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Sherry (#46585091)
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Bio Photo <-- My sons, Sean and Eric, and myself, several years ago.

The older you get, the more deaths it seems, or maybe I was just too young to know the difference. I wanted something to memorialize members of my family and friends.

The majority of the memorials I made are family and some are very close family friends.

For all those that took my family pictures and used them on Ancestry, you weren't supposed to copy them unless you ask me first, and it would have been nice for anyone of you to say "Hey, I used your picture on my family tree!" I would have replied with something like "Lets see how we are related!"

Discovering who your ancestors are is one thing, but reading about them even if its just an obituary tells you something about them as a person, not just another leaf in the tree. Seeing their final resting place is a type of closure for me.

I'm looking for any information on Scovill, Hill, Gear, Parlett, Lawton, Shields, Weilbacher, Frierdich, Murrah.

Please don't add any music to my interments. If you have a picture for one of my memorials you'd like to add, go ahead, but please let me know so I can see it! Thanks!

If I've left flowers on a memorial, that doesnt mean that I know them. It could be that I was flowering random names, or I got there by following links from other memorials. I've flowered over 20,000 memorials, and I probably only knew a very small percentage of those people.


This was posted in the forums, and I think it pretty much sums up how most of us feel about graving and looking for our ancestors.

Your tombstone stands among the rest
Neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out
On polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist
you died and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you
In flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago
Spread out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

Author Unknown.


By Thelma Greene Reagan

Today we walked where others walked
On a lonely, windswept hill;
Today we talked where other cried
For Loved Ones whose lives are stilled.
Today our hearts were touched
By graves of tiny babies;
Snatched from the arms of loving kin,
In the heartbreak of the ages.
Today we saw where the grandparents lay
In the last sleep of their time;
Lying under the trees and clouds -
Their beds kissed by the sun and wind.
Today we wondered about an unmarked spot;
Who lies beneath this hollowed ground?
Was it a babe, child, young or old?
No indication could be found.
Today we saw where Mom and Dad lay.
We had been here once before
On a day we'd all like to forget,
But will remember forever more.
Today we recorded for kith and kin
The graves of ancestors past;
To be preserved for generations hence,
A record we hope will last.
Cherish it, my friend; preserve it, my friend,
For stones sometimes crumble to dust
And generations of folks yet to come
Will be grateful for your trust.


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Wilma Anderson
Who needs to see Wilma Lee (Tolbert) Anderson's photo?
Added by Wilma Anderson on Jul 10, 2014 11:41 AM
Wilma Anderson
Why is photo for Wilma Lee (Tolbert) Anderson not showing
Added by Wilma Anderson on Jun 05, 2014 9:24 AM
Jenny Edwards
Ellen Jane Lawton
I have updated the profile for Ellen Jane Lawton as you suggested. If this is family for you I can transfer the profile to you. Just let me know if that is desired.
Added by Jenny Edwards on May 21, 2014 6:12 AM
Joel Stoner
RE: Patty and Billy Jenkins
Sherry would you mind adding a photo request for her stone? I or one of the other local listers will fill it, ASAP.
Added by Joel Stoner on Apr 29, 2014 4:18 AM
I am related to the Walter family in Catherine and will try to help you with whatever you need.

Added by Anonymous on Apr 23, 2014 8:48 PM
Kendall Mellem
Thomas Parry photo again
Hi--me again!
Sherry, under the photo of the cemetery sign, is the message that the photo was added by Sherry in 2004. When I click on Sherry, it goes to your page. If you did not add this photo, I'll ask the editors to remove it, but I thought I'd run it by you one more time in case you were looking at a different photo. (Several people added photos to this memorial.)
Thanks again!
Added by Kendall Mellem on Apr 11, 2014 5:30 AM
Kendall Mellem
Death certificates
Hi Sherry,
Just fyi, from the FAQ:
"May I add a death certificate to a person's memorial page?
Death certificates may be added via the "Add a photo" button on the memorial page. Please select the option for "Other" in the "Type of photo:" to be added, as it is not a Grave, Person or Family photograph."
Thanks for your message about the photo.
Added by Kendall Mellem on Apr 11, 2014 5:26 AM
Kendall Mellem
photo removal request
Hi Sherry!
Would you be willing to remove the general cemetery name photo from the grave of Thomas Parry at this "address"?
I'd like to squeeze on a family photo.
Thank you!
Added by Kendall Mellem on Apr 09, 2014 9:42 PM
May I use Elliott Frederick Scovill and Mary Amelia Scovill on Mary was a distant cousin. Thanks
Added by matt on Mar 31, 2014 8:10 PM
Natalie De Los Santos
Hello i was wondering if..
You knew my father Ralph E. "Boy" Gonzales or if you just gave a random flower to him, please contact me. thank you.
Added by Natalie De Los Santos on Feb 20, 2014 4:11 PM
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