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Peace, Comfort and Hugs, Brenda & Wendy (#46937518)
 member for 8 years, 2 months, 15 days
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Bio Photo This is a picture of my beautiful daughter, Wendy. She was murdered when she was only 21 years old. Helping someone, she thought she could trust.

I did not know about findagrave until Mysticalmind found Wendy's website and made a memorial for her. I became hooked on making memorials for mothers that have lost a child to murder (with their permission) and my own family members. It is wonderful for our future generations looking for their past.

Since Wendy's murder, I have become a Victims' Advocate for homicide victims' family members. I never want another homicide family member to go through what I did.. alone.

I also make websites for mothers that do not know how and would like a website for their child. If you know of a mother that is looking for someone to make a website, please send her my email address.

If you know of a homicide victim and they did not receive justice for what was done to them, please let me know. I have a No Justice page. This includes victims of homicide that are still missing.

In addition, I try to keep the memorial of our murdered loved ones in the public spotlight. I never want someone to forget what happened to our children. If you have a chance, please visit the Victims of Homicide Webring.

Please leave a token and note for my Birthday and Angelday Angels. I think everyone should be remembered.
Thanking you from the bottom of my heart. Wendy's mom ~~~ Brenda

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Shirley C McKenzie
T.B and Martha (Auten) Hooker, McNairy Co, TN.
Thank you for the extensive work you have don on this family. I am making a family history book for one of their descendants and am far too old to do all the original work (only researches know what it really means). I have so enjoyed learning about this lovely family. I only knew 'snippets' and could never have gathered it myself. Shirley (Cartwright) McKenzie for James family descending from Armada (Hooker) James of Guys, McNairy Co, TN.
Added by Shirley C McKenzie on Mar 09, 2015 1:08 PM
Colleen Hoover
Hey Bren
Sorry I haven't been in touch. I moved and I have been really busy trying to get settled. I hope you have a Happy Easter. We 'll catch up soon. Col
Added by Colleen Hoover on Apr 17, 2014 5:35 AM
Reflections of my life
Thank you my friend
Dear Brenda, It was so good connecting with you again. Merry Christmas. May your Christmas be wonderful like you are. Thank you for helping me get back in here. As usual you are there for me. Love you.xxxxo
Added by Reflections of my life on Dec 20, 2013 2:35 PM
Colleen Hoover
thinking of you
Dear Brenda, I am Colleen's son. Mom broke her hand a few weeks ago, and wanted me to send this for her, as she can't type for awhile. She wanted you to know she is thinking about you and sending her love on Wendy's upcoming birthday. RJK
Added by Colleen Hoover on Aug 30, 2013 12:48 AM
RE: .
You are so welcome. I knew when I saw his picture, he would be someone I would really like to have known. I am so sorry for his recent passing. I know your heart is grieving, and especially with the death of your daughter. You made a wonderful tribute to her.

Take care,
May the Lord bless and keep you safe,
Added by Maggieღ on May 30, 2013 1:29 PM
Your Dad
I am so sorry for the recent loss of your dad.
Added by Maggieღ on May 22, 2013 9:06 PM
* Frank "Walleye" Cooper *
It was my honor to visit your Dad to pay tribute to his recent demise. I can fell the pain you are still going through and especially after losing your Mom Martha in 2010, you have been going thru so much. Take care of yourself and thank you so much for your kind message.
Ruth McDonald
Added by purple-lady on May 13, 2013 7:53 PM
melissa ♥
Your very welcome. I was glad to visit your mom and Wendy.

Hugs, Melissa
Added by melissa ♥ on May 13, 2013 1:11 PM
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You are very welcome for the tokens. I just read your daughter's story on Angelfire. As a mother and a grandmother, I am just horrified. I am so very sorry your family's loss. I added you as a friend so I can come back and visit your loved ones again. *hugs* ~ Sue W.
Added by Tx☆Oma on May 13, 2013 1:30 AM
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you're welcome. I'm Joyce's daughter & her computer has been down for awhile. Been flowering 4 her when i can
Added by Sandy on May 12, 2013 10:21 PM
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