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Sherry (#46585091)
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Bio Photo <-- My sons, Sean and Eric, and myself, several years ago.

The older you get, the more deaths it seems, or maybe I was just too young to know the difference. I wanted something to memorialize members of my family and friends.

The majority of the memorials I made are family and some are very close family friends.

For all those that took my family pictures and used them on Ancestry, you weren't supposed to copy them unless you ask me first, and it would have been nice for anyone of you to say "Hey, I used your picture on my family tree!" I would have replied with something like "Lets see how we are related!"

Discovering who your ancestors are is one thing, but reading about them even if its just an obituary tells you something about them as a person, not just another leaf in the tree. Seeing their final resting place is a type of closure for me.

I'm looking for any information on Scovill, Hill, Gear, Parlett, Lawton, Shields, Weilbacher, Frierdich, Murrah.

Please don't add any music to my interments. If you have a picture for one of my memorials you'd like to add, go ahead, but please let me know so I can see it! Thanks!

If I've left flowers on a memorial, that doesnt mean that I know them. It could be that I was flowering random names, or I got there by following links from other memorials. I've flowered over 20,000 memorials, and I probably only knew a very small percentage of those people.


This was posted in the forums, and I think it pretty much sums up how most of us feel about graving and looking for our ancestors.

Your tombstone stands among the rest
Neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out
On polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist
you died and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you
In flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago
Spread out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

Author Unknown.


By Thelma Greene Reagan

Today we walked where others walked
On a lonely, windswept hill;
Today we talked where other cried
For Loved Ones whose lives are stilled.
Today our hearts were touched
By graves of tiny babies;
Snatched from the arms of loving kin,
In the heartbreak of the ages.
Today we saw where the grandparents lay
In the last sleep of their time;
Lying under the trees and clouds -
Their beds kissed by the sun and wind.
Today we wondered about an unmarked spot;
Who lies beneath this hollowed ground?
Was it a babe, child, young or old?
No indication could be found.
Today we saw where Mom and Dad lay.
We had been here once before
On a day we'd all like to forget,
But will remember forever more.
Today we recorded for kith and kin
The graves of ancestors past;
To be preserved for generations hence,
A record we hope will last.
Cherish it, my friend; preserve it, my friend,
For stones sometimes crumble to dust
And generations of folks yet to come
Will be grateful for your trust.


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LaDon Brennan
Been there, done that - typos are fixed, no worries.
Added by LaDon Brennan on Sep 26, 2014 2:12 PM
LaDon Brennan
Martha Baker
Thank you for the obit, which has been added. I am always glad to add information to memorials so future generations will "know" their ancesters. There is a lot of confusion with this Baker family line, most had at least 10 children and used the same names, and married Baker cousins. I wish that Martha's living children had been named in her obit.
Added by LaDon Brennan on Sep 26, 2014 6:10 AM
betty radford
William Love
I appreciate the obit, I added it to his memorial on Find A Grave. not sure about relation yet, My hubs is related to the caulley's in that cemetery. so maybe the connection will appear later.
Added by betty radford on Sep 24, 2014 1:00 PM
F Mc
Lottie Brown
Thank you for the added information. I have updated her memorial. Sincerely, Florence
Added by F Mc on Sep 18, 2014 7:25 AM
Kenneth Eugene Rodgers
Cross Family
John Cross was Beanie's Brother, so we are related somewhere down the line.
Added by Kenneth Eugene Rodgers on Sep 04, 2014 9:36 AM
Ev(e) Bishop
RE: Jean Lawton
they only knew out of state, the husband didn't tell them where. I found many members of her family on findagrave in TX. the Schusters & Mays.
Added by Ev(e) Bishop on Aug 26, 2014 8:44 PM
Myron Welsh
Hi Sherry,

I wanted to thank you for your work related to Stephen T. Scovill (1801-1877) and his family. .. My interest is in the Welsh, Scovill and Gray families.


Added by Myron Welsh on Aug 26, 2014 5:36 PM
Kenneth Eugene Rodgers
Cross Family Tree
My uncle married a Donna Cross,Her dad was A John Junior Cross and he also had a daughter named Connie
who married a Friedrich.My Grandma was a Shields, so
Im guessing we are probably related somehow.
Added by Kenneth Eugene Rodgers on Aug 23, 2014 9:09 PM
Mark Vernon
Alonzo/Lonzo thanks
Hi Sherry,

Thank you for the information! I have noted the changes. I see that Lonzo is also used in the text of his obit and his death record. His father's name of William is written in his death record, but I have added Willis on this page. Let me know what more I can add or change.

Added by Mark Vernon on Aug 04, 2014 12:00 PM
Alma Darling
Lillie Hagan
Hi Sherry, I transfered Lillie to you because I like for the memorials to be with families. Please email me at almadarlingatgmail because I have information about Charles Hagan.
Added by Alma Darling on Aug 03, 2014 7:40 PM
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