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Chris☺☺ (#46836790)
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Bio Photo I absolutely love genealogy and this website is a great tool to make sure those who have passed before us aren't forgotten. Old family photographs are a passion of mine so if you have photos of any of the individuals posted please add them and email me so I can see them! If you have documents/obits or anything else regarding any of my memorials I'd also love to see them. A decent majority of my memorials are in my tree.....we're all related somehow!

I understand how this website began (to record graves) but I do NOT subscribe to the theory that that's all it's for as it's really transformed itself (with photo options and edits/links it's become a WONDERFUL option for displaying actual family trees) Why not create as complete/accurate memorials of our ancestors as possible? So for those of you that don't agree with me we will have to agree to disagree. I will continue submitting corrections/links as I come across them. I'm not perfect but if I've submitted a correction I've researched it and have a reason for it - I am not submitting them willy-nilly.

With the release of Michigan marriage/divorce records through 1952 it's amazing to me the number of "starter" marriages I've found (and number of questions I get from people questioning spousal links I submit). If I've asked for a link to a spouse it's because I've proven they were married. It may not always be pleasant to add that 2nd (or 3rd or 4th) spouse to great grandma so and so but it's an accurate representation of history and quite frankly it's someone they loved at some point in time right?

I see those that complain about death certificates, etc being posted on memorials and how those "add nothing". That is absolute malarkey. How often are headstones wrong? Sometimes the only way to prove it (and keep incorrect edits from being submitted) is to add the certificate. I generally only add to my memorials but that's why a lot of them are there. If you come across a memorial that has photos, obits, death certs or anything else on them they are likely in my direct family line and I will not apologize for what I've added. If I've added something to one of your memorials (in years past) and you'd like it removed please contact me and I will.

I like to play nice on this website. I have made many neat connections and would much rather have fun with this than butt heads with someone. If you want to get along with me I'll get along with you. In genealogy connections are EVERYTHING - research assistance, etc. comes from your connections and the connections (and dare I say friendships) I've made on this site have been wonderful.

You are welcome to use my headstone photos in your personal family trees (consider this permission). I have always appreciated a note with credit to me and especially have appreciated those that have asked in the past. I gave up long ago fighting those that took my personal family photos and added them to their tree without my permission. At some point in life you just accept that there are inconsiderate jerks in the world and move on. I do enjoy it when I find the people labeled incorrectly. I'd gladly help fix it but I don't help thieves. Ultimately I've used this site to record for future generations and not sharing the photos defeats that purpose but geez people, show some class!

I don't subscribe to the transfer rules of findagrave so if you're related to or have a particular interest in someone that I have a memorial for please let me know how you're related and (unless they're in my direct line) I'll gladly transfer. This site has become about collecting numbers for some and I quite frankly could give a rat's patoot about numbers.

My biggest pet peeve are people that create duplicate memorials when it's blatantly obvious that a memorial already exists. I will always fix mine if I create one (name differences, transcription errors, etc) but some of what I've seen is just sheer laziness and I will report those whenever I find them. Please LOOK BEFORE YOU POST! You will never find me uncooperative with your requests so to duplicate one of my memorials is absolutely unnecessary (in addition to rude and against the rules).

That is all :). Happy graving!
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Priscilla Parr
Raymond Peterson
Thank you for the transfer.
Added by Priscilla Parr on Jan 10, 2017 7:51 PM
Martha Guiot Fluor
162365182 Arthur H Westra
Ignore previous message: these are two DIFFERENT Arthur H Westra! My mistake - so sorry
Added by Martha Guiot Fluor on Dec 27, 2016 8:34 PM
Martha Guiot Fluor
162365182 Arthur H Westra
Thank you for all you do. However the information for Find A Grave 162365182 is incorrect.
Arthur H Westra married Clarine Costen NOT Cordelia Costen. In fact Clarine Costen was raised by Cordelia's parents - Hiram and Hannah Costen. Her mother was Clara Costen, their daughter.

Also according to Arthur H. Westra's obituary he was buried in Chapel Hills Memorial Garden along side his wife Clarine.

Thanks again.
Added by Martha Guiot Fluor on Dec 27, 2016 8:15 PM
R & J Black
Thank you so much for the kind transfers. Happy New Year!
Added by R & J Black on Dec 26, 2016 5:18 PM
RE: Louis DeBoer
We could have. I finished by Deuster book and took on a project for a friend that died about Civil War veterans in Western MI. The civil war book took 1 year to finish. She left me 448 pages and when I finished updating I ended up with 1,148. Glad that is done. I am doing my Cross book and then will do the Wierengo/Kuis book. Your obits have been a God send! Thank you so much for what you do!!!
Added by KatieDee on Dec 25, 2016 10:41 PM
Louis DeBoer
You have posted an obit for him. The first page cuts off the name of a daughter. Do you still have the obit?

Are you related to the DeBoer's? They connect to my Kuis family.

Added by KatieDee on Dec 24, 2016 12:58 PM
Donna DeVries
RE: Susan Thorp Marsac
If you would like to transfer them to me that would be great as they are part of my family tree. I just love doing this. Have you ever gone over on Leonard st to the Latter day Saints research center. I have gone once and can not wait to go back. Thanks so much

Added by Donna DeVries on Dec 22, 2016 2:21 PM
Donna DeVries
Susan Thorp Marsac
I love your post and your right about jerks I am like you obsessed with this.. Once you get started OH my .. Well I am the great niece of Susan. Susan's brother Thomas Jefferson Thorp was my grandfather and he passed in Grand Rapids in 1973 he was a hundred years old. My mother was her neice Georgetta Thorpe Terpstra . I was blessed enough to go out and find Susan and her family in Grandville. It was a joy as our family have heard stories of Aunt Sus's as they called her. Thank you so much for the great job you do .. Oh are you related in any way to the Thorp/ Marsac families. Have a Merry Christmas and Blessed New Year.

Added by Donna DeVries on Dec 22, 2016 12:59 PM
cindy hall
Knoll family at Sunrise
Thank you for that offer. As far as I know right now, there are only the three that I know of so far, and I now have them. Happy researching!
Added by cindy hall on Dec 10, 2016 2:31 PM
cindy hall
Mildred Knoll
Thank you for the transfer. I wasn't expecting it. Will add the spouse info. Thank you again.
Added by cindy hall on Dec 10, 2016 1:54 PM
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