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Neil B (John 3:16) (#46794418)
 member for 9 years, 10 months, 10 days
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Bio Photo Thank you in advance for visiting my sister, Sandy
and my mother, Elsie.

I am so grateful to everyone that leaves flowers for them.

One of my hobbies is Wheres

When time permits, please leave flowers for the following:

May 4 Susannah Foster

May 7 William Kimble

May 8 Roland Danforth

May 9 Fred Cox

May 12 Curtis Allen


This is a poem that I stumbled upon (author unknown):

Always a silent hurt,
many a silent tear,
but always a beautiful memory
of one we loved so dear.

God gave us strength to bear it,
and courage to take the blow,
but what it meant to lose you one will ever know.


I was born and raised in Norfolk, VA. I've lived in FL, NY, CA, WA, and OR.

I found Find A Grave by accident. It has become one of my favorite sites to visit. It has given me a place that I can remember my mother and my sister Sandy and honor their memory right from my desk. Thank you Find A Grave.

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."
John 3:16

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Strangers in the Box
By Pamela A. Harazim

Come, look with me inside this drawer,
In this box I've often seen,
At the pictures, black and white,
Faces proud, still, serene.
I wish I knew the people,
These strangers in the box,
Their names and all their memories
Are lost among my socks.
I wonder what their lives were like.
How did they spend their days?
What about their special times?
I'll never know their ways.
If only someone had taken time
To tell who, what, where, when,
These faces of my heritage
Would come to life again.
Could this become the fate
Of the pictures we take today?
The faces and the memories
Someday to be tossed away?
Make time to save your pictures,
Seize the opportunity when it knocks,
Or someday you and yours could be
The strangers in the box.


"If you could see your ancestors
All standing in a row,
There might be some of them, perhaps,
You wouldn't want to know.

But, here's another question, which
Requires another view,
If you could meet your ancestors,
Would they be proud of you?"

-Arkansas Parent-Teacher
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Barbara Wilson Krause
Shirley Mae Wilson Scott's memorial
Thank you for adding a flower to my sister's memorial. Your kind deed so much appreciated.
Added by Barbara Wilson Krause on May 05, 2015 9:21 AM
Barbara Wilson Krause
Shirley Mae Wilson Scott's memorial
Thank you for adding a flower to my sister's memorial. Your kind deed so much appreciated.
Added by Barbara Wilson Krause on May 05, 2015 9:12 AM
💗V Kowald Blaise💗
Thank you :)
Thank you so very much for coming to my loved one's memorial pages...that was so very kind of you! *hugs*
Added by 💗V Kowald Blaise&... on May 04, 2015 8:47 AM
Linda Allen
RE: Arthur Rose's online memorial
Your welcome....
Added by Linda Allen on May 04, 2015 7:09 AM
James Albert Grayson memorial
I have long appreciated your visits and tokens for my family members, and even said, "Thank you." Sometimes I'm a little slow on the uptake... it took until this evening for it to click that you left a token of the Pink Panther playing the sax, just like my grandfather was doing in a photo on his memorial. I just loved that. My grandfather was celebrating the birth of my mother. The Pink Panther was just celebrating! Thank you again, especially for today's chuckle. I needed it!
Added by CarmasKid on May 02, 2015 10:20 PM
Bruce Otto
Benjamin Kellogg b:1744,d:1824
Visited Austerlitz Cemetery in Columbia County, New York but did not find Benjamin Kellogg. However, found Olive Kellogg (1814-1900) wife of Alanson Osborne (1813-1892). pic available
Added by Bruce Otto on Apr 25, 2015 6:17 AM

Added by Reilly on Apr 22, 2015 6:49 AM
c d
Are we related?
Hi Neil,

What a nice the poetry.

I noticed you left flowers for my G-Grandfather,
Joseph Dames. Are we related?

Added by c d on Apr 18, 2015 4:55 PM
nancy murray
find a grave
Neil, would you be related to any of the Dents in Longview Cemetery, Weatherford, Texas?
Added by nancy murray on Apr 13, 2015 6:39 PM
caroline irvin
Thank you, Neil,
I am so grateful for you taking time to spread much joy to my ancestors and my family by sharing your generous love and giving to others that you do so well. I have found information and really appreciate the pictures of Buck Cemetery as sad as they may be. I guess the headstones are gone or else unreadable. I have the surname of "Boyer" instead of "Bayer". Thoughts and prayers for strength for you and your family.

#38269072 and #382699114

Caroline Irvin
Added by caroline irvin on Apr 12, 2015 3:03 PM
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