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sr/ks (#46847659)
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Bio Photo First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.

I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.

Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.

I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.

If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.

If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.

If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?

And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.

Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.

Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.

On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.

FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
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"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen

So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.

It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.

Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.

Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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kks
RE: Hello, just to let you know...
Thanks for the information. I appreciate it.
Added by kks on Mar 03, 2015 9:08 AM
kks
RE: Hello, just to let you know...
Thank you very much for posting the photos. How did you happen to come across the Ewert graves? Better is a 1st cousin 2x removed, but I am very attached to the Beaton family as my grandmother was a Beaton.
Do you have a clear copy of the two photos you posted?

Thank you,
Kendra
Added by kks on Mar 03, 2015 2:29 AM
Raymond Ressler
Henry Andrew
All changes made for Rev Henry W "Harry" Andrew
please check and let me know if there anything else
Thanks for you cooperation
Added by Raymond Ressler on Feb 21, 2015 1:42 PM
Bernard C Carey
RE: thank you
Hi. I have a family history binder that a man named Earle Scheidy did back in the 1950's for the Sheidy/Scheidy family reunions that used to take place annually in the Bern Township area. He had a bunch of photos in that binder. I got it from my grandfather, who was a Sheidy.

Charlie
Added by Bernard C Carey on Feb 20, 2015 12:31 PM
Len M
Steward Barlip Photo
I want to say thanks a million for your recent post of Steward Barlip's photo. He is my great, great grandfather. Are we related somehow? His daughter, Helen M. E. Green (Barlip), is my great grandmother. I have been searching for years with no luck trying to find out what Steward looks like. Is there any chance you have any more photos of Steward or his wife, or other information aside from what's available on Ancestry or public records? I'm also very interested in his father, Peter Barlieb, if you happen to have any leads on or photos of him. Peter is a Civil War Veteran who fought with the 153rd & 76th PA. Again, I cannot thank you enough for posting this photo!

-Len Macikonycz
Added by Len M on Feb 19, 2015 8:21 PM
totapaint
RE: a query...
You were looking for information about Leopoldo Chavez.
Added by totapaint on Feb 10, 2015 8:09 AM
totapaint
RE: a query...
My apologies. I have not been active in FindAGrave for quite some time. Unfortunately I don't have any additional information about this individual.
Added by totapaint on Feb 09, 2015 6:22 PM
Gay (Parisano) Raab
Carnevale - Mt. Moriah
Hi!
Thank you so much for adding the information on Mt. Moriah burials to Find A Grave. Mt great-grandparents (the Carnevales) are buried there. On the page, it says that the writing is obscured on the source photo. Can you share that photo with me? I would love to see it. Thank you in advance. You have done wonders for folks looking for their loved ones!
Gay (Parisano) Raab
gayr1@optonline.net
Added by Gay (Parisano) Raab on Jan 21, 2015 2:51 PM
judy gumaer testa,gumaer family historian
Swartwood @ Pike Co, PA
Source for Death place - Deerpark, Suffolk Co, NY, please. It should be Town of Deepark, Orange County, New York. a distance of abt 25 miles from burial sight & location of Grandfather of subject's grandfather's Patent. feel free to email jgumaertesta(at)hotmail (dot)com
Added by judy gumaer testa,gumaer ... on Jan 13, 2015 10:09 PM
Kim Puckett Martin
Harold Pier McBride
I am looking to see if you have any information on Harold. I am the daughter of Fay and granddaughter of Betty as listed in 1940 census
Added by Kim Puckett Martin on Jan 07, 2015 1:59 PM
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