|Bonita Olmer (#46798970)|
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When I was young, my mother had a shoe box and a shirt size gift box full of photos that she kept in the linen closet. Every so often, I would ask if we could get them out and go through them. We would sit at the kitchen table with the photos in a heap. My sisters and I would ask who the people were, and Mom would tell us about them. That was probably what first sparked my interest in genealogy.|
I began actively digging for information to put my family tree together in 1981. My Aunt Frances Herbold had been at it for decades by that time. A lot of time and legwork was involved when she was doing her work. There was no Internet. She wrote scores of letters to people, asking for information. She must have spent hours and hours looking through old rolls of microfilm, which could easily cause a person to go blind or insane, or both. Aunt Frances, God bless her, furnished me with a bare bones genealogy to start with. When she passed away, my Uncle sent all of her genealogy materials to me.
Many years passed, and little by little my family tree grew. Then one day I was watching the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina on CNN. I was horrified to see the devastation, but what struck me most was that so many people had lost every picture, every slip and scrap of paper they ever had. I thought of all the family photos, letters and documents I had accumulated over the years. It was hard for me to imagine I could experience such a loss, but it got me started looking for a way to preserve and share these things with others who might be interested.
A short time later, I discovered findagrave. While I haven't posted everything, a large part of my family tree is here. Findagrave is a wonderful place to preserve and share information and photos and to honor those who came before us. That is the reason I do what I do here. I have also met a lot of new cousins here.
My husband and I live just north of Seattle, Washington. I have adopted Holyrood Catholic Cemetery as the one I work on almost exclusively now. I finished entering the names, burial dates and grave locations (from the Catholic Cemetery website) for all of the burials there in late February, 2012. Now I'm working on taking and posting grave photos. As of
May 21, 2013, 29%
August 29, 2013, 37%
September 14, 2013, 38%
October 2, 2013, 39%
October 18, 2013, 40%
November 9, 2013, 41%
December 1, 2013, 42%
January 8, 2013, 43%
January 25, 2014, 44%
February 10, 2014, 45%
February 28, 2014, 46%
March 10, 2014, 47%
March 21, 2014, 48%
March 31, 2014, 49%
April 10, 2014, 50%
April 20, 2014, 51%
April 28, 2014, 52%
May 8, 2014, 53%
May 16, 2014, 54%
May 26, 2014, 55%
June 6, 2014, 56%
June 22, 2014, 57%
July 7, 2014, 59%
July 23, 2014, 61%
July 27, 2014, 62%
August 4, 2014, 63%
August 11, 2014, 64%
August 21, 2014, 65%
August 30, 2014, 66%
September 5, 2014, 67%
September 14, 2014, 68%
September 25, 2014, 69%
October 3, 2014, 70%
October 12, 2014, 71%
October 19, 2014, 72%
October 27, 2014, 73%
November 4, 2014, 74%
November 13, 2014, 75%
November 21, 2014, 76%
November 29, 2014, 77%
December 7, 2014, 78%
December 24, 2014, 79%
January 3, 2015, 80%
January 15, 2015, 81%
January 30, 2015, 82%
February 11, 2015, 83%
February 19, 2015, 84%
February 28, 2015, 85% *
March 18, 2015, 86%
April 19, 2015, 87%
May 10, 2015, 88%
May 18, 2015, 89%
May 25, 2015, 90%
May 31, 2015, 91%
June 9, 2015, 92%
June 17, 2015, 93%
June 25, 2015, 94%
July 2, 2015, 95%
July 7, 2015, 96%
July 14, 2015, 97%
July 29, 2015, 99%
of the memorial pages at Holyrood include grave photos or, when there is no visible marker, an area photo.
If you have suggestions or requests for transfers, please contact me using the "Edit" tab toward the top right hand corner of the person's memorial page. Making your request this way gives me all the information I need to fulfill your request. Please keep in mind that I will add any information or corrections you send me, but I will also credit you as the contributor of that information. I do this because I don't have time to confirm all the information people send to me, and the question, "Where did you get your information?" is answered right there on the page. If you don't have a findagrave ID, I will use your email address when crediting you as contributor of information.
