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Timmy and Cindi Bouldin Tilley (#46940341)
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My Dad's family is Bouldin, Foley, Shelton, and Keaton. From Patrick County, VA. Dad had his DNA done before his death and we found out that Bouldin is NOT the correct spelling of his name. It is Bolling(Bowling). Seems his great grandfather and siblings started spelling it Bouldin and it stuck.
Mom's family is Patterson, Shelton, Forbes and Flanagan. They are from Henry County, VA.
Everyone drifted to NC looking for work and here in Rockingham County, NC is where my part of the family has stayed. I am finding family in Stokes and Surry County also.
I am currently the president of my local UDC chapter and the chairman of the Indian Committee and the registrar for my DAR chapter.

Timmy has lived in Western Rockingham County, NC all of his life. He loves taking pictures and doing family research. He has found alot of his ancestors in Stokes and Surry Counties in NC and Henry and Patrick Counties in VA. His family lines are Dalton, Shelton, Clark, Joyce, Dunlap, Ball, and Tilley.

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We are the chosen. In each family there is one who seems called to find the ancestors, to research the family history, putting flesh on their bones and to make them live again; to tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve. To me, doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts, but breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one, and we have been called, as it were, by our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us: Tell our Story. So, we do, and in finding them, our ancestors, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors that they have a wonderful family, that they would be proud of us? How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt that there was love there for me? It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who I am. It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference, and saying that I can't let this happen. The bones here are bones of my bones and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing something about it. It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish and how they contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family. It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation. It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us that we might be born who we are, and that we remember them. So, we do with love, caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are them and they are us. Now, it is up to the one called in the next generation to answer the call and to take their place in the long line of family storytellers, to step up and put flesh on the bones of our ancestors. (Author Unknown) I have been such a scribe or one of the chosen, a story teller of my family. This is one reason why I do family research, to find not only our family's ancestors but to hopefully find out stories about them. It is always interesting, but it can be frustrating, too. There have been many times when I wanted to throw my hands in the air. But, then I find a little morsel of information that I use to find a bit more about the family or another name to follow to yet another county or state, and there I go again, digging into the books or trying to find that old country road on which a family cemetery is hopefully located. As I have said many times before, in blogs, newsletters and/or programs, finding one's ancestors is really finding one's self.

"The Roots that make Us One are Stronger than the Branches that Divide Us."

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Adele Bennett
Hey! Thanks for the SAC regarding Mrs. Bennett. I wanted to let you know that I *just* walked in the door from documenting around 80 graves at Forest Oaks. I use the Find A Grave app, and it takes forever to add the birth/death dates to each memorial, so I create the memorials and photograph them at the cemetery, then I update the memorials when I get home with the dates & other information. It's much faster.

I just didn't want you to go to the trouble of sending SACs for any more of the memorials I created today. It'll take me a few days, but I promise I'll get them done.

Thank you so much for the SAC, though. I can't say how much I appreciate it when people take the time to send them.


Added by Fluttergirl on Nov 19, 2015 1:38 PM
Sherida (Riggs) Childers
RE: Deegraver
Thank you for letting me know this. I'm sorry for your loss.
Added by Sherida (Riggs) Childers on Oct 27, 2015 9:29 AM
Marion Hill
joel maxwell bowers at danview cemetery eden nc
i have been asked to take a pic. of joels grave stone or site. can u give me better directions as to where it is. like a section etc.
Added by Marion Hill on Oct 22, 2015 3:07 PM
Marcia McClure Sugumele
RE: Deegraver
Thank you for letting me know....sorry for your loss....
Added by Marcia McClure Sugumele on Oct 20, 2015 5:32 AM
larry eanes
RE: Deborah Ann Reynolds
Thanks, I just don't understand why there was no obit. Midlothian is on outskirts of Richmond.
Added by larry eanes on Oct 14, 2015 6:27 PM
Keri Robertson
RE: Robertson Family Cemetary
The directions or description of it is as follows:

Cemetery notes and/or description:
Located in Peters Creek township on the Peter Mabe Rd. #1494 about .5 mile off Hwy 8. Cemetery is on the right about .5 mile into the woods.
Cemetery is very overgrown, several rock with no inscriptions.
Added by Keri Robertson on Oct 09, 2015 5:08 AM
Keri Robertson
RE: Robertson Family Cemetary
Added by Keri Robertson on Oct 09, 2015 5:06 AM
Keri Robertson
RE: Robertson Family Cemetary
Okay, I know there was a building on the right that was fairly new as well. I think it was called Emerald View. It's an event's center.

I have no problem going back if I would be allowed to. I just don't know who to contact about it. I am pretty close by.

Added by Keri Robertson on Oct 08, 2015 6:26 PM
Keri Robertson
Robertson Family Cemetary
I recently went to go to where you had mentioned the location of this grave was. It appears as though someone has fairly recently built a house on this property.

When you get close, there are 3 dogs that bombard the car and chase your tires.

Do you know who may own this property or if they would be willing to let people go back there now?

I had even wondered if they were made aware that it was on the property.
Added by Keri Robertson on Oct 08, 2015 8:29 AM
RE: William Patterson 128585444
My info. was in error Cindi. Have marked their burial as unknown at this time.
Added by billy on Oct 07, 2015 7:54 PM
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