I am very sad and heart broken because my precious wife Ann is dying. She is the love of my life and she needs prayers to be healed. I can't face the fact that she may be taken from me if God calls her home.
Sept. 28, 2014 It is our anniversary today. My precious wife is still with us and fights so hard everyday. She is growing weaker by the day. She doesn't tell anyone how sick she really is. Thank you for all the prayers. Ann went in to the hospital Monday 8th She was in so much pain that she could not stand it very much. They sad her potassium was critical at 6.6. It was supposed to not to be more that 5. It is now 4.1 but her heart and kidneys aren't working right. October 22 Ann quantified for Hospice Friday and at 12:20 pm we signed the papers to put her in there care. She is taking Morphine for the pain and to help her breath and ativin to keep her calm. The Hospital bed came today.
Ann went in to the hospital 10/23 by ambulance and they took blood test and show that her kidney was at 90% failure. They said she would only last couple of days. they di also blood gas and show ph and carbon dioxide in her ystem because her bad lung. So they put a cpass on her to keep her lung open to get rid of the carbon dioxide. Then they move her to ICU gave her fluidhope to get her kidneys working again.
The kidney never didn't start back up again. We asked the nurse about the cpass on her said it keep her lung blown up so she could beath. Her daughter and I talk it over and said the cpass was the same thing but without the tube down her and that she didn't want that. So we told the nurse to take it off and within 20 minute it was over and she went to heaven. She died around 11.30 pm. on October 23.
I like to thank all our friends on Findagrave for their kinds thought, prays. I like to thanks the ones that was kind enough to send card. I like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year thank you all for you thoughts, prays and support for us.
Thank you Reilly for sponsoring my sister Barbara's memorial.
Thank you Delita for sponsoring my mother's memorial.
RE: Hi Cari Clair, It's good to hear from you! I know that you understand what it's like to be the caregiver of a spouse who is dying. It's the most difficult thing that I've ever had to do. John is holding his own. Two weeks ago John told his nurse, "I have seen my God and it's beautiful and peaceful, but he sent me back!" Even the hospice nurses are puzzled. One day he is fine and the next day he is having another stroke. It's a true roller coaster ride of emotions. Today, John is having some difficulty thinking so I believe that another stroke is on the way. Ann always had a way of making me feel better. She always knew just the right thing to say. I miss her so much every day! God Bless You and Your Family. How's Jovanni doing? Cari
Ann and Jovanni Clair, I just stopped by the leave a flower for Ann. I miss her terribly! It always comforted me when I could chat with her! How is Jovanni doing? I keep all of you in our prayers! Blessings to you and your Family this Easter Season! God Bless You! Cari
Thank You Thank You very much in your visits and especially your visit token for, my mother in law, Angel Day. Each are greatly appreciated. She has an April wedding anniversary., May Birthday. We always celebrated each with her in a southern big way to make it special as She.
We are so sorry for your great loss of your loving wife. There are no adequate words in your loss but please know we care about you and your family.
Thank you Hi Clair, Thank you very much for leaving a token for Minnie McGee, I love and miss her so much. I TRULY APPRECIATE IT WILL ALL MY HEART. I've added your loved ones to my memorial visits & added you as a friend, if that's ok. =0) Once again THANK YOU and blessings to you & your family. Anna