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Delita (#47315206)
 member for 6 years, 5 months, 4 days
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Bio Photo Amelia, Debbie's granddaughter

Debra Lynn Barwick

Debbie's son Our
Grandson TJ Parham
April 17, 2016 Suicide victim

Thank you to everyone for the continued visits. I just can't be here every day like I once was. All our family is having a rough time right now. The holidays are so depressing. We all miss TJ so bad. Have concerns over other Grandchildren. Prayers please. Thanks with much love Delita

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Wesley Wisenbaker Brother Birthday Dec 29

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Blessings to you and your family Dear. One day at a time is how I try and get through myself.
Thoughts and prayers.
Added by D&D on Nov 28, 2016 8:31 PM
Thank you!
Thank you for the lovely token you left on my Nanna's memorial. Much Appreciated x
Added by BellaBoo on Nov 05, 2016 7:46 PM
RE: Today
You are welcome Delita. Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Nov 03, 2016 5:03 PM
RE: Today
You are welcome Delita. Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Nov 03, 2016 5:03 PM
Delita, thinking of you on your birthday. Love & Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Nov 02, 2016 6:43 AM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine 🎄
Valencia's Heavenly Birthday

It only takes a moment to say THANK YOU – but your thoughtfulness will be remembered a long time. Delita, your beautiful words of comfort always always makes me smile. Love you lots!!

Love, Yo

~If I got you a thank you card to match the size of your generosity, it wouldn’t fit in your mailbox~ anonymous

Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on Oct 23, 2016 8:13 AM
Lori Haus
Thank~you for the flowers left on the memorial for Herbert V. Akerberg
Added by Lori Haus on Oct 15, 2016 8:20 PM
Mary Ann Barrowman
RE: Thank You Mary Ann
Hello Delita,
I'm so sorry for your sad and tragic loss of TJ. My heart weeps for you. It's a dreadful loss of this wonderful young man whom you loved so dearly. I pray you never had to suffer this tragedy. I'm almost 32 1/2 years into my journey now. I remember that day that my beautiful sister Alice died, just like it was yesterday Delita. My stepdad died, then my father, then my mother and then five weeks later, my young brother died. Sadly my extended family are dwindling away. My tragedy now is that Alice's name is very, very seldom mentioned , and this hurts me so much. One thing Delita is that Alice, my gorgeous big sister, was born on Easter Monday, 19th April 1954, and she also died on Easter Monday, 23rd April 1984. This has always troubled me. I have actually ordered a copy of Alice's death certificate, along with a copy of my daughter, Amanda's death certificate today. I have never actually seen these documents with my own eyes.
My love, thoughts and comfort are with you as you learn how to adjust to life without JT. Please feel free to contact me, anytime you feel you need someone to share your sorrow, I'm more than willing to lend an ear. I would never wish the pain of Alice's death by suicide on anyone. As I said Delira, your pain is new, it's red raw, but with support, it does become more bearable, but you will never forget this very talented young man. I'm also saddened to hear of the loss of TJs mother, absolutely terrible. I send your so much peace, love, warmth and comfort. Hugs, Mary, from Clydebank in Scotland. X
Added by Mary Ann Barrowman on Sep 30, 2016 3:59 PM
Eliza Rose
Thank you!
I so appreciate you leaving flowers for my family! You are awesome :)
Added by Eliza Rose on Sep 15, 2016 5:24 PM
theresa wilson
RE: Delita
Your Very Welcome Dear, I know how hard these things are, My Grandad took his own life. Its been hard on the family. My only comfort from it was from the Lord. I had to give it him cause it was too heavy for me to carry in my Heart. I Pray The Lord can help you find that Peace too. Give it to the Lord in Prayer. Lol Theresa
Added by theresa wilson on Sep 05, 2016 7:22 PM
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