I love taking grave photos at Holyrood. You can contact me directly if you would like for me to get a grave photo, or you can make your photo request from a person's memorial page. If you see an inferior grave photo that I have taken, feel free to ask me to try to get a better one, and I will.
For me, this is not about collecting a huge number of memorials. It is about trying to help people find their loved ones. I hate to think anyone is forgotten. It is, as I said before, about memorializing and honoring those who have gone before us. I would like nothing more than to see all memorial pages in the loving care of family or friends.
If I'm being honest though, I have to say my least favorite transfer request is: "Please transfer my relative." I have transferred to people based on this kind of request, and the result is less than satisfying. No information or photos are added; no family connections made; they do not respond to edit requests, and I wonder why the person thought they wanted to maintain the memorial page in the first place.
My favorite transfer request goes something like this: "So-and-so was a family friend. We lived next door to her for many years. She was like a second mother to me. I remember when... Birth Date: xxx; Birth Place: xxx; Maiden Name: xxx, etc. I have also added a photo of her." Transfer requests like this will be made in a heartbeat. I love learning something about every person in Holyrood (my adopted cemetery). I smile every time I think about the feisty little lady in Holyrood who stabbed her abusive husband in the neck, and the photo on her memorial page is a mug shot (although you can't tell at first glance). And there are others... so many others.
Names I am working on:
~ Every Herbold group I can find ~
Berardi ~ Nigro ~ Zeek ~ Ellis ~ Edgerton ~
Lytle ~ Olmer ~ Vassar/Vasser ~ Dowell ~
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|Mr. Jean Coston||Mario Nieves|
The name in the short obit is spelled Maria.
Would you check this first name spelling and let
Maria Nieves, of 14116 104th Place N. E., died August 4, 1970. Requiem Mass Thursday, 9:30 a. m., St. Brenday's Church, under direction, Bothell Funeral Home. Interment, Holyrood.
|Tom Schoening||Catherine Merz|
Bonita, Thanks for taking the time to process the links to Catherine's family.
|Mr. Jean Coston||RE: William St. Germain|
|Mr. Jean Coston||RE: William St. Germain|
|Mr. Jean Coston||RE: William St. Germain|
|Mr. Jean Coston||William St. Germain|
Is his tomb stone there and covered up by sod?
In the past I have cut sod, put it off to one side,
raised the stone, put the sod down and put the stone
back down. This raised the ston and made it readable.
|Shannon D.||RE: Eileen M. Donohue's Father|
I realized my mistake and fixed it. I had linked her to her grandfather making her father her brother. Thanks for catching the mistake. Next time I re-read before I submit. I am rechecking all my submits today.
|Irish O'Butte||Fred Emmet Walsh|
Thank you for transferring Fred's memorial I like to think he is back with his family. Thank you for creating the memorial and all the work you have done for others.
|Delores Sorenson||elmera russell #69155969|
Thank you so much for your entries. The memorial you created is my aunts first born that was separated from the family. If you would be so kind to either transfer memorial to me or add the birth date June 26, 1934 Pine River, Minnesota and death was 5/25/!992 Seattle, King,Washington, She passed from cancer.
I am curious as you stated the grave is shared by another person, what connection are they and why do they shares graves there? I work part-time at a cemetery so seems odd. even our paupers graves are not shared. thank you
|Dave Davenport||RE: ESTHER SIMARD-SEYMOUR 75729144|
AS A HOBBY I DESIGN FAMILY PICTURE GENEALOGY CHARTS FOR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. THE SIMARDS ARE ANCESTORS OF THE BRUSIK'S WHO I AM DOING A CHART FOR. WHEN WE DON'T HAVE A PICTURE OF THE ANCESTOR, I TRY TO LOCATE THE GRAVESTONE SO I CAN PUT SOMETHING NEXT TO THEIR NAME. I USE A COMPANY IN UTAH. www.familychartmasters.com to help with the design and printing. The charts are 24 X 36. Let me know if you are interested in seeing some of our charts. KEEPS ME BUSY AND OUT OF TROUBLE.
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