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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
 member for 8 years, 4 months, 27 days
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Messages left for MaryK4d4 (163)[Leave Message]
Juanice Hess
RE: Holcomb Photos Camellia
I am so glad I could help! :-)
Added by Juanice Hess on Jul 27, 2016 11:04 PM
Ellen Hamby
RE: Boo!
"Hi" back at you, although a few months late. Take a look at the public message contributor Catherine Hall put on my page, then at the messages people have left on her page: I am not universally loved or appreciated, LOL.
Added by Ellen Hamby on Jul 11, 2016 3:47 PM
108794961 Paul Schallberger
I added headstone photo
Added by LyndaB on Jun 02, 2016 3:44 PM
Terry Gongora
Wrong Name
Hi Mary need to change name on my Mother's information it is Dolores not Dorothy Mosby.
Added by Terry Gongora on May 10, 2016 2:41 PM
Hope you're doing good!

Added by TheBlueJar on Apr 22, 2016 11:16 AM
Barbara (Harford) Smith
Could you transfer this Find A Grave Memorial# 129337017 to me this is my cousin. Thank You Barbara Smith
Added by Barbara (Harford) Smith on Apr 05, 2016 7:54 AM
Ellen Hamby
RE: Boo!
Back at you, my dear friend.
Added by Ellen Hamby on Mar 22, 2016 5:03 PM
Transfer Request

MaryK4d4...I would ask that you transfer Find A Grave Tuskegee Airmen Memorial# 106940961 - Lenard LeBaron Gates to me. I am an old Army Brat and I am a nephew of 1LT Thomas G. Patton - 99th Fighter Squadron (Tuskegee Airmen). I am not related to Mr. Gates.

Please advise.

I am,

Sincerely yours,

Michael James Morton

pm (#47882303)
Added by pm on Mar 17, 2016 12:27 AM
Susan Ellen Farro nee Klieby, Find A Grave Memorial# 129862223
Hi Mary,
I have just sent you a couple of edits for the above Memorial. Susan is a 2nd cousin of mine and her maiden name was Klieby. She was married three times: Brown, Damingo and Farro are all surnames of her's through marriage.

I have also included an edit for birth and death information as well as her parents names and birth-death dates. I have not yet located burial information for her parents so I would appreciate it if you would put her parents information in the memorial bio section for now.

It is unfortunate that the full name on the photo is covered. Would you have another photo, or if possible could you take another photo of the gravestone so that her full name is showing.

Thank you so much for your help.
Added by JoDy on Feb 16, 2016 11:22 AM
Judith Jacob
transfer management
Would you PLEASE transfer the following to Me as they are my Grandparents.

George Albert Farrell
Find A Grave Memorial# 137498908

Minnie Porter (Farrell)
Find A Grave Memorial# 137498907

I would like to thank you so very much for putting this on find a grave, and for all your hard work.

Judith Vegna (Farrell) Jacob
Added by Judith Jacob on Feb 14, 2016 10:48 AM
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