composed poetry and short stories about loved ones' passing, both for my own and others.
So, am I a "graver" ?, a "griever", a "genealogist", a "historian", a "sexton", a "poet" or just kind of "nutty"?? (We ALL could have, instead of this, been lounging on "sum beach sum where", ya know!)
Anyway, I feel sad when an unkind remark is posted, or it is stated that Find a Grave was designed for one purpose and that "newcomers", who want to use it for genealogy, or some other reason than it was originally intended, should go elsewhere. I hope it is intended to help us all find burial locations, which should include photos, dates, and family links, if possible for proper identification.
Short bios also help identify specific individuals and search data sources can help us verify the positive location. That is why I believe that a gravestone, with poor or misinterpreted information, should be supplemented with the best historical facts available, if possible. After all, it is Find a Grave, not "Find a Stone". Sometimes, nothing else is available, but that is a sad case; unknown, with unknown dates does not tell us much, especially when there is no stone or it is illegible.
I hope to help & will gladly transfer, edit, delete or correct anything I contribute; I'm slow, but I'm OLD, please have patience!


Suprise! Thanks so much to Renee for the Sponsorship of Our Sweet Rose...what an honor to be cared for by such a dedicated animal lover.

I am grateful AGAIN to Love Always, Renee for the sponsorship of my beloved Daddy - what a generous contributor she is...check out her loving memorials!


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Valenciaღ Angel of Mine 💕
~My Thanks For You~

My thanksgiving will be happy all because of you, 
For God gave me a friend to blow away the blues 
He knew I needed someone, my heart to bless, 
With the fruit of His spirit, He selected all His best. 
For you offer a gentle joy, sweeter than peach, 
Your goodness overflows, just within reach. 
So please take these thoughts I offer to you 
For you deserve the abundance 
Of my gratitude.

Valencia's mom

Added by Valenciaღ Angel of ... on Nov 24, 2014 9:07 PM
P.S. Cormany
Is the inscription behind you, on monument stone, Adam Cormany? There are a listings of that surname at who have Illinois notations.
Added by GeorgiaCA on Nov 19, 2014 10:31 AM
RE: An Old Relic
That is so interesting - is the little cemetery listed here? It really looks very old and beautiful.
Added by GeorgiaCA on Nov 19, 2014 10:04 AM
RE: edit
lol. ok.

Yea it is messed up!

Thanks Sherleen
Added by aisxray on Nov 18, 2014 9:32 PM
New picture
Love the new picture among the relics!
Added by GeorgiaCA on Nov 18, 2014 7:18 PM
RE: 138046872 - edit
send me the edit again n i will accept..

ya, Native americans have been over looked. I am pushing hard in that direction!
Added by aisxray on Nov 18, 2014 4:19 PM
Jani Nebeker
Evelyn Hassler Nebeker
Thank you for your kind words left for my mom. She truly was a lover of 'weiner dogs' and cats. I acquired my love of cats from her. After reading your bio, you are one of the true fellow Find A Grave contributors. Thanks again - bless you. Jani
Added by Jani Nebeker on Nov 17, 2014 3:06 PM
RE: cemetery name
no idea who made that cemetery but I'll delete the ones i put up..thanks for watching my back!
Added by aisxray on Nov 16, 2014 5:50 PM
Beverly Joe Vaughn
My Recycle
Thank you for the great note you left on my Recycle's memorial. And I love, love, LOVE the pic of the kitty with the tie! YOU are awesome!
Added by Beverly Joe Vaughn on Nov 16, 2014 5:01 PM
Thomas Murphy
Hi, I made your suggested changes to this memorial, including the correct birth date you provided as well as linking him to his father. Please let me know if you find his mother. His mother is listed as Eliza and I found a death certificate for an Elizabeth but cannot figure out if it is the "right" one. Keep in touch, if you find her. Thank you,
Added by RJ on Nov 16, 2014 5:00 PM
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