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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Judith Jacob
transfer management
Would you PLEASE transfer the following to Me as they are my Grandparents.

George Albert Farrell
Find A Grave Memorial# 137498908

Minnie Porter (Farrell)
Find A Grave Memorial# 137498907

I would like to thank you so very much for putting this on find a grave, and for all your hard work.

Judith Vegna (Farrell) Jacob
Added by Judith Jacob on Feb 14, 2016 10:48 AM
Judith Jacob
Minnie Porter (Farrell)
Minnie Porter (Farrell)
Find A Grave Memorial# 137498907
Added by Judith Jacob on Feb 14, 2016 10:32 AM
Jim Hamren
RE: Vandyce Hamren
Thanks for making the transfer. It was very considerate of you.
Added by Jim Hamren on Feb 09, 2016 2:45 PM
Ricky Willock
RE: Herbert Willock
Uncle Herb always talked about Brother Mendenhall. I am not sure about the Hunts, but Herb's sons are Mark and Glen.
Added by Ricky Willock on Jan 19, 2016 11:01 PM
Diane Wheeler
Edward Radley
Thank you Mary, for the pictures for Edward Radley's gravestone name. And it was nice to have the close up of his name too. Greatly appreciated.
Diane Wheeler
Added by Diane Wheeler on Jan 09, 2016 3:23 PM
Debbie W
RE: Biorn and Welge Photos
Hadn't heard.....Was it John or Thomas?
Added by Debbie W on Oct 21, 2015 9:55 AM
Foster grave at Sac County Cem
Thank you Mary! You have helped solve a huge mystery for our family. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to go out of you way and go down to take these photos. You are the best!
Mike Stuart
Added by mike20169 on Oct 15, 2015 5:57 PM
Jennifer Eagan Dixon
John Eagan
Thank this a mass grave?
Added by Jennifer Eagan Dixon on Oct 15, 2015 3:20 PM
charlie shores
Ivan shores
Thank you for the photo of grandpa ivan
Added by charlie shores on Sep 19, 2015 7:03 PM
RE: Edward Hope
Thanks you for posting the photos on his and his wifes memorials. I am glad the request led you to stones/markers that weren't previously visible (it is unfortunate that it took a drought). Also thanks for pointing out the other contributors duplicate.
Added by MJH on Sep 19, 2015 12:00 PM
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