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Kathy (McPhaul) Cather (#46821758)
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Bio Photo May 2011
Thank you again to all who continue to visit my angel momma and other memorials. Your thoughtfulness is always appreciated.

If you have time, this Memorial Day, please visit my step son's Fallen Battalion Brothers of the 3/25th Marines who lost their lives in Iraq in 2005. (Virtual Cemetery 10) My step son is being re-deployed this summer. Please keep him in your prayers.

May each of you be abundantly blessed!! XOXO


~~ Dear Ancestor ~~
Your tombstone stands among the rest, neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out on polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care; it is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist; You died, and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you: in flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled one hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

--Author Unknown


1 Dec 2009: Posted a Memorial for my friend and well known Paralympian, RANDY SNOW. Please pay him a visit if you have the time and keep his family in your prayers. Thank you!!

June 17...Posted my mom's pics. They look AWSOME!!!..Unfortunately had to delete some of her paintings...:-(

June 8, 2009

Thank you so very much for taking so much time to share your insights with me. FindAGrave is a TRUE Godsend!!!! and it is people like you, who reach out to complete strangers, that make it that way!!

Currently researching ALL McPHAULs, CATHERs and FITZWILLIAMs (regardless of Ancestry, Line, Race, Religion, Etc. ) and their descendants. Would LOVE to hear from you!
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Linda Davis
RE: Julian Earle Conoly
I didn't even know I was filling a photo request!

I just took some random photos from the car window as we drove through the cemetery....visiting the area. Later back home, I looked to see if any memorial needed a photo...only three did as most had been photographed some time ago. I posted Julian's and BINGO an auto reply appeared thanking for filling the request. Well, that was a surprise for me!

You may use the photo as you please.

Have blessed day.
Added by Linda Davis on Oct 25, 2014 8:41 PM
Valenciaღ Angel of Mine 💕
~♡~ A note to say thank you for remembering my daughter's birthday. It means so much to me that Valencia was thought of on her special day, and continue to show your remembrance and support ~♡~

{{{Hugs}}} Yo

Added by Valenciaღ Angel of ... on Oct 21, 2014 4:43 PM
Chris Cintron
RE: Mary Alford

You are welcome and certainly use it any way you wish. Some of the headstone pics are the only ones I have of my ancestors.

There was a huge family plot with a lot of stones. If you ever need the others let me know.


Added by Chris Cintron on Oct 15, 2014 5:24 PM
Kevin Mittge
RE: Capt Harland Robert Morris
Yes, I'm a distant cousin. I'm tracing all the descendants of my Oregon Trail families and finally found some of the Morris's, back in D.C.! Kevin
Added by Kevin Mittge on Oct 13, 2014 11:02 AM
Jerry Swain
RE: Dr Thomas Cornelius Jeffords
I'm happy I could fulfill your requests. Don't hesitate to call on me if I can help you again.
Added by Jerry Swain on Oct 07, 2014 7:15 AM
Unpaid Taxi Driver
Re: Catharine McPhaul McArthur
I fixed it.

Added by Unpaid Taxi Driver on Oct 05, 2014 2:28 PM
RE: Col George Warren Kinney
You aren't alone...I've found nearly 400 of that same typo today!
Added by yentnawildrose on Oct 04, 2014 5:57 PM
RE: Transfer
Thank you so much!
Barbara Martin
Added by BaBa on Sep 28, 2014 5:50 PM
RE: Nimricks
I think you must be talking about Rose Katherine Martin Nimricks.
Rose Katherine just died in Feb. (I thought I asked for that correction also??)I just found out that she had died this past week after e-mailing her daughter. I think Rose Katherine is the last cousin of that generation, since her cousin, my father died last year.
I had sent something funny that my Daddy had said when he was a teenager, that I thought Rose Katherine would think was funny AND she would know the rest of the story! I'm so sad I couldn't share it with her.
Sorry, I know that is more then you wanted to know!
Thank you for asking!
Barbara J Martin
Added by BaBa on Sep 28, 2014 5:31 PM
Rick Foster
Harry McPhaul in Highland Park
I researched at the office and confirmed that all graves located in section 300 are in Potters Field. Which the poor were buried and none have markers. I do have a photo of the overgrown field if you want me to post it.
Added by Rick Foster on Sep 04, 2014 11:45 PM
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