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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

I have 2 books called "Cimarron Family Legends" vol 1 and 2. These books contain information that has been compiled by families that settled all around Stillwater and the surrounding towns of the Cimarron River in Payne County. I can look up information on families if you will send me the family name and any other information that I can use. Just e-mail me with the request.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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Michael Meador
W. H. H. Adams and Rebecca Susan
Thanks so much for helping me straighten out where W. H. H. & Rebecca Susan are buried. They are from Macon County and I am trying to get what I can tied back into the county. I see that they have been taken off the Fairlawn Cem. in Cushing but added into the Fairlawn Cem. in Stillwater. So now there are 2 listings for each one. But again thank you so much for leading me in the right direction. I will try to send you info to have W. H. H. connected.
I am sure your daughter is still just as cute but she probably doesn't want to peek around tombstone anymore. HA. HA.
Added by Michael Meador on Jul 23, 2014 9:09 PM
Clark ancestry
Hi Pam, I'm curious as to where you have found the obituaries for Don C. R. Clark and others in our family line in Stillwater. Thanks for all your work!
Added by Maryann on Jul 22, 2014 4:27 PM
Michael Meador
W. H. H. Adams and Rebecca Susan (Jenkins)
I have seen where W. H. H. Adams and his wife Rebecca are listed in Fairlawn Cem., in Stillwater, Payne Co., Oklahoma as well as Fairlawn Cemetery in Cushing, Payne Co., Oklahoma. Not being familiar with the area, are these 2 cemeteries the same or different. Just trying to figure out which cem. they are in. Thanks
Added by Michael Meador on Jul 15, 2014 10:07 PM
Susy Flaming
Ingalls Cemetery
Hi Pammy
I realized I failed to say what cemetery I was referring, and it was Ingalls.
Added by Susy Flaming on Jul 13, 2014 4:47 PM
Susy Flaming
Douglas Moore
Hi Pammy,
I wanted to let you know that Douglas Moore is NOT deceased. A number of people on the list are living. I am mapping the cemetery. Some of the names on the "list" are designated to be buried in that plot WHEN they do pass. I am finding a good number of names are falling under this category.
Added by Susy Flaming on Jul 13, 2014 4:13 PM
Bill Herrman
Zachariah Clary
Dear Pam,

In response to your message this morning stating: "I have replied to you several times. ty"

Please view my message board. I have no other replies from you. The only other reply I have from you is dated June 15th asking for proof. After that message, I provided at lease 5 valid references proving that the name Zachariah is misspelled.

Please review the following and make the needed corrections or let me know otherwise.

All 7 of the Member Trees have it spelled Zachariah. A public member story on written by Clarence William Clary in 1970 has Zachariah. The 1880 census has Zachariah. The 1870 census has a nickname Gac(?). The 1860 census has Zacariah which I'm thinking was a misspelling by the census taker. A 580 page well documented book "Clary Genealogy" by Ralph & Star Rowland written in 1982 has Zachariah. I have a copy of the book. The 1840 Illinois marriage record to Harriet Wagoner shows the spelling Zachariah. The name appears in the Bible as a prophet and is spelled Zachariah.

Added by Bill Herrman on Jul 13, 2014 7:47 AM
Sarah Mikkelsen Carson
Lillian McDonald Adcock & Charles B Adcock
Thank you for making the edits.
Added by Sarah Mikkelsen Carson on Jul 02, 2014 4:17 PM
Bill Herrman
Zachariah Clary
Once again, I'm requesting you correct the spelling of Zachariah on the following memorials: 19697728, 19697890, 19697893, 19697885 and 19697727.

At your request, on June 16th, I messaged you through Find A Grave providing several references of proof that the spelling is Zachariah and not Zacariah. In addition to those references, I forgot to mention the spelling on his 1840 Illinois marriage record to Harriet Wagoner is Zachariah.

Thanks for making the corrections,
Added by Bill Herrman on Jun 27, 2014 4:18 PM
Lynne Sherer Sitkiewicz
Jennie Barbara Gates
Your photo of Jennie had "grandma" written on it. If she is your grandma, we are indeed cousins. Jennie was a 4th cousin 2x removed to me.
Added by Lynne Sherer Sitkiewicz on Jun 26, 2014 1:39 PM
Janelle Roth
Memorial #10822559
You list William Thomas Fowler's parents as Cody and Mary Fowler. W.T. Fowler's parents have been our "brick wall", so what reference did you use to conclude/find Cody & Mary Fowler as his parents? I am his great, great grand daughter. Any information will be greatly appreciated.
Added by Janelle Roth on Jun 26, 2014 1:22 PM
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