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Bonita Olmer (#46798970)
 member for 8 years, 11 months, 13 days
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Bio Photo When I was young, my mother had a shoe box and a shirt size gift box full of photos that she kept in the linen closet. Every so often, I would ask if we could get them out and go through them. We would sit at the kitchen table with the photos in a heap. My sisters and I would ask who the people were, and Mom would tell us about them. That was probably what first sparked my interest in genealogy.

I began actively digging for information to put my family tree together in 1981. My Aunt Frances Herbold had been at it for decades by that time. A lot of time and legwork was involved when she was doing her work. There was no Internet. She wrote scores of letters to people, asking for information. She must have spent hours and hours looking through old rolls of microfilm, which could easily cause a person to go blind or insane, or both. Aunt Frances, God bless her, furnished me with a bare bones genealogy to start with. When she passed away, my Uncle sent all of her genealogy materials to me.

Many years passed, and little by little my family tree grew. Then one day I was watching the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina on CNN. I was horrified to see the devastation, but what struck me most was that so many people had lost every picture, every slip and scrap of paper they ever had. I thought of all the family photos, letters and documents I had accumulated over the years. It was hard for me to imagine I could experience such a loss, but it got me started looking for a way to preserve and share these things with others who might be interested.

A short time later, I discovered findagrave. While I haven't posted everything, a large part of my family tree is here. Findagrave is a wonderful place to preserve and share information and photos and to honor those who came before us. That is the reason I do what I do here. I have also met a lot of new cousins here.

My husband and I live just north of Seattle, Washington. I have adopted Holyrood Catholic Cemetery as the one I work on almost exclusively now. I finished entering the names, burial dates and grave locations (from the Catholic Cemetery website) for all of the burials there in late February, 2012. Now I'm working on taking and posting grave photos. As of

May 21, 2013, 29%
August 29, 2013, 37%
September 14, 2013, 38%
October 2, 2013, 39%
October 18, 2013, 40%
November 9, 2013, 41%
December 1, 2013, 42%
January 8, 2013, 43%
January 25, 2014, 44%
February 10, 2014, 45%
February 28, 2014, 46%
March 10, 2014, 47%
March 21, 2014, 48%
March 31, 2014, 49%
April 10, 2014, 50%
April 20, 2014, 51%
April 28, 2014, 52%
May 8, 2014, 53%
May 16, 2014, 54%
May 26, 2014, 55%
June 6, 2014, 56%
June 22, 2014, 57%
July 7, 2014, 59%

of the memorial pages at Holyrood include grave photos. When people contact me with additional information, requests for transfers or photo requests, that's when I look for more information on a person or surname, including obituaries.

If you have suggestions or requests for transfers, please contact me using the "Edit" tab toward the top right hand corner of the person's memorial page. Select the first option you see; then tell me what you would like for me to do. Making your request this way ensures that I have all the information I need to fulfill your request. Please keep in mind that I will add any information or corrections you send me, but I will also credit you as the contributor of that information. If you don't have a findagrave ID, then I will use your email address when giving you credit as the contributor.

I love taking grave photos at Holyrood. You can contact me directly if you would like for me to get a grave photo, or you can make your photo request from a person's memorial page. If you see an inferior grave photo that I have taken, feel free to ask me to try to get a better one, and I will.

It's not about the numbers with me. It's about trying to help people find their loved ones. I hate to think that anyone is forgotten. It is, as I said before, about memorializing and honoring those who have gone before us. I would like nothing more than to see all memorial pages in the loving care of family members.

Names I am working on:

~ Every Herbold group I can find ~
Berardi ~ Nigro ~ Zeek ~ Ellis ~ Edgerton ~
Lytle ~ Olmer ~ Vassar/Vasser ~ Dowell ~
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niki cotton
Leonard Leroy Miller
WONDERFUL! Thank you so much for the photo and how quickly you were able to get it done.

Niki (Miller) Cotton

(and thanks for adding my little contribution)
Added by niki cotton on Jul 10, 2014 7:12 AM
Bob # 46991349
RE: Rose Neals Grave Photo
You are very welcome.

One of their sons, Rodger Trenell Neals [04/01/1970 in Alameda county - 04/26/1991 in Alameda county], is buried in the next row. The graves are head to head.

Added by Bob # 46991349 on Jul 08, 2014 7:26 PM
Carol Zobel
RE: Helen Malneritch
I deleted one of the photos. Thanks for catching that. Carol
Added by Carol Zobel on Jul 07, 2014 10:46 PM
Carol Tenzler
Thank you for the photo of Carol's marker. I appreciate you taking the time to do this for me. Red
Added by Red on Jul 04, 2014 6:58 AM
T. J. Collins
Koenigs' burial fixed
Hi Bonita,
Thanks for the heads up for Mathias and Rose Koenigs. I got them on Calvary Cemetery in Seattle. Thanks for the obits for Mathias and Rose.

Sincerely yours, T. J. Collins!
Added by T. J. Collins on Jul 02, 2014 10:50 PM
Dorothy Theresia (Sterling) Grittner
Thank you for updating the memorial for Dorothy Theresia (Sterling) Grittner. God bless you for your kindness and helpfulness to the families and relatives through Find-A-Grave.
Added by 1web1 on Jun 29, 2014 1:10 PM
Glenn Fleming
Mary Zuch

Hi Bonita,

Thank you for letting me know I had placed the same 2 pictures on Mary's memorial of her stone.Slow computer and inpatience led to that error.Lol.


Glenn Fleming
Added by Glenn Fleming on Jun 28, 2014 4:15 PM
Doy G
James Prendergast
Thank you so much for the pic of his headstone!!! Doy
Added by Doy G on Jun 27, 2014 11:32 AM
Just a Thank you note.
Added by Betty on Jun 26, 2014 12:10 PM
Every Person Counts
Victor David Lee
Thank you Bonita for adding the pictures on Mr. Lee's site. They look beautiful! God Bless!
Added by Every Person Counts on Jun 22, 2014 8:28 AM
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