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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

I have 2 books called "Cimarron Family Legends" vol 1 and 2. These books contain information that has been compiled by families that settled all around Stillwater and the surrounding towns of the Cimarron River in Payne County. I can look up information on families if you will send me the family name and any other information that I can use. Just e-mail me with the request.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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Richard E. Henthorn
Clark Chester Efaw
# 10822210
The text of the memorial lists the birth date as, 1 Nov 1885. The tombstone photo clearly shows the birth date as, 19 Nov 1855.

Added by Richard E. Henthorn on Mar 01, 2015 11:28 AM
Mia Houghton
James R Friend
Wanting to let you know I linked son William Friend to your memorial and sent you a link to website showing James Friend's marker in Ivy Lawn Cemetery in Ventura, CA.
Added by Mia Houghton on Feb 23, 2015 6:23 PM
Gary Biggs
Nate Lamb
Many thanks for making the requested changes. I appreciate it. gb
Added by Gary Biggs on Feb 03, 2015 5:55 PM
Peggy Gattenby
Cooper inSilivan Co MO
I found your site for the Cooper cemetery in MO and was surprised as we assumed it was lost. I had info on it but haven't been there yet to check it out. Would you mind sending me info on where you got your information? My Dad's cousin Joyce researched it at one time and I wondered if you are connected to our family.
Please reply if you get this to
Added by Peggy Gattenby on Jan 24, 2015 4:10 PM
R J Carter
Henry Glenwood McKeown
Dear Pam,

I was not able to locate an e-mail address for you so I writing this on the public message board.

The information given on the page for Henry Glenwood McKeown (memorial # 37609961) is not correct for his father's name. It is not Patrick Glenwwod McKeown. The correct name is Henry Patrick McKeown. Henry Patrick McKeown is my 2nd great uncle.

Could you please update that information. Thank you very much. Please let me know if you have any questions or need more documentation.

Rebecca Carter (
Added by R J Carter on Jan 06, 2015 8:58 PM
Mark Doyle
Pat Blankenship Chilton
I knew a Pat Blankenship back in the 70's that went to U of M Rolla in chemical engineering. Is this her?

Mark Doyle
Added by Mark Doyle on Dec 19, 2014 4:58 PM
Cheryl Henry
I will get out to the cemetery this weekend. I waited for the cemetery office to open so I could check if there was a stone, initially, anyway. This section is one of the oldest in the cemetery so I want to warn you that sometimes the stones are no longer there. It is so windy today that I did not want to hit the cemetery--it is always worse there. Thank you for understanding. Cheryl Henry
Added by Cheryl Henry on Nov 26, 2014 12:11 PM
RE: Daugherty
Sorry, yes, Oklahoma in Fairlawn Cemetery. Nathan and Nancy Daugherty are my husband's 2g4 grandparents
Added by dskissel on Nov 18, 2014 8:12 AM
Memorial# 11736827
Thank you for the updates and Family Links, and for your attention and care in maintaining these memorials, it is truly a lasting service.
Added by RoseOfThePlains on Nov 01, 2014 7:27 AM
Delores Robertson
Jacob Kughn- Osage Cemetery
Hello, I am doing some research on my Mother-in-law's family and I have a question. On the find-a-grave memorial for Jacob L Kughn in the Osage cemetery (my mother in law's grandfather) you have that he was married to Elizabeth Six and his parents were Jonathon & Sara Kughn. I found the marriage source between Jacob and Elizabeth but I also found a death notice for a Jacob L Kughn age 84 with a spouse Elizabeth Sax and parents Jonathon & Sara. Now, I am wondering if these folks are the correct first wife and parents of the Jacob that died in 1930. Can you please verify that I am on the right track by tracking down Jonathon & Sara as his parents? Thank you.
Added by Delores Robertson on Oct 28, 2014 4:53 AM
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