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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
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Bio Photo 10-19-2014

Really really sick of people stealing my family photos and posting them as there own on Ancestry .
I plan to take any action that is available under the law to stop it .

If you need to contact me privately please use me dear friends Memorial Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062

Please understand Find A Grave memorials are works in progress . And there is no excuse for being rude and abusive .

My photographic works and photos I have posted are protected by in bedded copyright. You Must ask permission before reproducing in any form .

Quote From Jim Tipton founder of F.A.G. on updated rules after being acquired by Ancestry . com found in help with find a grave .

"It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it on other websites as if it were their own".

If your reporting a duplicate please add the duplicates F.A.G. number .

Please remember that F.A.G. has threads running that will eventfully merge dups. into the first created . Don't go postal over a dup.
Please do not move a burial unknown memorial into a cemetery where I already placed a memorial and tell me I have to remove my "duplicate" memorial ,this is profusely widespread now.

Please do not ask me to post a obituary that does not have a source ,it is not allowed ,and could lead to a breach of public domain .

If requesting a transfer first read that section in help with find a grave and in My bio. Other wise it will not be considered . Do not leave request on this page ,must be done the proper way to be considered .

Please do not request transfers in less You fully intend to add links and or further improve the information . If you are just collecting memorials use your virtual cemetery function . No request will be considered with out relationship being stated . I have ancestry and will check so be truthful .

Transfers should be requested by using the edit feature on memorial and leaving as a suggestion or (sac) please do not leave request on My public messaging they will not be considered . Your relationship must be stated also. No exceptions .

Despite what many claim .
Find a grave is first and foremost a grave registration site ,as stated by its founder .

omg best thing that has ever happened to F.A.G. the new edit function and some contributors are bad mouthing it . You got think ungrateful .

I happily add links and other appropriate information if sent by the edit function on memorial.

Corrections /request should not be left as public message as there are plenty of other means now to do them . Public message's WERE NEVER MENT FOR CORRECTIONS ,SO I will not make corrections this way anymore as it is just to difficult .

When I first started contributing TO F.A.G. you could just inter a memorial ,and that's about it , this gave us time to learn the ropes as features were added, we had time to learn them ,now it seems new ones just jump in there with out reading the guide lines and how to do things right , this rapidly makes them look foolish , and causes problems galore. Please new ones read help with F.A.G. before you use this site and add to it .

Find a Grave seems to bring out the worst or the best in folks there seems to be no middle ground . For that reason it seems we all need to make a special effort to show as much respect for the living as we do for the one's who have passed on .

If it is your intent to be anything but cordial and respectful, I strongly recommend you read further in this bio. before doing so .

I hope F.A.G.soon works on punishing those who are stealing our work and photos as promised ,we work hard ,it is not fair that others get credit for our efforts. I have seen hundred if not thousands of my photos on ancestry .com and I am thinking of taking legal action .

I never profit from My photos even though I spend a great deal of time and money taking photos . And I really do not wont any person or web site to profit from them. And I do not wont My ancestors photos stolen and posted by others as though they belong to them . If I see My photo's on another Web site and My list shows no permission was obtained. I will ask them to be removed and if they are not ,I will contact the web site to have them removed .

New editing function has rolled out to all members.

I'm getting a lot of good feed back on My stance of not putting up with harassment, a lot of contributors are also fed up .Some are saying they are thinking of giving up , I think things will get better now that Ancestry. COM has acquired this site .

In till the last couple of Years ago the following statement was not necessary but unfortunately it is now.

To a select but growing few } Please be aware as a contributor on find a grave does not mean You have given up free will, no contributor is obligated to do anything . If You are making a suggestion do not turn it into a demand or try to manipulate or bully a contributor into making Your suggestion . I can't speak for others but as for Me any attempt at demanding or manipulation automatically rejects Your suggestion and further Hate mail internet bullying ,stalking , intimidation are crimes and will be reported and prosecuted if necessary . Further more after becoming aware of theses crimes the web site is obligated to take action against perpetrators of these crimes or it is also at risk of prosecution .

