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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

I have 2 books called "Cimarron Family Legends" vol 1 and 2. These books contain information that has been compiled by families that settled all around Stillwater and the surrounding towns of the Cimarron River in Payne County. I can look up information on families if you will send me the family name and any other information that I can use. Just e-mail me with the request.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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Thais Janda
RE: grave for Orlie Dean Oldham
Thank you for responding about my relative Orlie Dean Oldham's burial at Mt. Hope(?) He was born 3/29/1928 and died 4/1/1928.
You mentioned microfilm to see if an obituary was written on him. I doubt there was, since he lived only a very short time. Perhaps, I can search when I visit OK. I live in Chandler, AZ, but I was born and lived in OK about 50 years, so hopefully I can get back there again even though I'm now 80 years old. I have done genealogy work since about 2000 and compiled an Oldham genealogy book which I placed in the Stillwater library. Since then I have continually updated with further research and now have a book over 300 pages long. Genealogy work is never over as new information becomes available from others who see my book and add facts, documents, & pictures. I enjoy the work. I'm sure you can relate.
Thanks again for your help. Sincerely, Thais(Oldham) Janda
Added by Thais Janda on Sep 29, 2014 11:08 PM
dena jackson
Tippett /Roach Family
Added by dena jackson on Sep 29, 2014 8:31 PM
Thais Janda
grave for Orlie Dean Oldham
Pammy, I am trying to verify a grave site for my relative Orlie Dean Oldham(3/29/1928-4/1/1928) in Mount Hope Cemetery. I don't know what info. is available to you in recording graves or if you can find out if the person is actually buried there even though no marker is evident. I have contacted Strode Funeral Home, the reference for this relative's sister Elsie Oldham(1914-1915) for which you show a grave marker, but haven't heard back from their research yet. If we can determine location of Orlie Dean Oldham, we wish to get a marker placed there. If you have other sources for my getting this info., please let me know. Thanks so much. Thais (Oldham) Janda
Added by Thais Janda on Sep 22, 2014 11:53 AM
Steve & Nancy
Thank you for all the edits you did for the Pepin Family, much appreciation, Nancy
Added by Steve & Nancy on Sep 21, 2014 8:37 PM
Westley Dan Hicks 10882027
Pam I think we have duplication for "Wess" Hicks you have made a page for him 10882027 in Fairlawn Cemetery Stillwater. He is the half brother of my grandfather Oliver Hicks. I have made a page for him and his wife Fannie in the
Tryon Cemetery in Lincoln Co. There is a picture of their grave stone on the page. I believe these pages are for the same man. Could you check your page and mine and see if you agree. I have found his name listed several different ways on documents, so that may add to the confusion. Would you mind deleting your page for him. I would appreciate it Thanks, Beverly.
Added by Beverly on Sep 19, 2014 1:33 PM
Ivy B Vaughan
This person is Ivy Vina Burright Vaughan Find A Grave #14724787 and she is my great aunt. I understand from the rules that she is not my direct ancestor, however, she had no children and everyone who would be in her direct line is deceased. I inherited many pictures and family history documents from her, so I'm asking you to consider allowing me to manage her Find A Grave. Thank you for your consideration.

Linda Stewart
Find A Grave #46822826
Added by Linda on Sep 18, 2014 8:45 PM
Memorial#10971497, Kirk
Hello Pam,

I'm related to Calvin Dexter Kirk. In editing his father, Robert Singleton Kirk's memorial & checking those that have been added by others I found Calvin Dexter's. It's a nice memorial but one thing is incorrect definitely. He was born in Texas. The family were in Hopkins Co., in 1880 & in Navarro Co. in 1900. They were known to have lived in Indian Territory in 1893 but not Pennsylvania. So if this is Calvin Dexter Kirk & not someone else with the same initials then his place of birth is Texas. If you'd like to transfer the memorial to me that's fine. #47270133. I'll try & do some more research on him. Thank you for your work. Loudene Kirk Tollar
Added by Ludie on Sep 18, 2014 8:18 AM
Regarding Mary Ruth (Robinson) Johnston #57692600
Hi Pam!
Im related to Mary Ruth (Robison/Robinson) Johnston and have several questions for you that are about her:

1. Im searching for documentation that she is the correct Mary Ruth Robinson, the one who is a part of my extended family. I am fairly comfortable with the supporting documentation which I have that has led me to include her parents as relatives. Is the Mary Ruth (Robinson) Johnston were talking about a relative of yours?
2. Do you have any documentation that the Mary Ruth Robinson born to Francis Marion Robison/Robinson (1831-1903) and Mary Warder Anderson (1837-1903) in June of 1871 and in Fremont County, Iowa, is the same Mary Ruth Robinson that married John Wesley Johnston (1871-1945) in Amite County, Mississippi?
3. Do you know why they were married in Mississippi?
4. Is there any additional background documentation, stories, etc that you would share that might help bring her story alive?
5. If you do have documentation for all of this, would you mind sharing it with me?
6. If she is the one Im seeking and if I properly attribute them to you and Find-A-Grave, I would like your permission to use the photos (and any others you might consider sharing) displayed on Find-A-Grave on my accounts on and

Thank you in advance for your assistance with this effort!

With Warm Regards,
Added by JBradley on Sep 14, 2014 4:35 PM
Flora Lois Spiva
Hi Pammy
would you mind adding an addendum to Flora's information. I believe her tombstone is incorrect. My grandmother (her sister) was born in August of 1912. There is no way one could have been born in August and another in October. I went to the History Center yesterday and pulled Flora's obituary. It stated in 1927 she was 12, which would have made her actually born in 1914 (since she died before October of 1927). The census record of 1920 also would back up the fact because it says she was 5 in January of 1920 and would turn 6 in October, making her born in 1914.

Thank you
Added by sheriffgirl on Sep 12, 2014 12:09 PM
Robert Cline
Lyle L. Shafer
Hi Pammy,

I added an edit for his parents, Thanks, bob
Added by Robert Cline on Aug 17, 2014 2:49 PM
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