A person goes out and spends money on a camera flash cards ,batteries . Gasoline ,wear an tear on there vehicle not mention time, fights off snakes , mosquitoes ,ticks ,high grass and weeds , walks in the heat and cold ,mud and people cant even send them a thank You ! ,something is seriously wrong with that ,but that's what happening ,out of my last 50 or so photo request I fulfilled I got about 3 thank You notes ,and about 8 or 10 for the last 50 transfers ,and the fact that F.A.G. sends out a reminder email to suggest You say thank You , makes it even hurt more . Come on folks that is all we ask in return for transfers and photo request . I think this says a lot about what is wrong with society to day .

We all live in the shade of trees planted by those who came before us .

I am a taphophile and Genealogy Hound .

I am a taphophile because I like photographing gravestones.

I have been into cemetery Photography & Rubbings Collecting obituaries for 40 years .My experience in and love of investigation work has helped Me a great deal in My genealogical pursuits .

Per F.A.G. guide lines do not send any one contributor more than 20 suggestions , corrections or requests a week .

Rude or demanding behavior will result in Your request being rejected Automatically . Expect 30 days for Your request to be considered .

Any disrespectful activities or communications will not be tolerated and will be addressed as the situation dictates .
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Messages left for JARROTT P. COX (1136)[Leave Message]
thora fowler
RE: Coon
Hello. Yes, I got your email and sent a reply.
Added by thora fowler on Oct 26, 2014 12:32 AM
Perry Ragain cemetery
Good luck!!!!Let me know what you find....I am really excited for you.
Added by goldenthreads on Oct 23, 2014 9:30 PM
LaDon Brennan
Fast response
Thanks so much for the quick turnaround on the plot locations I have been sending, much appreciated.
Added by LaDon Brennan on Oct 21, 2014 10:48 PM
Mary Lambert
RE: DeMott
I am not aware of being related to any DeMotts in Linn County, Kansas. However my father-in-law Guy H. Lambert was born in Linn County, Kansas 31 Oct 1893. Thanks, Mary Lambert
Added by Mary Lambert on Oct 20, 2014 12:11 AM
Mary Lambert
RE: DeMott
I am not aware of being related to any DeMotts in Linn County, Kansas. However my father-in-law Guy H. Lambert was born in Linn County, Kansas 31 Oct 1893. Thanks, Mary Lambert
Added by Mary Lambert on Oct 20, 2014 12:02 AM
RE: Alli's Floral
Oh she's the new one on Main St. I might know her if I saw a pic of her, but not by name. I used to work in a grocery story and know a lot of people by faces but not by name.

Added by Tess on Oct 19, 2014 5:55 PM
RE: Alli's Floral
No, I do not, I live in El Dorado Springs, MO and I have never heard of Alli's Floral. Where is it located?

Added by Tess on Oct 19, 2014 3:30 PM
thora fowler
RE: Charles Lucas Coon
Yes, that will be fine. My email is My grandparents lived with George and Mary when they were first married. I inherited all my grandmother's old pictures and letters. Most were from her side of the family, but my grandfather had his own album. But most of the pictures I can't identify the people in them. I would also love to know who Charles' parents were. My grandpa said the name was originally Kuhn, but I don't know if that's true.
Added by thora fowler on Oct 18, 2014 11:01 PM
thora fowler
Charles Lucas Coon
Please, may I have permission to use your photos of Charles Lucus Coon? He is my great-great Grandfather. My Grandfather was George Cyrus Coon, son of George Perry Coon. I also have a pretty clear picture of Charles Lucas and Kezia, if you wouldn't mind me adding it.

Thank you!
Thora Fowler
Added by thora fowler on Oct 18, 2014 2:05 AM
RE: Transfers
You are very welcome :)
Glad that family found them...
Added by 天使 on Oct 17, 2014 5:44 PM
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